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Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Qyubee(m): 6:12am On Jul 04, 2015
teelady:
Ok am done reading, let say u grew to love the man u ar married to, and from the begining u were nt inlove. You ar a loyal and faithful wife,please remain that way. Your husby is in a serious infatuated relationship and u feel like breaking his head for such behaviour but i say dont. He is not in his right frame of mind right now and its obvious u dnt want to leave ur matrimonial home, woman be prayerful and dnt give him more excuse to berate u further. Y fight wit a girl he brought home....,she is nt worth it ok. Pls distract ursef from al this mess for nw, just focus on making ursef happy, takecare of ur kids, prove to ur husband that u didnt marry him out of choice bt for the fact that u also love him, pls no dulling take ursef out for a treat no old ursef. Be the person he once loved, love ursef and hopefully he would comeback to love u. IT MIGHT BE HARD FOR U TO BE PATIENT SINCE U ARE THE VICTIM, BUT BE GOOD,PATIENT AND PRAYERFUL. Pardon my poor spelling
Beautiful submission from a beautiful lady!
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Awesomeking: 6:18am On Jul 04, 2015
Lady,no be your fault,i dont see anything wrong with what u did,its obvious that man has found comfort in that woman outside,you have to choose btw staying angry and destroyin ur marriage to save ur pride and dignity or u have to get ur ass up off that seat,drop that phone,call everyone to stand,ur husband,his family,ur family,say all u need to say,thats when u willl know if he truly loves u or not

p.s after this,both his people and ur's will caution and warn him and u will have to patiently watch everything come back to normal again..its worth a shot
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by dhesmond(m): 6:18am On Jul 04, 2015
no need to panic woman .....such situation has been dealt with before times without number........i can help you if and only if u can take pain and follow the rules strictly .......1 dont confront him or ask him about the life hes living anymore.......2 take care of the house and do your normal house chaos......3 go to bed when necessary.........4 always put on something sexy when u are at home or when going out........5 make him feel less important in the house .......... 6 be carefree about anything that happens to him .........7 look for a male friend that can keep your company, dont miss understand me just as a friend no string attached, it might be just on fone alone as a matter of fact it might be one of your distance relatives he barely knows about ........... 7 make him super jealous ...... 8 make him feel he has loose you ..... 9 dont talk bad about him to anyone always paint him good everywhere but not in his presence always....... 10 the most important thing pray hard about it ........ trust me with the help of God he will shed tears to have you back..... get back to me asap for more directives if necessary ....thanks
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by trapQ: 6:25am On Jul 04, 2015
that line "SOMEONE ORDAINED BY GOD AND NOT SOMEONE YOU ORDAINED FOR YOURSELF"

GOD BLESS YOU
prettyboi1989:
Girls are all in a rush to get married and then go with any tom diick or harry thats ready to get married, but they fail to understand the fact that people get married for different reasons. the major reason is to get that status to be called married woman since no girl wants to be seen in her early 30s looking for a man. they dont knw getting married means picking the best person for u, som1 ordained by God n not som1 u ordained ursef jst cos u wana get married. now problem arises a cry for solution begins. tooshay

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by ad84ada(m): 6:27am On Jul 04, 2015
With people like you. There's still hope. Your brain is sound. I am not endorsing what the man is doing but this is the best solution.
teelady:
Ok am done reading, let say u grew to love the man u ar married to, and from the begining u were nt inlove. You ar a loyal and faithful wife,please remain that way. Your husby is in a serious infatuated relationship and u feel like breaking his head for such behaviour but i say dont. He is not in his right frame of mind right now and its obvious u dnt want to leave ur matrimonial home, woman be prayerful and dnt give him more excuse to berate u further. Y fight wit a girl he brought home....,she is nt worth it ok. Pls distract ursef from al this mess for nw, just focus on making ursef happy, takecare of ur kids, prove to ur husband that u didnt marry him out of choice bt for the fact that u also love him, pls no dulling take ursef out for a treat no old ursef. Be the person he once loved, love ursef and hopefully he would comeback to love u. IT MIGHT BE HARD FOR U TO BE PATIENT SINCE U ARE THE VICTIM, BUT BE GOOD,PATIENT AND PRAYERFUL. Pardon my poor spelling
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by numericalguy(m): 6:28am On Jul 04, 2015
yiwaldecanta:
Men are useless shameless dogs... Even the riffraff that doesn't deserve you that you settled for....see how he treated you. lesson girl....if you settle for less than you deserve, you get less than you settled for.


