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my anty friend is have extra marital affairs which i don't like.how will i talk to her so that she not get offended

Plz tell me her name and age, so that i can help her.

dear poster,
your aunt or elder sister is having an extra marital affair and you dont know how to talk to her. If i were in your shoes this is what i will do:
1. I'll make sure i have enough evidence to proove that she is
2. If Our Mum is still alive or Our Elder or Youger sister, i will tell them
3. The two of us will tell her what we have observed or what we have found out as the case may be.
4. Tell her it is in her own best interest to stop it.
5. I will be ready to face the consequences( she might send me out of her house, stop paying my fees, hate me etc)
6. I will never tell her husband. I wont be responsible for the collapse of their marriage
7. I will never be afraid of saying the truth!

patwhizkid:
Plz tell me her name and age, so that i can help her.

are u really sure u not a magician, cos i dnt understand how u wnt to solve the problem with the name and age

"@ Mmababy

How did u know, that she had an extramarital affair.

Did she confide on you,

Do u need our advice or something personal

Yes charminme, i am a great magician, if she tells me the name and the age of that person, i will help her free of charge.

Na Patwhizkid be the poster aunty! She can confirm whether dem don catch am. . .

lol

Czarskit, u are looking 4 my trouble o

mmababy:
my anty friend is have extra marital affairs which i don't like.how will i talk to her so that she not get offended

As much as I don't condone her actions, I don't think it's your business. You think she doesn't know what she's doing is wrong? All she'll do is become more discreet with you. Believe me you don't want to get involved. Also don't disclose her philandering to anyone. You'll be blamed for wrecking a marriage.

@ pat the witch kid

Fear let me look 4 ur trouble I no want make u 'witchy' me oh! So Peace. . .

the best way to help your aunty's friend is to stay out of her business, if you dont like it, then look elsewhere or dont get involved with her. you don't have all the facts about what she is going through in her life or why she is doing it. if this is what she has chosen to do, then accept it.

Talk to a senior person in your family but please dont tell anybody that can not keep secrets. Your mom, dad, elder brother or sis, they will know how to go about it.

wish there was a fidelity drug. has she stopped this now?