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Can He Change? by Nobody: 11:50am On Mar 13, 2009 |
Ive known this guy for a couple of years now. But Ive always been to scared to take him seriously. Now he is back on the scene and this time he is serious. My only problem with him now, is his past. I dont believe in making people in what you want them to be. And the thing is the only person you can control or change in a relationship is you. Im scared to go into a relationship with him given his reputation as a "bad boy". People see him as bad because he parties a lot, is very social and has had his fair share of women. Now my question is, even if I do give him a chance, is it possible for him to change. And believe me change is something that comes from the inside. If I go into this relationship then it is most probably heading for the real thing, My greatest fear is having my husband cheat on me and at the moment Im not too sure I can trust him, no matter how sincere he sounds at the moment. Should I give him a chance to get to know him better or tell him im not interested before I get in too deep? 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Can He Change? by JustGood(m): 12:40pm On Mar 13, 2009 |
If you're not sure of someone and you cant trust him, why start anything with him? 3 Likes |
Re: Can He Change? by Sissy3(f): 2:54am On Mar 14, 2009 |
this should b in the romance section i dnt really think u should venture into a relationship with som1 u dont trust, and ain't sure about cox it will always comeback to hunt u. u don't trust him, u ain't sure that he will change, then don't do it. or why not just watch him and see if he dares to change?/ though he might change so to get u and then go back to his oldish. so if it was me i wouldn't do it. trust is one of the core aspects of a relationship and when it is lacking in a relationship, the relationship is already a failure. and since u dont trust him now, that doubtfulness will also linger in that relationship if u go ahead with it cox then everything he does may seem as untrue to u, which maybe escalate into an argument blah, blah then the failure of it. |
Re: Can He Change? by Youngpo413: 4:04pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Change because of you? You must be kidding |
Re: Can He Change? by Nobody: 7:14pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
just bone his side....u dnt trust him so wats d point?? u stil wil keep havin dis feelin dat he is cheatin on u...so it wld b best u forget bout datin him.... |
Re: Can He Change? by Kanwulia: 12:53am On Aug 28, 2014 |
Anoda wan don come o! You wan chop yam, but you nor sabi road to market'. . . . . . Not to mention FARM! Who goes into a relationship with FEAR and .WHAT IFs biko kwa nu? You never ready. Shior! 7 hours to go on this long flight! Time for some movies. Food don come again! Chai!!! |
Re: Can He Change? by Nobody: 11:03am On Aug 28, 2014 |
Kanwulia: Anoda wan don come o! The only thing you need to change about you is your perception concerning religion particularly the Christian faith. Aside that you are one intelligent woman whom i enjoy her perception of life and robust maturity trait exhibited in posts and delivered comically to the benefit of the discerning minds. |
Re: Can He Change? by Kanwulia: 1:25pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
SeaGold: Awwwwwww My head is swelling ooooooh! *we shall leave the Christian faith and my perception out of this extremely palatable post. please welcome me to the uk once again. loverrrrly weather than that blazzzzzing texas sun!* |
Re: Can He Change? by purplesummer(f): 1:33pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
More often than not, women who end up in bad relationships had seen the red light earlier but chose to ignore it. You can risk it but don't say you never got the signal. 1 Like |
Re: Can He Change? by Nobody: 1:35pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
Kanwulia: Welcome to queen's land. Enjoy your stay but remember the tax everything including the air u breath there. |
Re: Can He Change? by yungchop: 1:52pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
purplesummer: More often than not, women who end up in bad relationships had seen the red light earlier but chose to ignore it.follow back before I open my eye |
Re: Can He Change? by Kanwulia: 6:13am On Aug 29, 2014 |
SeaGold: Thank you jare! Off to Manchester today! Leaving Blackheath. |
Re: Can He Change? by jeffizy(m): 6:22am On Aug 29, 2014 |
[size=15pt] It is a doubled edged sword. While the fact that he's been there and done that may significantly mean that he has sowed his wild oats and is ready to be a responsible man, it could also be delicate should in case he has not outgrown such tendencies. My advice is to enter a platonic relationship with him to decipher if he's real or not. I know you like him despite the warts and all. People change when they find love. Check him out. But remember, 'PLATONIC'. [/size] 1 Like |
Re: Can He Change? by Youngpo413: 1:44pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
BabeX: yes,he can change if your pusy is "tight" enough to TRAP his cockkk... Mumu...you think say na only you sabi better thing? |
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