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Good day, please I have a problem and I decided to share with you guys, I am an Introvert and I hate myself for that, I find it difficult to make friends, I am good looking, but I don't have the courage to make friends with females, talk less of having a Girl friend. Pls I know this may sound funny but please I need help on how to break out of this problem. Thanks

It is very simple my brother,

1... Do you watch football If yes, make friends with some fans of same club, engage in discussions always participate in talks regarding what you like.

2.... Don't be selective, try and be friendly to anyone that comes around you, especially women. Do not ostracise any feminine gender.

3..... Try chyk a girl. It may sound funny even doh you don't know how to chyk gals buh just try, even if you fail, just keep trying to get one...... Always sound romantic to them (girls) because some of them are moved by what they hear not really on what they see.

4..... Try hook up with people via social networks like facebook, 2go, palmchat whatsapp or watever, especially d girls there cos you are obviously not a gay to keep chatting with guys alone.

Be creative, think before you say anything to a girl but don't be dull in doing this...... Sometimes, say what they don't expect.... Just make yourself a bit unpredictable.


Be jovial or funny..... Girls love being happy...... That's one of the reasons why they seem to like me even doh not handsome....


Thank you, don't mention

stay like dat if u don't knw what to do

Introvert or Just Shy?

If you are a Christian, join the ushering team.

That is a stepping stone. But be careful, it's not everyone that wanna speak/make friends with you. But keep an eye on those who wanted.