Women are more than just bodies. yeah we've heard this severally..even though the female self objectification trend is visibly different. Though most ladies speak against objectification, they are in one way or the other guilty of it..




SELFIES

Most female selfies nowadays are provocative, ranging from body exposure to poses to facial expression..take for instance:
A BBM contact upload a picture of herself squatting in a mini skirt, just to reveal how big her a** is, or how fleshy her thighs are or even how well she can ride "it".
Another contact backed the camera, just to show how big her a** is...
Some take their pictures to show how much cleavage they got.
A facebook contact too captured her side view in the bathroom and used her hands to cover her b**bs. well, she got many likes.
Another contact cropped out her head and legs, leaving her true identity.
Another kissing a banana seductively
Majority are guilty of shooting out their behind in pictures and several other related actions




MUSIC VIDEOS

I need not say much on this as it almosts seems as if u dont employ the services of a vixen that can wind and twist like a snake, your video will be boring..The emphasis in music now tilts more towards how necessary caro's body is...I walked into female hall as an undergraduate and overheard some girls arguing on who twerks better...Smh..




WESTERN INFLUENCE

Many of our ladies make role models of foreign "celebrities" to their own detriments. take for instance:

Beyoncé sings in “Check On It”:
Ohh, boy you looking like you like what you see
Won’t you come over and check up on it
I’m gone let you work up on it
Ladies let em check up on it
Watch it while he check up on it…
If you got it, flaunt it, boy I know you want it
While I turn around you watch me check up on it
Ooh, you watchin’ me shake it, I see it in ya face
Ya can’t take it, it’s blazin, you watch me in
amazement.

Britney Spears sings in “Oops! I Did It
Again”:
I played with your heart, got lost in the game
Oh baby, baby
Oops! You think I’m in love
That I’m sent from above
I’m not that innocent.

Ke$ha in “Blah Blah Blah”:
“I don’t really care where you live at
Just turn around, boy, let me hit that
Don’t be a little bitch with your chit chat
Just show me where your dick’s at.

The Pussycat Dolls in “Don’t Cha”:
I know you like me
I know you do
That’s why whenever I come around
She’s all over you
I know you want it
It’s easy to see
And in the back of your mind
I know you should be on with me
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was hot like me?

Nicki minaj and one twerk it song like that
amongst others

well in conclusion, i think girls are the cause of their problems, guys have a personal responsibility here too.

Ive heard ladies say things like "I like dressing sexy! I like being sexy I like getting attention from guys!” Its all fun.. Well, dont cry foul when your bubbles burst..

beyonce their role model, portraying feminism with unclothedness and at the end they blame men

Not far from the truth. Femininity is cheapened by women themselves. Some of these things just make some of us numb. Makes it hard to defend the some who stand out.
The other day, I saw a woman trying to catch a bouquet with her vulva out for the world to see and another one grinding her a$$ in a video while other women hailed her on . Shameful behavior all over the place. The only checking we do is talk about it and it doesn't stop the rot anyways..

slimyem:
Not far from the truth. Femininity is cheapened by women themselves. Some of these things just make some of us numb. Makes it hard to defend the some who stand out.
The other day, I saw a woman trying to catch a bouquet with her vulva out for the world to see and another one grinding her a$$ in a video while other women hailed her on . Shameful behavior all over the place. The only checking we do is talk about it and it doesn't stop the rot anyways..

haha, nothn wen man no go hear oo, hw person go catch bouquet with her vulva?

Just passinby

lilmax:
beyonce their role model, portraying feminism with unclothedness and at the end they blame men

feminists may come at you for this

Sad but true

even in nigeria people like tiwa savage
mocheeda abi moheeda always displaying her nudes for all those who care to see

and all these 5naira upcoming nollywood Ashewos

Deexxy:
If the men don't like it,,they wouldn't be doing it.

