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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jun 07, 2015
alfredo4u:
I married at the age of 22 because I pregnanted her, no regrets. I have 2 cars no, my daughter is in primary 3. Living in 4bedroom flat in VI. Just depends on u

you really were brave,only a handful guys will take such bold step

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by peeta89(m): 10:56pm On Jun 07, 2015
misssclassy:
There is no right age to get married. But rather, there is a right time to get married.
What you should ask yourself is if this is the right time for you to get married.

In my opinion, the right time for a man to get married is when he is stable in every or most areas of his life.
There are certain criteria that has to be met before any man dabbles into marriage.

Such criteria include:
Financial stability
Emotional stability
Being able to make good decisions and judgments
Being mature enough to be in a relationship.
Being able to understand what marriage and being a husband and a father entails.
Being able to be a father figure to your children. Both financially and other wise
Having the desire to get married.

When these criteria are met, then are man is ready for marriage.
I like your post seriously. You sound like a marriage counsellor. if you are kindly add me up there is sth I wld like to discuss with you. My pin is 2bce2bd5 thanks and God bless you.
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by millionboi(m): 10:57pm On Jun 07, 2015
misssclassy:
There is no right age to get married. But rather, there is a right time to get married.
What you should ask yourself is if this is the right time for you to get married.

In my opinion, the right time for a man to get married is when he is stable in every or most areas of his life.
There are certain criteria that has to be met before any man dabbles into marriage.

Such criteria include:
Financial stability
Emotional stability
Being able to make good decisions and judgments
Being mature enough to be in a relationship.
Being able to understand what marriage and being a husband and a father entails.
Being able to be a father figure to your children. Both financially and other wise
Having the desire to get married.

When these criteria are met, then are man is ready for marriage.
ur criteria is too demandin
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jun 07, 2015
Why u dey rush to marry,guy enjoy life jare,highest u give girl belle put her on welfare..u too dey fear sef

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by iPopAlomo(m): 11:04pm On Jun 07, 2015
Freemanan:
Depends...
If you are from a well to do home - 26 You had to struggle (male) - 32 Wanna marry as an average Christian brother/sister -27 People like me - Flow with the wind Poor couples who wanna make a home by force - 29 Lucky Beautiful undergraduate (female) - 21 Undergraduate (male) - Nor think am..... Players - 41 BROTHER Simeon who has been praying - 43 Sister Theresa who has been praying -44
Generally. - 26...

So folks, pitch your tent...

Players... B)
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by goodgate: 11:05pm On Jun 07, 2015
classicB:
I use to envy young couple a lot. Its so cute!
If you have what it takes, there is nothing wrong getting married btw 25-27
Me i plan to get married at 24 to TEMILADE but i have had the courage to even say 'hi' to her, she's the girl on my profile. Pls can you help out?
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jun 07, 2015
grin
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jun 07, 2015
iPopAlomo:



Players... B)

You guilty?
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Mishydoo(m): 11:08pm On Jun 07, 2015
29/30...!

Am 27 nw,every1 arnd me keeps saying marriage dis marriage dat.......my mind be lyk....Shoro Niyen

Lyk jst wen am going good and startin to hv fun with cash I shld immediately begin to feed and house someone else.

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Lexusgs430: 11:08pm On Jun 07, 2015
Lucasbalo:
We are both alike in the sense that I figured that my mum has got no right to tell me whom I should get married to. They are best of friends now and my father never let my mum forget how opposed she was to the marriage. My folks are in Chicago now on holiday and guess my mum and wifey are out shopping . That's women for you.

Lol. A yoruba adage, nah pesin wey then flog me for, I must marry.
Glad we can look back and say, we told you so!!!

