Blackett:
Talk to her about it first. Make her understand how pissed off you are about that attitude, and if she keeps it up, you can quit.

justmag:
The moment she thought she was "INSPECT YOUR GADGET"....you should have left her. If there is no trust then what do you really have??

elantraceey:
She just have an issue with trust probably from past relationship, try to talk to her about it at least in a polite way so she won't think you have something to hide.

For you to consider quitting over a minor issue like this then I don't think you love her.

charlesikhalea:



Av spoken to her about countless times. she even accuses me of cheating just cos I asked her to go easy on my privacy. Before I drop this issue here bros I done tire, imagine she even checks my bank Alerts to know exactly how much I av in my account,as in there's a code u text for Gtbank to get ur balance, she does that too.

lordizak:
for me its right. my babe dey off data when she dey with me, cos of chat, as android users I go say make I give her film, she no know say na hot spot things. Whatsapp messages go begin troop in, me on the other hand I draw a line as to how far I go with the opposite sex. my babe dey even ask guy to play truth or dare at 2 am with a guy on Whatsapp. trust is actually earned.

damseyl:
over Protective, lol. don't get upset, that's Just the kind of girl she is.

its her personality.

Tunnamania:
You gave her the impression to suspect u, check your doings.

buygala:
Get rid of her immediately

A girl who is that insecure has underlying mental problems.... A bit of jealousy is good for any relationship.... But when it comes to the serial-killer kind of stalking, then the handshake has definitely gone beyond the elbow

But another issue is..

Most girls who are as insecure as your girlfriend don't take breakups in good faith.. They tend to be destructive or even suicidal.... If op really wants to walk away from her, he had better do so tactfully in order to avoid stories that touch

charlesikhalea:


Lolz ure funny bro, the only impression I gave is that I make a living by fixing and styling female hair. is that a wrong DOINGS?

Tunnamania:

I said it,my supposition was right .
Your occupation alone is enough reason for her insecurity, all u need to do is to assure her that she owns u.
You can do that by using her pictures as dp on your bbm, WhatsApp, Facebook, even nairaland .

charlesikhalea:


I don't understand bro, u think its right for her to go tru all my chats and messages?

charlesikhalea:


I don't understand bro, u think its right for her to go tru all my chats and messages?

charlesikhalea:


Well I used to do that, until I noticed she never uses mine on her dp.

lordizak:

I don't password my phone, I don't low my ringtone, I don't keep secrets from her. how does trust work if one person is worried what the other might discover about them? I can't fathom why being uptight will you life partner.