Rolly83:

Wow,very lovely analysis.... I like this...@Op,please take note!

I got married at 22, my wife was 20 then, have my first daughter at 23 and the second at 26, now 27. Marriage don't come come wothout its challenge, but No regret

kai....where in soton r u....seems i missed u by more than a,year... There should b so much people @ d commons @ dis time of d year

Rolly83:
Its was very cold earlier in the year...I miss Naija tho....

35 is just too okay!

to me i think thirty the least but before thirty try and make dough enough i mean do shit with ur brain and moral and pray to GOD for guidance.

afeezmore:
to me i think thirty the least but before thirty try and make dough enough i mean do shit with ur brain and moral and pray to GOD for guidance.

who dey change my post 4 here nah

Marry when your mind tells you to marry Gbam!

obitee69:


Your idea of responsibility is financial. Anyone can decide to be responsible but can u back it up financially? E.g rent hall for wedding, house rent for a 3 bed, marriage rites, having a kid etc. Can you do all that if you earn only 3million per annum?

u earn 3 million per annum and you are complaining of finance?? please they are people who earn less than that and they go by just fine.and u won't foot the bills alone if Ur wife is working.

obitee69:
I'v been pondering what the right age is for a guy to get married. I'm 27 and my parents say I'm getting old lol. I stay alone in a small apartment(1 bedroom), drives a good car and i'm a bit stable financially but anytime I reason the bills that comes with marriage and the numerous responsibility, I go just tire. E.g. Moving out from my 1bed to a 3bed in my area will need I cough out 1.5M for rent. Chei. I can see why many men are not ready. . What ur take on this guys?

30-31

scachy:

If u keep waiting until u can be able to sort out all financial responsibility that comes with marriage without a blink of an eyes, or until u earn 10m per annum, then u ll marry at 40 or above.have u not seen road side mechanics, motorists n people doing one menial job or another settling down n taking good core of their family. Have u think all no that line? U build ur family according to ur income, children don't grow overnight, before dia financial demands ll get high, u must v been more financially stabilized too.

So because motorists, mechanics and vulcanisers are married, then it means any body should just wake up one morning and get married.

No wonder, we have lots of born troway in the society all because of I must get married, no matter what.

@Op,get married when you're ready financially and emotionally.

many say you dont need to have alot of money to get married
some say u dnt even need to build a house first
some say you dnt need to wait until a certain age



but wat they dont say is this

are you spiritually sound enough to go into it?
can u endure hardships
are u willing to make sacrifices
do you see urself as a role model to your kids
can u handle arguments and fights?

being financially capable is just a tip of the iceberg in driving a marriage union.... when a man is humble enough, Godfearing enough, morally sound enough, patient enough, gentle enough, etc... then and only then is he ready for marriage. be 30, 40, 50 0r even 60 years.

If it's not for the sake of having children I for bone marriage jor.

IamLEGEND1:
have someone chop off ur dìck, the matter wont weigh on ur mind anymore

yeye dey worry u. Be serious for once

misssclassy:
There is no right age to get married. But rather, there is a right time to get married.
What you should ask yourself is if this is the right time for you to get married.

In my opinion, the right time for a man to get married is when he is stable in every or most areas of his life.
There are certain criteria that has to be met before any man dabbles into marriage.

Such criteria include:
Financial stability
Emotional stability
Being able to make good decisions and judgments
Being mature enough to be in a relationship.
Being able to understand what marriage and being a husband and a father entails.
Being able to be a father figure to your children. Both financially and other wise
Having the desire to get married.

When these criteria are met, then are man is ready for marriage.

Not minding your often tirade, the size of brain behind the moniker misssclassy is gargantuan.

Cool!!

I think 28yrs is Ok

obitee69:


Your idea of responsibility is financial. Anyone can decide to be responsible but can u back it up financially? E.g rent hall for wedding, house rent for a 3 bed, marriage rites, having a kid etc. Can you do all that if you earn only 3million per annum?

3million?, what of teachers that earn less than a million per annum.