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by MRBODMAS(m): 11:10pm On Jun 07, 2015
Freemanan:
Depends...
If you are from a well to do home - 26 You had to struggle (male) - 32 Wanna marry as an average Christian brother/sister -27 People like me - Flow with the wind Poor couples who wanna make a home by force - 29 Lucky Beautiful undergraduate (female) - 21 Undergraduate (male) - Nor think am..... Players - 41 BROTHER Simeon who has been praying - 43 Sister Theresa who has been praying -44
Generally. - 26...

So folks, pitch your tent...
you *kelt* it mhen. Thumb up
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:11pm On Jun 07, 2015
obitee69:
I'v been pondering what the right age is for a guy to get married. I'm 27 and my parents say I'm getting old lol. I stay alone in a small apartment(1 bedroom), drives a good car and i'm a bit stable financially but anytime I reason the bills that comes with marriage and the numerous responsibility, I go just tire. E.g. Moving out from my 1bed to a 3bed in my area will need I cough out 1.5M for rent. Chei. I can see why many men are not ready. angry. What ur take on this guys?


HMMM, LET ME GIVE YOU A STORY.


WHEN I WAS LONG IN MY PRIME, I ASK MY GRANDFATHER THIS SAME QUESTION,


DO YOU WHAT HE SAID TO ME?


"SON, THE RIGHT AGE FOR YOU TO MARRY IS THE TIME YOU LOOK AT YOUR NEIGHBOR'S DAUGHTER AND SEE THAT HER BREA$T IS THE SIZE OF A MANGO AND YOUR CORK IS AS STRAIGHT AS A STICK AND YOU SAW THAT STICK BRINGING WATER AT THE END OF THE STEM, THAT'S THE DAY YOU ARE READY FOR MARRIAGE,"


he is dead now, my his soul rest in peace

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:12pm On Jun 07, 2015
jajainall:
27 yrs is pretty ok, even though I did mine @ 28 n enjoying it without regret . Praying for d Almighty to fulfill my dream of getting my son married @ 20, so that by d time he's 40; he shall have a son/daughter of 20yrs . My opinion
Oga in which country abeg?.is it Nigeria of today. For your son to get married @ 20. Better coach him b4 hand then. May God answer your humble prayer request.
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jun 07, 2015
MRBODMAS:
you *kelt* it mhen. Thumb up

Yes boss... your username scares the shit outta me... Hate Maths

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by nkemdi89(f): 11:15pm On Jun 07, 2015
obitee69:
I'v been pondering what the right age is for a guy to get married. I'm 27 and my parents say I'm getting old lol. I stay alone in a small apartment(1 bedroom), drives a good car and i'm a bit stable financially but anytime I reason the bills that comes with marriage and the numerous responsibility, I go just tire. E.g. Moving out from my 1bed to a 3bed in my area will need I cough out 1.5M for rent. Chei. I can see why many men are not ready. angry. What ur take on this guys?
Op come let's get married na, my parents have begin to remind me too, am having same fear with so that we will come back december and upload our wedding on NL.lol you go fear open advert.
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jun 07, 2015
nkemdi89:

Op come let's get married na, my parents have begin to remind me too, am having same fear with so that we will come back december and upload our wedding on NL.lol you go fear open advert.

Court has taken judicial notice
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jun 07, 2015
Viciyus:



HMMM, LET ME GIVE YOU A STORY.


WHEN I WAS LONG IN MY PRIME, I ASK MY GRANDFATHER THIS SAME QUESTION,


DO YOU WHAT HE SAID TO ME?


"SON, THE RIGHT AGE FOR YOU TO MARRY IS THE TIME YOU LOOK AT YOUR NEIGHBOR'S DAUGHTER AND SEE THAT HER BREA$T IS THE SIZE OF A MANGO AND YOUR CORK IS AS STRAIGHT AS A STICK AND YOU SAW THAT STICK BRINGING WATER AT THE END OF THE STEM, THAT'S THE DAY YOU ARE READY FOR MARRIAGE,"


he is dead now, my his soul rest in peace



Guy you no well. But really did your grandfather say that?
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by arinolaa(f): 11:19pm On Jun 07, 2015
obitee69:
I'v been pondering what the right age is for a guy to get married. I'm 27 and my parents say I'm getting old lol. I stay alone in a small apartment(1 bedroom), drives a good car and i'm a bit stable financially but anytime I reason the bills that comes with marriage and the numerous responsibility, I go just tire. E.g. Moving out from my 1bed to a 3bed in my area will need I cough out 1.5M for rent. Chei. I can see why many men are not ready. angry. What ur take on this guys?