That's not true,i think it tilts more to advertising themselves to get more attention

It's called branding,advert and marketing

I've come to appreciate that treasures are always hidden or disguised.

Though, it is always a sight to behold for the beautiful ladies that seems liberal enough to sample their wares. I look and appreciate a wonderful creator that made them. It ends there cos I feel thats all they've got to offer-sex. But then, supply of sex far outweighs current demand to the point you can pay for once and get 3 free.

slimyem:

The other day, I saw a woman trying to catch a bouquet with her vulva out for the world to see

dat mustve been
ma darlin
freecocoa
cus shez a
feminazi advocate
@ 40yrs old
wit no man in ha lyf

i kip offerin ha
my slioooong
buh pride no go gree
make she accept am

Because society rewards objectification
very well, and some women capitalize on that.


Even the most simple everyday actions like
wearing heels or dabbing on lipstick as a means of self expression in an ideal world, are simply pandering to the patriarchal idea that women's appearance is of prime importance.

If you ask one of those questions, "guys what do you want in a girlfriend/wife" the first things mentioned are usually looks, followed by a few things not that far from looks.

And very rarely do I hear that women themselves complain about being objectified Its like the ones who do, enjoy it and the ones who don't, don't care.

So why this topic sef? Op, you dey find trouble o.

Women are not objectifying themselves.
Men are pervert.
It's as simple as that.
A woman can wear or flaunt whatever she wish.
Mtcheew

lilmax:
beyonce their role model, portraying feminism with unclothedness and at the end they blame men

What about men portraying their masculinity with nudity?
Do you see women objectifying them?
Men are the cause. Accept or deal with it.

VictoriaBee:
Women are not objectify themselves.
Men are pervert.
It's as simple as that.
A woman can wear or flaunt whatever she wish.
Mtcheew

Gbagaun!

That aside, apart from the fact that some men are pervs, women who don't want to be objectified should moderate what, how, and the frequency of whatever they want to flaunt.
men are generally considered weaker vessels in matters of sexuality and the sensuality of the opposite sex.

that being said, women imho are the cause of their objectification bar some perverted men

EddyBlingzz:
Gbagaun!

That aside, apart from the fact that some men are pervs, women who don't want to be objectified should moderate what, how, and the frequency of whatever they want to flaunt.
men are generally considered weaker vessels in matters of sexuality and the sensuality of the opposite sex.

that being said, women imho are the cause of their objectification bar some perverted men

Edited
You have no proof about men being weaker vessels in sexual related matters as bible assigned that phrase to women.
Women also get tempted but they have self control.
The way society praise a promiscuous male and frown at promiscuous female is the cause.
If a guy wink, smack lips while staring lecherously at a female, everybody would scream bad guy but a female does the same, they will start calling her all sorts of vile names and then, God and morality is remembered.
A lady who's fittedly dressed would also be raped by some men.
Don't think someone dressed as Adichie won't be raped because she covered up.
Lies!

VictoriaBee:



What about men portraying their masculinity with nudity?
Do you see women objectifying them?
Men are the cause. Accept or deal with it.

like i said they blame men at the end

Lead by example please,flaunt what you‘ve got .....

VictoriaBee:



What about men portraying their masculinity with nudity?
Do you see women objectifying them?
Men are the cause. Accept or deal with it.

yes! women are the ones that scream for abs on men.
obviously they got a soft(and wet) spot for guys with finely trimmed pectorals.
so it's a two way thingy. i notice the way females(like yourself) look at guys with abs at pools and anywhere that warrants a guy going shirtless. if i upload a shirtless pic on my profile, ladies would self-service to it

lilmax:
like i said they blame men at the end

Lead by example please,flaunt what you‘ve got .....

I am not going to flaunt it. Same way ALL men are not flaunting their unclothedness.
Any Lady that choose to do so shouldn't be criticised, either.