Mutuwa:
I got married at 26..
No regrets...

U're a muslim and so can't have regrets, com be christain make I see weda u go get mouth

From between 28 to 30 is ok for men;and women'from 18 to 25.

obitee69:


Your idea of responsibility is financial. Anyone can decide to be responsible but can u back it up financially? E.g rent hall for wedding, house rent for a 3 bed, marriage rites, having a kid etc. Can you do all that if you earn only 3million per annum?

Chai my guy, I need dat kind job o so dat I go. Show u say I fit use am marry , bcoos no b only lekki or island b d place man fit stay.

Rosemary216:
Lol,.... U neva see anytin.... Dere z no ideal age 4dat, weneva u feel u are ready to take all d responsibility den u can tink of it.

Not a bad idea though but going by your comment many will never feel they're ready.
it's just like waiting for the perfect time when in the real sense there's no perfect time.

As for me,it's set already...ain't going to turn 29 unmarried...28 it is

misssclassy:
There is no right age to get married. But rather, there is a right time to get married.
What you should ask yourself is if this is the right time for you to get married.

In my opinion, the right time for a man to get married is when he is stable in every or most areas of his life.
There are certain criteria that has to be met before any man dabbles into marriage.

Such criteria include:
Financial stability
Emotional stability
Being able to make good decisions and judgments
Being mature enough to be in a relationship.
Being able to understand what marriage and being a husband and a father entails.
Being able to be a father figure to your children. Both financially and other wise
Having the desire to get married.

When these criteria are met, then are man is ready for marriage.

Are you a guy?

If you current savings/ earnings / investments cannot take care of your kids and give them the best education in the world. Don't think about it yet.

scachy:

If u keep waiting until u can be able to sort out all financial responsibility that comes with marriage without a blink of an eyes, or until u earn 10m per annum, then u ll marry at 40 or above.have u not seen road side mechanics, motorists n people doing one menial job or another settling down n taking good core of their family. Have u think all no that line? U build ur family according to ur income, children don't grow overnight, before dia financial demands ll get high, u must v been more financially stabilized too.

You're soooo correct. The bible even says a farmer who watches the weather, never sows. Cut your coat according to your cloth.

Have a very modest wedding (people forget about it after a while sef, so why stress yourself), use your brain when kids come. They musnt attend 500k per term schools, put them somewhere decent and do heavy tutoring at home.

Op, whenever you're ready, do it. But if you meet the ONE, you'll know.

Mercylin:
I believe the normal age should be from 26-30... Provided you can afford 3 square meal a day plus snacks(as my councellor wud say).
Remember he that finds a wife, finds good thing and it attracts open doors/favours..

You can start saving towards your wedding.

one of ma guys talk say wedding these days na BOOBY trap

obitee69:


Your idea of responsibility is financial. Anyone can decide to be responsible but can u back it up financially? E.g rent hall for wedding, house rent for a 3 bed, marriage rites, having a kid etc. Can you do all that if you earn only 3million per annum?

guy,N3m per annum is more than enough for you to start up a family.

This question again? Well there are too many variables involved in this question to be given a precise answer. No two people's lives are the same but generally I would say any guy over 35 and not married is either sincerely unable to or simply not interested.

40 is not bad

obitee69:


Your idea of responsibility is financial. Anyone can decide to be responsible but can u back it up financially? E.g rent hall for wedding, house rent for a 3 bed, marriage rites, having a kid etc. Can you do all that if you earn only 3million per annum?

dats N 8219.17808/day and u can't marry?

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Atikubi:
Are you a guy?

No I am not. Why did you ask?

Atikubi:
Are you a guy?

No I am not. Why did you ask?

Kizmarty:


Not a bad idea though but going by your comment many will never feel they're ready.
it's just like waiting for the perfect time when in the real sense there's no perfect time.

As for me,it's set already...ain't going to turn 29 unmarried...28 it is

good luck wit dat. Dnt forget to send me d invitation card, will love to attend!