I would say, if you haven't already found the girl of your dreams give yourself another 2 years to get to find her, know her and study her well. Also, why do you feel you need to move out of your house into a 3 bedroom?
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jun 07, 2015
dumo1:

Guy you no well. But really did your grandfather say that?
MY GRANDFATHER WAS A OLD FASHION MAN. HE ACTUALLY SAID THAT TO ME,
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jun 07, 2015
Maturity is in the heart not ur age,if u feel ur old enough to take responsibilities why not? Ur good to go. Besides,being married has a kinda blessing attached to it,God will give u a partner that will help u weather the storm.

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by charlesucheh(m): 11:24pm On Jun 07, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
have someone chop off ur dìck, the matter wont weigh on ur mind anymore
Guy! Haba! U see this dude for dream ni First to comment, first to blast!!Na wetin?
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by iPopAlomo(m): 11:26pm On Jun 07, 2015
Freemanan:

You guilty?
Of...? being a player...? never!!!
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:28pm On Jun 07, 2015
iPopAlomo:


Of...? being a player...? never!!!

Nothing to be scared of Mate.... Aii tho
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by RAKITIC: 11:30pm On Jun 07, 2015
otunsman:
If it's not for the sake of having children I for bone marriage jor.
we are on d same lane baba .... Marriage is OVERRATED

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by iPopAlomo(m): 11:32pm On Jun 07, 2015
Freemanan:


Nothing to be scared of Mate.... Aii tho


I see no logic behind marriage... shii is a deceptive façade... you want to be responsible... just give one girl belle...

When fear begin catch me nah when I see one girl finish two bottle of alomo and still stand well well...

All these women no be am...

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by nkemdi89(f): 11:32pm On Jun 07, 2015
Freemanan:


Court has taken judicial notice
Court kwa? Is it NL court or customary court.
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jun 07, 2015
nkemdi89:

Court kwa? Is it NL court or customary court.

FREEMAN DAVID COURT OF APPEAL
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by iPopAlomo(m): 11:34pm On Jun 07, 2015
otunsman:
If it's not for the sake of having children I for bone marriage jor.


Just be like me... give one girl belle... shikena... all these women... their eye dey chook...
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:37pm On Jun 07, 2015
@ OP


Society is a leach sometimes. Don't let people force you into something you would regret later in life. Take your time and ask yourself if you are ready to be a responsible person. Age has nothing to do with being a responsible man but taking time to carry other people's burden with self-control does. In a nutshell marriage is overrated and it comes with a big problem too. F**k society and f**k marriage. Please,mind your own business!

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by NAJALYN: 11:40pm On Jun 07, 2015
At age 27 you are set to go if the dough is available. You dont have to make it big. Cut your coat according to your size. Start saving, look for a reasonably cheap but nice accommodation, and you are set to go.

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Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by inception101(m): 11:40pm On Jun 07, 2015
obitee69:


Your idea of responsibility is financial. Anyone can decide to be responsible but can u back it up financially? E.g rent hall for wedding, house rent for a 3 bed, marriage rites, having a kid etc. Can you do all that if you earn only 3million per annum? embarassed
Werey re oooooooo!!!! So 3millz per annum isn't enough for a start?
Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Nobody: 11:49pm On Jun 07, 2015
MizzLoba:
There's no right for anybody. It's all about when one is emotionally ready.
im thinking of 35 o! cool

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