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7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by XavierBlue(m): 6:27pm On Jul 04, 2015
Ladies love to marry early, but men will go for the opposite. Women wonder why they have to wait till they are older before possessing such thoughts. Ladies may marry as early as 20 but men is a rarity.


1. The commitment thingy.

The whole commitment thingy is scary. Don't tell them they'll have to commit their whole life to one lady when there are millions and other varieties out theregrin The thing is, it easy for a lady to make a commitment but not for a man.


2. Scared of their decision.

Men always get scared of marrying the wrong person. He still posses doubt even when he's sure of the one he vouched.

3. An end to his bachelorhood.

Once you're married, your free life and fun get cuts off. Guys are scared to leave that in a hurry as being a bachelor can be fun. They want to enjoy lives so that once they're married, they won't cheat. So they believe grin


4. Hustling or making money first.
Men want to be more than comfortable before looking towards marriages. They want to make money, have more cars, houses and wealth before going to the alter.

5. Polygamous in nature.

Men are naturally women lovers. And commiting to one for the rest of their lives is not a decision that will be hurriedly takengrin. They want to sow their royal oats before before settling to one , perhaps a virgingrin

6. Their friends.

Ladies Marry early because their friends married early or want to marry early. Men don't want to hear of such words, money and fun maybe the thing on their mind. To them marriage na future sontingrin


7. Who to trust when they have the money.

This is another reason. After making money and acquiring wealth, they don't know who to trust as every female that comes their way might be regarded a gold digger who only comes for his hard hustled money and not his love. They don't know who to trust or stick to. in their quest to find a trustable partner, they end up marrying late.

Feel free to add yours


XavierBlue

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by Slimzjoe(m): 6:34pm On Jul 04, 2015
My Fellow Igbos Experience that Number 7 a lot!

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by enoqueen: 6:34pm On Jul 04, 2015
Na them sabi.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by XavierBlue(m): 6:41pm On Jul 04, 2015
bigcal4rea:
1,2&7 grin
which are you guilty of grin




XavierBlue
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by Feranchek(m): 6:42pm On Jul 04, 2015
I love this.... I love this.... I'm loving this.....

Gratias Xavier

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by XavierBlue(m): 6:43pm On Jul 04, 2015
enoqueen:
Na them sabi.
are you feminine?




XavierBlue
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by SuperSuave(m): 6:43pm On Jul 04, 2015
so on point! The number 7 is so common these days +
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by XavierBlue(m): 6:44pm On Jul 04, 2015
Feranchek:
I love this.... I love this.... I'm loving this.....

Gratias Xavier
my pleasure bro. Am elated, thanks for your words.




XavierBlue

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by Feranchek(m): 6:47pm On Jul 04, 2015
XavierBlue:
my pleasure bro. Am elated, thanks for your words.




XavierBlue

You're HIGHLY welcomed pappy
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by XavierBlue(m): 6:50pm On Jul 04, 2015
SuperSuave:
so on point! The number 7 is so common these days +
i tell you. Dem plenty dis days.grin




XavierBlue
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by XavierBlue(m): 6:52pm On Jul 04, 2015
Feranchek:


You're HIGHLY welcomed pappy
cool



XavierBlue
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by Xwaggzdude: 8:41pm On Jul 04, 2015
Nice point here. This deserve fp. Ishilove and lalasticlala.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by sirhot(m): 8:45pm On Jul 04, 2015
This is Rubbish! Only fit for the trash can! angry angry

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jul 04, 2015
Number 4 is the ish. Why marry when you don't have enough pepper in ur pocket? I wont marry till I am a billionaire. angry


Number 5 is not applicable at all. In Nigeria, Marriage whether traditional or english doesn't stop you from getting another wife.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by 400billionman: 8:53pm On Jul 04, 2015
Lack of soul mate.

Dearth of intelligent girls. Many of them are so dumb.

How can a girl be discussing make up with her boyfriend ? This is no joke. Raise important issue like Buhari government, she cannot contribute one thing..

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by sirhot(m): 9:10pm On Jul 04, 2015
400billionman:
Lack of soul mate.

Dearth of intelligent girls. Many of them are so dumb.

How can a girl be discussing make up with her boyfriend ? This is no joke. Raise important issue like Buhari government, she cannot contribute one thing..
You are a wise man! Kudos

Dumb girls everywhere angry angry

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jul 04, 2015
No such thing as marrying "late" undecided

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by timilehing(m): 9:23pm On Jul 04, 2015
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by Aminat508(f): 9:23pm On Jul 04, 2015
Ok grin
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by omanifrank(m): 9:23pm On Jul 04, 2015
ok
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by IamforGod: 9:24pm On Jul 04, 2015
Am a woman! Me sef dey fear! sad cos no be relationship nah for life. No divorce in my dictionary.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by tiamiyukunle69(m): 9:24pm On Jul 04, 2015
Na money be the Koko
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by Ewizard(m): 9:24pm On Jul 04, 2015
a conscious choice..
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by McEwen(m): 9:25pm On Jul 04, 2015
tongue
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by gamaliel121(m): 9:25pm On Jul 04, 2015
Am addicted to the dark side
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by falconey(m): 9:26pm On Jul 04, 2015
8. He is running a degree,ND,HND,MASTERS,DOCTORATE programme.

Sometimes its not about all these but the knowledge to live through all these.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by MrCounselor: 9:26pm On Jul 04, 2015
why 7






Strongly 4 and 6
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by Kufie(m): 9:26pm On Jul 04, 2015
I'm not commenting anymore
Re: 7 Reasons Why Some Guys Marry Late by Spaxon(f): 9:27pm On Jul 04, 2015
LTC!!!

smarter than d dude in d second page grin












typing.............

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