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Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Cutehector(m): 3:22pm On Jun 22, 2015
Alright, let's chook our mind for this matter ontop dis station.. Abeg make una no change dah dial.. grin

So d question is, will u marry a second wife (for the men) or divorce ur husband (for d ladies) if u discover ur spouse is rendered impotent or infertile from results from d family doctor?

Cc: ishilove, lalasticlala
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by adexeli(m): 3:24pm On Jun 22, 2015
I am here to read comments. . . Married peeps over to you
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by raayah(f): 3:25pm On Jun 22, 2015
Personally , if my husband is infertile. I wouldnt mind. If my husband pushes, maybe we can adopt.

If its the other way around. I'd make sure my husband know about my infertility and i will accept and decision he makes.

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Freciprocal: 3:26pm On Jun 22, 2015
With God... All things are possible!
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Feranchek(m): 3:26pm On Jun 22, 2015
I'll simply divorce her and definitely remarry. And guess what? It's not a crime and my priest will have no problem with it cos the marriage was built on LIE. So, annulment of such marriage is allowed

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jun 22, 2015
adexeli:
I am here to read comments. . . Married peeps over to you


isn't that waht all those tests before marriage are for?


a person that got married because of his mother's pressure for children is the one that would re marry or divorce.

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Jun 22, 2015
Yeah I won't get a second wife because I'm the main character of a hollywood/nollywood movie.

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Cutehector(m): 3:29pm On Jun 22, 2015
raayah:
Personally , if my husband is infertile. I wouldnt mind. I'm not really into kids anyway.

dats cool.
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by princemmab(m): 3:31pm On Jun 22, 2015
Most ladies would inasmuch as the hubby in question is not rendered financially impotent or infertile.
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by kossyablaze(m): 3:32pm On Jun 22, 2015
I dey mad? Dem swear for me? Dis one wey I be online son join

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by elantraceey(f): 3:33pm On Jun 22, 2015
I find out about that before I get married .

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by agarawu23(m): 3:37pm On Jun 22, 2015
my religion permits me to marry a second wife cool

but wait o shebi we go do test b4 marriage na

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Hazardd(m): 3:37pm On Jun 22, 2015
elantraceey:
I find out about that before I get married .
how are you gonna find out?
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Hazardd(m): 3:39pm On Jun 22, 2015
i wouldnt remarry...
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by kossyablaze(m): 3:39pm On Jun 22, 2015
raayah:
Personally , if my husband is infertile. I wouldnt mind. If my husband pushes, maybe we can adopt.

If its the other way around. I'd make sure my husband know about my infertility and i will accept and decision he makes.

Yeah ryt!Easier said than done.Sorry r u basketmouths sister?

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by osaslord500(m): 3:41pm On Jun 22, 2015
That one na sure oo.. Who no want picking??
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by elantraceey(f): 3:41pm On Jun 22, 2015
Hazardd:
how are you gonna find out?

Medical tests.
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Omotayor123(f): 3:43pm On Jun 22, 2015
kissahhh! see question oo.

Who will celebrate me mother's day.




Na born they born make me sef born another person abeg. undecided
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by raayah(f): 3:46pm On Jun 22, 2015
kossyablaze:
Yeah ryt!Easier said than done.Sorry r u basketmouths sister?

Not really. I don't believe every marriage must lead to kids.

Since, I have this view, It will be easier for me to accept infertility than others who really want kids.

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Hazardd(m): 3:47pm On Jun 22, 2015
elantraceey:



Medical tests.
thats cann't give you hundred percent assurance because alot of them have been comfirmed okay still....

So the best thing to do is to sleep with him and if you didnt take in then you can do the needful... cheesy
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by EfemenaXY: 4:07pm On Jun 22, 2015
Cutehector:
Alright, let's chook our mind for this matter ontop dis station.. Abeg make una no change dah dial.. grin

So d question is, will u marry a second wife (for the men) or divorce ur husband (for d ladies) if u discover ur spouse is rendered impotent or infertile from results from d family doctor?

Cc: ishilove, lalasticlala

No, I won't divorce him.

I meant every word of those vows I made that day with him - for better for worse, in sickness and in health, till death do us part.

As long as he treats me right (i.e: with love and respect), then we're good to go. Granted, kids are an important part of marriage, but they aren't everything. Additionally, there are other alternative routes to explore, namely, adoption.

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by edwife(f): 4:25pm On Jun 22, 2015
EfemenaXY:


No, I won't divorce him.

I meant every word of those vows I made that day with him - for better for worse, in sickness and in health, till death do us part.

As long as he treats me right (i.e: with love and respect), then we're good to go. Granted, kids are an important part of marriage, but they aren't [b]everything. Additionally, there are other alternative routes to explore, namely, adoption.[/b]
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by bukatyne(f): 4:45pm On Jun 22, 2015
There are two issues:

If my husband is rendered sterile after our marriage (accident etc.), we would stay together and treat him and if it fails, adopt

If my husband lied about his fertility status... Might dissolve the marriage as it was based on lies.

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Kimoni: 4:52pm On Jun 22, 2015
EfemenaXY:



I meant every word of those vows I made that day with him - for better for worse, in sickness and in health, till death do us part.

Waoh!!! kiss kiss
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by CaptainJune: 4:54pm On Jun 22, 2015
I won't remarry. If she has the qualities I'm seeking in a woman, she will never be replaced on a mere flimsy notion of infertility. What happened to prayer or adoption?

Again, off topic, I'm the type that does not give a hoot if my wife gives me only female children. I will love them so much and teach them to be strong as male children I never had. They will achieve greater things in life than the opposite sex, if not, they will still be my precious jewels.

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by funlord(m): 5:14pm On Jun 22, 2015
grin
Me No Habla Englais
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Jun 22, 2015
CaptainJune:
I won't remarry. If she has the qualities I'm seeking in a woman, she will never be replaced on a mere flimsy notion of infertility. What happened to prayer or adoption?

Again, off topic, I'm the type that does not give a hoot if my wife gives me only female children. I will love them so much and teach them to be strong as male children I never had. They will achieve greater things in life than the opposite sex, if not, they will still be my precious jewels.

What a wonderful man you are. God bless you.

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Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Yustash001(m): 5:21pm On Jun 22, 2015
raayah:
Personally , if my husband is infertile. I wouldnt mind. If my husband pushes, maybe we can adopt.

If its the other way around. I'd make sure my husband know about my infertility and i will accept and decision he makes.

easier said that done...enu dun rofo....
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by Yustash001(m): 5:28pm On Jun 22, 2015
All the ladies are only talking about infertility....they ignore the impotent aspect.....well for me if I find out that my wife is infertile...I may try marrying another wife....shikena..
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by CaptainJune: 7:03pm On Jun 22, 2015
lolaredvelvet:


What a wonderful man you are. God bless you.
Thank you.That's just me. God bless you, too.
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by EfemenaXY: 1:27pm On Jun 23, 2015
Yustash001:
All the ladies are only talking about infertility....they ignore the impotent aspect.....well for me if I find out that my wife is infertile...I may try marrying another wife....shikena..

Re: Impotency a.k.a can't get it up, that's not applicable.

Why? Because I believe in test-driving before saying "I do". So I suppose your question should be, "Would you marry an impotent partner?" And my response to that is a resounding NO.
Re: Will U Remarry if U Find Out Ur Spouse Is Rendered Impotent Or Infertile? by KanwuliaJara: 2:27pm On Jun 23, 2015
Only if he is a WHITE MAN! cool

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