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Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by lucky032(m): 8:06am On Jul 04, 2015 |
ihatebuhari:And so shall you kill your hubby.Click like to say amen |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by stankezzy: 8:08am On Jul 04, 2015 |
omoiyaakanbi:Do not try it oo!! homosexuals are every where ooo!!! do not fall from frying pan to fire from regret to reproach. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by otiigba1(m): 8:15am On Jul 04, 2015 |
aflyingbird:perhaps you are young and succulent now you wont be saying this, until you could not find a man to marry and you are heading towards 40 years of age, moreover you still have to bear children for the person atleast 3 children at 40, am sure your views will change desperation comes to mind |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Joy1706(f): 8:21am On Jul 04, 2015 |
sukkot:Yes! Child support. They were married, he has children with her. Why shouldnt he be made to take care of his children? I'm a lawyer, I know what I'm saying. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by IDERAWOLE(m): 8:24am On Jul 04, 2015 |
teelady: I can feel your situation. But just be calm. It is easier said than done by all advisers in the house. Except he opens up to you, it's hard to know what is going on in his mind. Until you know his state of mind, your actions may be counterproductive, this is where the usefulness of prayer comes in. This is more of getting God's direction on what you should do, of course God will work on him as you follow God's direction on what you should do about yourself. There might be external influence on him, from wherever but your trust in God will make you a winner in this situation. Let me advice you, there is no sharp-sharp solution here. I'm tempted to ask you about your relationship with God b4 your marriage & after, if you're born-again then or now, you don't need to fret. You may want to call me for a chat or whatsapp me on 08063423482 for more information. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by otiigba1(m): 8:26am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Nelgenius4me:i did not read any thing about LOVING or LOVE in your writings which is the key to any successful marriage , you are only talking about respect, fear and money |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by obulla(m): 8:26am On Jul 04, 2015 |
teelady: This is a great piece of advice. U must indeed be a wise lady. Kudos! |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by otiigba1(m): 8:31am On Jul 04, 2015 |
dinachi:Gbam! your sense are very much intact! Besides we have not heard the poor man's side of the story |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by gnykelly(m): 8:39am On Jul 04, 2015 |
DrSage: she didn't went too far. it's her matrimonial home. and what the husband does is an abomination against morality and God |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by otiigba1(m): 8:40am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Xetima:what!? Speak to the food? how? Absolutely ridiculous! Christianity,i SMH |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by manie(m): 8:44am On Jul 04, 2015 |
2ts: Are you sure they are still having sex together, I doubt if sex denial is the solution to this problem. I know a couple who have not had sex together in close to 2 years. The wife denied the guy sex for 6 months, when the wife is now interested in sex because she realised that sex denial did not work for her, but unfortunately the husband is no longer interested in having sex with his wife or is it flat mate again. 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by otiigba1(m): 8:46am On Jul 04, 2015 |
My advice, never ever talk to any PASTOR about this; they will make you even more paranoid, |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by babygirlfl: 8:48am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Wedon: My dear, I was so angry I could not comment. How did things get this bad. This thread is one of the most annoying thread to read. We have a long way to go in Nigeria. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by nkkystel(f): 8:50am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Hmmm... I feel so sorry for you. He's under a spell just be prayerful. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by mubarak001(m): 8:52am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Whn I read it...eleyi gidigan! Just go to mfm and pray ur way thru. All d best. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by gnykelly(m): 8:55am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Ama80: all these are just like closing the eyes to the real problems. it doesn't solve the problem. she need to attack it from the root. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by yiwaldecanta: 8:58am On Jul 04, 2015 |
numericalguy:You better watch that thing you call a mouth ....go and tell that to your own family not mine |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Okeikpu(m): 8:58am On Jul 04, 2015 |
NovusHomo:Still d same......the guy is clown..... A 4ucktard for dat matter
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Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by otiigba1(m): 9:02am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Ama80:wow! So she should turn alcoholic? nice advice, and who looks after her kids while she is drinking all that wine and wiskey eh? And what impact will it have on her kids? And how long will having fun continue? What happens when money for fun runs out? Oh! Believe me the problem will just escalate and he will not come back definitely, you sound like a juvenile.. no offence |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by lastpage: 9:03am On Jul 04, 2015 |
