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yes, you know what I noticed? If you watch Nigerian movies, or even watch your own mom you see the pride radiating out. I don't know if its me but I have noticed such things.

Nigerian people hold so much pride and dignity. The women believe that they are good looking and believe they have so much to offer. Not that they are NOT good looking and they don't have anything to offer but you can see that there is a 100 percent certainty amongst our women. Wow, and my mom has always tried to instill this in me, but it wasn't really a teaching. I wish Nigerian women that raised their women in America taught their children how to believe "You are IT". Because trust me I didn't learn that. Matter of fact I'm still dealing a bit with insecurities that stemmed from low self esteem. Now that I'm older I'm so mad that I let these people in America who don't even know their own culture dominate me.

I remember when I was getting my drivers permit. This tall Nigerian women who appeared to be Igbo was just parading like she was the ISH! Like she ruled the whole place, you could see her arrogance a mile away. I even began to get jealous. I was thinking to myself:Man, I wish I could have that certain type of appeal.

But I'm still learning. That's why I want to go to Nigeria. See what it is. I believe I have that confidence, it just hasn't leaped out of me or it hasn't grown. I want to be that confident woman. I really do, I'm working on it though.

So tell me your experiences? Do Nigerian women express confidence? Where do you think it stems from? How do you get it? Let me Know!

Nigerians loved to be recognized, most of us believe in the "If you got it, Flaunt it. " principle.

I see. I see.

btw great profile pix, im def diggin it

Oh you should be proud of yourself! doesn't matter the nationality, you should just have confidence in yourself