That means your father is a useless shameless dog
Your brothers are useless shameless dogs
Your sons (or future sons) are (will be) useless shameless dogs
Your male cousins are useless shameless dogs
Your uncles are useless shameless dogs
I'm short, all the males in your useless shameless village are all useless shameless dogs

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by DrSage(m): 6:35am On Jul 04, 2015
oochi123:
. Which talk be dat? Hw can u say she went far by beating the girl? She never saw them outside. She caught them right in her home smooching and all of that. Pls,pray it doesn't happen to ur child or sister.
itz like u don't understand what really happened. Re-read the post again
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by ginggerxy: 6:36am On Jul 04, 2015
HungerBAD:
In the entirety of your story, not once was the word LOVE used. You never loved him, but AGE was on your side and that is the only reason you got married.

I feel no pity for you.
hard truth is hard to find. thank you bro
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by DrSage(m): 6:39am On Jul 04, 2015
oochi123:
. Which talk be dat? Hw can u say she went far by beating the girl? She never saw them outside. She caught them right in her home smooching and all of that. Pls,pray it doesn't happen to ur child or sister.
does that warrant her beating the girl. Take dz case to a court of law if dey wont reprimand her.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by eeewise(m): 6:40am On Jul 04, 2015
U married him to change him and actually tried doing it by changin his wardrobe.ur actions projected that he wasn't ur type or choice initially...Neva marry smeone to change them.acceptance is key! He found smeone that accepted him for him and adores him as his type! Solution is just to pray
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by ogawisdom(m): 6:41am On Jul 04, 2015
ConfessionsNgr:



Posted anonymously on www.confessionsnigeria.com
http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/120/help-my-husband-is-acting-funny

African magic may b working in him angry
Jst start serious fasting n prayers this is deeper n spiritual

Dnt leave dt houz for anytin n dnt tolerate him bring another girl into ur houz resist it with all ur might. Work on urself n look attractive always n b highly seductive arnd him. Still treat him fine though it will b hard. Serve his food n b a good wife he will apologies b4 long. Goodluck
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by donjunu24: 6:42am On Jul 04, 2015
Hello Confession,

I feel your pain, however it is inevitable to avoid issues totally in marriage. You need to focus on how this can be resolved. He is your husband now, don't regret that you married him. I will just say a few things and I hope it helps.


1. We all have different personalities, don't try to change your husband any further, work more on understanding him.

2. Do the opposite of what he expects, at this point be very calm and loving. It is hard, but it will gradually make him sober.

3. Don't nag him or be demanding

4. You need God, draw closer to him, pray for your husband and yourself. The situation may not change overnight but you will find the strength to go through the process.

5. Don't give up on him and your marriage except with proper counsels.

6. Avoid unwise counsels they will only tear your marriage apart.


God will help you.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by xtervaganza(m): 6:44am On Jul 04, 2015
DrSage:
You went too far!
Itz obvious he's nt acting normal at all,you would have taken dz issue to his family members so dat dey could at least talk to him.
But alas,u beat up his supposed girl friend,u went just too far.
Oponu, a foolish girl who followed a foolish man into his matrimonial home deserves worse
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by ginggerxy: 6:45am On Jul 04, 2015
;DWhen you were playing hard to get tongue.shey na who laf last laf's best, keeping chasing him he will learn to love you again

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by chinedusamson(m): 6:45am On Jul 04, 2015
Every marriage has dark hrs. This could be urs bt aft the darkest hrs comest the day. My advice is get closer to God He can do the impossible.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by DrSage(m): 6:50am On Jul 04, 2015
xtervaganza:
Oponu, a foolish girl who followed a foolish man into his matrimonial home deserves worse
u know what,since she deserves worse,y nt kill her & see if ur soul wont spend a reasonable amount of time in prison. idiooooot
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by MicroBox: 6:59am On Jul 04, 2015
Lesson to ladies out there.,. Men never forget that hard to get times especially when it has no genuine bases, there is a pride embedded in all men.
@OP you should expect something like this except you are short sighted especially when you don't keep your head high and maybe looked worn out before a man you once look as primitive and local. Get back to gym, look good and get yourself busy.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by sexylogan(m): 7:06am On Jul 04, 2015
teelady:
Ok am done reading, let say u grew to love the man u ar married to, and from the begining u were nt inlove. You ar a loyal and faithful wife,please remain that way. Your husby is in a serious infatuated relationship and u feel like breaking his head for such behaviour but i say dont. He is not in his right frame of mind right now and its obvious u dnt want to leave ur matrimonial home, woman be prayerful and dnt give him more excuse to berate u further. Y fight wit a girl he brought home....,she is nt worth it ok. Pls distract ursef from al this mess for nw, just focus on making ursef happy, takecare of ur kids, prove to ur husband that u didnt marry him out of choice bt for the fact that u also love him, pls no dulling take ursef out for a treat no old ursef. Be the person he once loved, love ursef and hopefully he would comeback to love u. IT MIGHT BE HARD FOR U TO BE PATIENT SINCE U ARE THE VICTIM, BUT BE GOOD,PATIENT AND PRAYERFUL. Pardon my poor spelling

Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by maxwellogbonna: 7:08am On Jul 04, 2015
My dear, just keep on praying to God, one day he we still come back with his senses, there is notin God can not do ok
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by innason(m): 7:10am On Jul 04, 2015
The fact that you both got married means he is your destined Husband. For the present issue your husband has a spiritual problem. Get an intervention prayer from a man of God and do it. Dont fight or rebuke him in physical as it cause more problem. Remain consistent with the prayer until change comes. Note the Devil fights only destined and Great people.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Maximus85(m): 7:16am On Jul 04, 2015
ConfessionsNgr:



Posted anonymously on www.confessionsnigeria.com
http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/120/help-my-husband-is-acting-funny

Older men wouldn't get tired of their younger wives just like that.
Some men are better left the way they are. You changed him into a trendy man and trendy gurls are now all over him. My fault?
You beat the lady he brought home, why? He's been looking for an excuse to through you out and you just gave him one.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by nobilie: 7:21am On Jul 04, 2015
Rubish.

In your story, you did nothing and a loving husband changed to become what he is today.
You are the saint and he the devil. Is he made that he will just change?

i am married with two boys.
That guy loved you but yoi never did. You treated him with disrespect which is the pride of every man.
When he considered the advances of other ladies, made a move, not interested on sex, not talking to you. Your pride did not let you ask and plead with him.
Now that the timid good guy has tasted the other side of life, you now know what he is capable of. To you, you are managing him. Now he is showing you he is a man.

Let women learn from your story.

The truth is, you'll get ur husband back if you realize what you are doing wrong cos even now, you are still a saint that has done nothing wrong. Just pray the other woman does not get pregnant. Then, you are done.

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by lightest(m): 7:23am On Jul 04, 2015
u plight is understandable, d truth is dat we men are always tired of one woman at one point or d order so wen dis happen, u need to b patient and pray to God. then try to repackage urself in everything. then I will also advise u watch a film named "Mr and Mrs". its a very touching film and very educative. May God b with u
sheers
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Nobody: 7:35am On Jul 04, 2015
The man don go tidy winch. Only acid can cure his sense.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by refreshrate: 7:37am On Jul 04, 2015
dapojaja:


be careful man, u r distracting my reading, i got to look @ pic of a cute girl because of u, bee careful o.

shun sah!
alright sah!
No vex sah!
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by burnfire202(m): 7:39am On Jul 04, 2015
At d early stage u always campare him wit oda guys, neva accpted him for who he was, u always tried to n finally changed his real prsn. He neva lykd it bt jst doin for n takin d pains in syd. Causality. This is d end product of ur efforts.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by dmola(m): 7:41am On Jul 04, 2015
NeduLuiZ:
A case of mugu just got wiser grin
Ha! Ok
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by kuulkyd(f): 7:44am On Jul 04, 2015
Op, I suggest u stop d physical combat and get on ur knees. This is a spiritual battle and not a game of rights. If he's under a spell, talking to him won't break d spell o, talk to men of God who can help u pray as well. I wish u well.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Beepraize: 7:51am On Jul 04, 2015
u cant blame d poor woman, nt evry woman has such patience to walk away in such scenario, i bliv she felt insulted nd humiliated nd she's pro'lly sorry nw
DrSage:
You went too far!
Itz obvious he's nt acting normal at all,you would have taken dz issue to his family members so dat dey could at least talk to him.
But alas,u beat up his supposed girl friend,u went just too far.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Handsomeorobo(m): 7:51am On Jul 04, 2015
Hello Dear,

All I can say is receive grace to endure and enjoy the situation if your marriage is for better for worse!
No single human being wakes up and just change; you should have been doing some continuous assessment of your entire marriage instead of just focusing on making your husband TRENDDY.

Investigate all NEWTON's law of motion. There is something responsible for the change.
Don't jut be blinded that there is another WOMAN, engage the process that resulted in the outcome you now see. After which you can change some variables and by the grace of God, a new result will appear.

Take care, God help you wisely!
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by 5minsmadness: 7:52am On Jul 04, 2015
Abbey2sam:



see advice!
why are african women like this? they don't believe they can survive without a man, or after two kids you want to tell me you don't have any saving, leave that man and go back to your parents (that's one thing I love about the Yoruba people, they accept you back )

start a new life, you mustn't live under a man for fvck sake
I guarantee you, if you leave now you can still find someone that will marry you
a

When she couldn't find someone of her choice to marry her when she was single grin
And now that she has two kids grin grin
Which kain guarantee?! grin

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by lucky032(m): 8:02am On Jul 04, 2015
HungerBAD:
In the entirety of your story, not once was the word LOVE used. You never loved him, but AGE was on your side and that is the only reason you got married.

I feel no pity for you.

The compedium of everything is that she underestimated the man abinitio and thought the man did not match her and it has been on the hubby mind.The hubby is only trying to pay her back

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