HungerBAD: ..And to add to your observation, she said that "He was the least of the three people running after me"...... and after l agreed to marry him, "I tried to CHANGE HIM"! Nobody likes to think they are some sort of "filling-the-gap" or substitute...... and l just hope you have not told him this to his face, during an argument or 'expensive joke' session! That will hurt him for the rest of his association with you. I also want to warn everybody that one should marry someone, if you are certain that you are okay with how they are, warts and all. Dont ever think you can change somebody because sooner or later, they will revert back to who they are. If you are not happy with the package, dont collect it from DHL..... because return postage can be very costly! ================================================================================================= And that beating you gave the girlfriend will cause more anger and do more harm than good! Remember that it was your husband that invited her home..... so the beating should have gone to him! Now, he will simply abandon you in the house and go hibernate with the girlfriend somewhere you wont even know! If you dont see him at home for weeks, dont think he was kidnapped by ritualist o, its just that girlfriend doing him some dangerous moves! And again, l dont believe that one-sided bullshyte that "He just changed all of a sudden and you dont know why". Tell us exactly what transpired between the two of you that a once lovely-dovey husband suddenly became a drunkard and womaniser! Having said that l wish your husband can be more understanding by acting more matured with the issue of "girlfriend". If he must marry a second wife, so be it but it should be done with dignity and respect for all parties, especially "iyale" that is involved. Let the "elders" in your families intervene and talk some sense onto his head. Not an enviable situation! Lastpage! |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by lastpage: 9:10am On Jul 04, 2015 |
manie: How can denying shex to somebody that brought a girlfriend into his own home, produce any good result? Is like pouring petrol into fire or throwing bomb during a thunderstorm! I will even advice the opposite! Phuck him till his brain is out such that when he goes outside, he can hardly maintain a hard-on for a minute! If he your husband can afford not to have shex with you for six months and survived it..... then why does he need to have shex with you at all, afetrwards! What did not kill him over six months would not kill him over six years and l bet the guy has found another "solution" to his shex problem, somewhere else. Lastpage! |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by ewosk: 9:10am On Jul 04, 2015 |
at last all this comment dey useless... cuz oga madam nor b d op oo ...na blog copied story |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by deebrain(m): 9:13am On Jul 04, 2015 |
The last paragraph of the man being bewitched or under a spell says it all. When a man brings a girlfriend to his matrimonial home, he is ready for the worst-it has gone beyond mere "secret cheating"... In that case, God has to come in-courtesy you. However, I hope you stop bringing the "I never really wanted to marry you initially" line, ever, in your married life. Keep that line in your heart forever. You may have been toying his ego with that line until he decided to pay you back. Thanks. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Holyfield1(m): 9:16am On Jul 04, 2015 |
teelady:It's a pity the woman wouldn't see this cox it didn't happened to the read OP.....He/She copied it |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by engrshakespeare: 9:16am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Cutehector: You dont seem to be a very nice person. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Cutehector(m): 9:19am On Jul 04, 2015 |
engrshakespeare:ok. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by gbengus26(m): 9:23am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Take it to God in prayer and allow God to handle everything for you if truly you are innocent. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by Mikwus(f): 9:30am On Jul 04, 2015 |
HungerBAD: Love is not enough. Even the so called love birds have issues. Would you marry a woman that would respect and honour or the one that loves you but disrespects you? |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by dayosweetness(m): 9:30am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Johnnoah1st:thank God I did not waste my time reading that poo! |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by otiigba1(m): 9:30am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Aystarz:na wao ! * falls off chair* prayer and beating people up every were, so called christians SMH |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by otiigba1(m): 9:33am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Aystarz:i fear o na person go marry that one too keep for house |
Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by gbagyiza: 9:36am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Cutehector: i dnt agree with u.its her destiny 2 marry him cos anything that happened God is aware of it, pls dnt discourage her.my kinded advice 2 her is 2 luk up 2 God,follow d right channel tru d 2 families n religiously 2 make peace.I am sure something went wrong somewhere which opened a door 4 d devil 2 come into her family.she is d only one that need 2 help her husband right nw cos d behaviour is nt normal.she shuld nt give up on him,its a spiritual battle that required serious prayers.dnt think of living cos d situation may get worse which will totally consumed ur family later.I hv had alot of similar incident like urs, inwhich d women stood by faith and faught till answer came frm heaven.I wish u God's intervention. |
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