VictoriaBee:
Women are not objectifying themselves.
Men are pervert.
It's as simple as that.
A woman can wear or flaunt whatever she wish.
Mtcheew

@ 17yrs old
r u a virgin?
c az yuh face
resemble wincch

VictoriaBee
r yuh a virgin?
cuz i kno 2 guyz
uve fuuucked from
diz site alone

EddyBlingzz:
yes! women are the ones that scream for abs on men.
obviously they got a soft(and wet) spot for guys with finely trimmed pectorals.
so it's a two way thingy. i notice the way females(like yourself) look at guys with abs at pools and anywhere that warrants a guy going shirtless. if i upload a shirtless pic on my profile, ladies would self-service to it

Heheehe.
I never said there is a problem if men look at female sexual organs.
Objectifying it is different from admiring.

VictoriaBee:



I am not going to flaunt it. Same way ALL men are not flaunting their unclothedness.
Any Lady that choose to do so shouldn't be criticised, either.

you fit flaunt am before? You get mind?


any lady that choose to do shouldn‘t be criticised? can they try it in church,work place

Seriously baby go and rest

lilmax:
you fit flaunt am before? You get mind?


any lady that choose to do shouldn‘t be criticised? can they try it in church,work place

Seriously baby go and rest

why do yuh
botther 2 debate
wit a dingbat
d girl haz a
brain d size of a pea

b4 yuh kno it now
she will start
usin ha alternate
monikerz to like ha
own commentz

lilmax:
you fit flaunt am before? You get mind?


any lady that choose to do shouldn‘t be criticised? can they try it in church,work place

Seriously baby go and rest

Lol, that's why it's a church.
Can guys flaunt their abs, sag etc like they do, in the church or workplace? No

VictoriaBee:



Edited
You have no proof about men being weaker vessels in sexual related matters as bible assigned that phrase to women.
Women also get tempted but they have self control.
The way society praise a promiscuous male and frown at promiscuous female is the cause.
If a guy wink, smack lips while staring lecherously at a female, everybody would scream bad guy but a female does the same, they will start calling her all sorts of vile names and then, God and morality is remembered.
A lady who's fittedly dressed would also be raped by some men.
Don't think someone dressed as Adichie won't be raped because she covered up.
Lies!

Do your research. men are considered weaker vessels in sex matters mostly because of lack of the self control you pointed out up there which most women do. and it's no coincidence the society sees it that way.

slimyem:
Not far from the truth. Femininity is cheapened by women themselves. Some of these things just make some of us numb. Makes it hard to defend the some who stand out.
The other day, I saw a woman trying to catch a bouquet with her vulva out for the world to see and another one grinding her a$$ in a video while other women hailed her on . Shameful behavior all over the place. The only checking we do is talk about it and it doesn't stop the rot anyways..

I don't think she did that on purpose.

We've all had our awkward fashion slip moments.

Joavid:


I don't think she did that on purpose.

We've all had our awkward fashion slip moments.

see excuze
plz d hag
wus jusss
advertizin' ha
expired goodzzz

ogogoromasta:
VictoriaBee r yuh a virgin? cuz i kno 2 guyz uve fuuucked from diz site alone

*coughs.
Rule 8. Don't post false information on Nairaland.

Joavid:


ogogoromasta, you are the best. i love you

aw. swerrie
d feelin iz
mutual

Joavid:
Because society rewards objectification
very well, and some women capitalize on that.


Even the most simple everyday actions like
wearing heels or dabbing on lipstick as a means of self expression in an ideal world, are simply pandering to the patriarchal idea that women's appearance is of prime importance.

If you ask one of those questions, "guys what do you want in a girlfriend/wife" the first things mentioned are usually looks, followed by a few things not that far from looks.

And very rarely do I hear that women themselves complain about being objectified Its like the ones who do, enjoy it and the ones who don't, don't care.

So why this topic sef? Op, you dey find trouble o.

so which category do you fall, those who enjoy objectification or those who dont care?