MaryJane~:

@ Heat Fusion,

Thanks for responding, you really are a very understanding girl, it's good to know I'm not the only girl that has gone through this mess with Nigerian parents. Hey Sorry I've not been online for a while now, that's why I have not answered your question dear. While I'm 18 years too old and you wanted to know what sport I'm into. While I love track and filed, and I participate in a few events but my passion is lacrosse. I've always been in a term since middle school, it's not a very popular sport I know but I love it.

LOL, My pleasure girl. I know how impossible our Naija parents can be when it comes to being americanized and boys and what not.

Babe, plz, don't run away. That's the worst thing you can possibly do.

So what's the status of communication between you and you dad right now? Working it out?

You're a senior, you're almost out and will get a scholarship. Worry abt applying for college The best part of college is that you get to choose the distance
However, just because you're out does not mean to hang out with riffraff and behave out of conduct.

B.T.W, I was in track N Field in middle school and was in band too. I regretted quitting both when I got tohigh school. Messed me up! Could ave gotten more scholarship

Funny my dad and I are pretty cool at the moment, girl you know how the are, just ask them for a little money and the bring up the past like it was just yesterday. No Matter what though I love my old man, I just wish and I can send him to some kind of school around here to learn how to let got of the 19th century My dad is just the most OLD FASHIOEND person I know. But hey we love him


And I start college in the fall I can't wait, I'll be going to a school out here in South Cali sorry I can't give out info It's about 75 miles from the house and I'll be living with my cousin she's much older and has her own apartment and guess what the old man trusts her with me so I get to leave the house finally

I love band too but my mom would never let me go to band camp so the kicked me off

MaryJane~:

Funny my dad and I are pretty cool at the moment, girl you know how the are, just ask them for a little money and the bring up the past like it was just yesterday. No Matter what though I love my old man, I just wish and I can send him to some kind of school around here to learn how to let got of the 19th century My dad is just the most OLD FASHIOEND person I know. But hey we love him


And I start college in the fall I can't wait, I'll be going to a school out here in South Cali sorry I can't give out information It's about 75 miles from the house and I'll be living with my cousin she's much older and has her own apartment and guess what the old man trusts her with me so I get to leave the house finally

I love band too but my mom would never let me go to band camp so the kicked me off

Am happy for you, for real. So tell me, you won't run away o
You were just exaggerating right?

School for 19th cent? lmao, Eddie Griffin needs it more. Seems like the guy is stuck in the 70s

You live with your cousin jare. That's much better and it saves you loads of money. That's what I did. Junior year [Come summer] am moving on campus. Seems better Don't listen to those BS about living on campus during freshmen year being the best choice, no it ain't. They want money!

You see, you get to leave finally. But am telling you, no partying o. Or else am reporting you to your dad

Just take care of yourself and make the right choice

Girl you know how it is when you get so freaking mad at the old folks, shoot my ass can't get a place of my own at the moment and my broke ass boy friend starts school this fall too. All my relative here in Cali are just as backward as my dad. So for right now all I can do is get mad through a fit and sit my ass at home.

I'm really not that crazy about parties but her if I don't go to a few then I've just wasted my youth so "where's the party at"

Get angry, that's all we can do, baby.
But we still love them, that's all that matters

My school is partyville, I tell ya.
Don't know how am going to make it through living on campus.
Am not a party person but when you see so many fine men in one place, mehn, u just cant resist, right?
lol jk

It is customary 4 black men 2 run away 4rm their problems, but i tell u, no matters where they run 2 another problem awaits. Learn 2 cope, Learn 2 solve.

I went back and read all the op posts no where did see mention she wants to hang out with guys all night. Bushman at 18 there is nothing wrong with going out on a date with the opposite sex. GET OUT FROM THAT JUUGLE YOU LIFE IN, TIMES HAVE CHANGED. The poster is on a scholarship to go to college, do you know how many kids out there that don't want to work or go to school.

you are very stupid. She did say she wanted to go out on a saturday night but no where did I mention ALL night. open your eyes.

It's not fair, everytime I get into any kind of argument with my dad now, he threatens to sent me back  to Nigeria to live with my grandma. I can't even go out on a Saturday night with my friends from school without the thousand questions,

So because she is on a scholarship, she should start gyrating up and down? arent there better things to do with your life?
You say Nigeria parents dont understand? what are they supposed to understand? That her father is being protective is by your own words is a lack of understanding?
boy, how old are you?

She will have all the time in her life to go to parties but that does not necessarily mean she should start now. If she so much wants her independence, why is she so afraid to go back to Nigeria. There she will get all the freedom she wants.
Talk of unwanted pregnancies spreading.

FBS:

If she so much wants her independence, why is she so afraid to go back to Nigeria. There she will get all the freedom she wants.

This made me laugh

omo u better listen to ur dad he understand life beter than u, its just a mater of time,very soon u be the one complaining of been tired to go out wit friend, Take it easy don't hang urself ooooo,

FBS:

you are very stupid. She did say she wanted to go out on a saturday night but no where did I mention ALL night. open your eyes.

So because she is on a scholarship, she should start gyrating up and down? arent there better things to do with your life?
You say Nigeria parents dont understand? what are they supposed to understand? That her father is being protective is by your own words is a lack of understanding?
boy, how old are you?

She will have all the time in her life to go to parties but that does not necessarily mean she should start now. If she so much wants her independence, why is she so afraid to go back to Nigeria. There she will get all the freedom she wants.
Talk of unwanted pregnancies spreading.

scholarships gets taken away when one falls short of the scholarship foundation expections. expectations such as GPA, comm. service etc.

So. . . .getting scholarhip actually means working harder to keep it.

Poster was exaggerating, ejo o. Babe isn't running anywhere