When your pet is becoming a pest, what should you do?

I mean when a loving relationship is becoming a nightmare, should you wake up and save yourself from the demon?

I am addressing a common problem in many relationships among singles and married couples.

Both men and women do everything possible to win the love of their partner. But later you would be disappointed by the unloving or uncomfortable personality of your partner.

No man asking a woman to go out with him does so by slapping her. But sooner or later after she has agreed, he now shows his true colours of the fiery furies, screaming, slapping and kicking her. And the man does not respect her again.

You don't like or love him or her again?
Finis.
But leaving could be dangerous to you or to her.
How do you save yourself without hurting your partner?

When your pet is becoming a pest, what should you do?

I mean when a loving relationship is becoming a nightmare, should you wake up and save yourself from the demon?

I am addressing a common problem in many relationships among singles and married couples.

Both men and women do everything possible to win the love of their partner. But later you would be disappointed by the unloving or uncomfortable personality of your partner.

No man asking a woman to go out with him does so by slapping her. But sooner or later after she has agreed, he now shows his true colours of the fiery furies, screaming, slapping and kicking her. And the man does not respect her again.

You don't like or love him or her again?
Finis.
But leaving could be dangerous to you or to her.
How do you save yourself without hurting your partner?

i will just move on with my life

@orikinla

you seems to bring my past life back, but i have notice we do it to ourseves, we choose the same type of men over and over again and it always ends the same way.


so now i no longer go for Mr tall dark and handsome i simply choose a man who respect me as long as he is not short.


@topic i am a fighter any man mad enough to hit will end up six foot under or very near to there, if i can't beat him when he is awake i will wait until he is asleep. nuff said. 

Coco29:



@topic i am a fighter any man mad enough to hit will end up six foot under or very near to there, if i can't beat him when he is awake i will wait until he is asleep. nuff said.

word !

Coco29,
You got the most important thing-respect.

Don't put up with anyone who does not respect you.
Finis.

No respect, no trust.
No trust, no love.
No love, no peace.

this is one mistake women do when they are in an abusive realationship instead of them to leave and move one they are always saying the man is going to change. Yeah he is going to change but after her has punched the living hell outta ya nad done all source of things to ya thats when he will change but me for instance i can never stay in an abusive relationship cos i'm just not that kind of person i'm just gon move on with my life and forget that chapter of it

The one I saw was terrible.
She endured for over 14 years and he dumped her in Nigeria and now trying to deceive another woman in another country.

She must have gotten some bad advice. Love is not meant to be endured, it's to be enjoyed. Shame.

thanx gurl

no need hanging around and hoping for a miracle that might not happen,you just move on.

Life's full of ups and downs.
so when such thing happens, you should know that it's life.
Just move on

My advice is get out of a house on fire before it is too late.

well you can hang in there , there might be good tims coming ahead

Good times like the sweet, sweet realease of death? No, thank you.

No friend of mine is staying in an abusive relationship, even if she's married. No way!

@seun,a man dat ll raise his hand on his woman is considerd weak by me cos there r better ways of addressin issues witout d fist