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I Am Beginning To Hate My Husband, Help!!! by flakesy01(f): 7:53am On Aug 11, 2015 |
I am a moda of one nd i hve been married for close to 5yrs now. In recent times i am beginning to hate my hubby. D reason is not far fetched. My hubby doesnt mke me feel hapi. Though he professes his luv to me but his actions show odawise. I guess if u luv some1 u wanna mke dat person hapi. I used to luv him alot but d hurt nd trusts he has broken in our relationship in d past has made me dislike him. I try to forgive him tho but wen he doz hurtful tinz again, i remember nd gt angry. Emotionally i feel empty, spiritually i am jst striving on my own; no one to look up to. For him its all abt sex,sex nd sex. I dnt really show my resentment but only Allah knws how bitter i feel wit him. Wat to do? |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Husband, Help!!! by Aminat508(f): 8:24am On Aug 11, 2015 |
Sister, first of all, we’d like to say that we are impressed by your question, which emanates from a thoughtful heart. May Allah Almighty help us all adhere to the principles of this true religion, Islam, and enable us to be among the dwellers of Paradise in the Hereafter, Amin. There are many reasons for marital hatred, some of which are an unwise choice of the spouse from the beginning, bad treatment, failure to provide for the family’s needs, excessive jealousy, and lack of love. These factors have harmful effects, not only on one’s family life, but also on the society in general. Islam addresses such problems and prescribes cures for them. May Allah (s.w.t) help us Pray to Allaah for guidance (istikhaarah) 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Husband, Help!!! by MrOlai: 9:24am On Aug 11, 2015 |
flakesy01: Don't hate your husband! Your marriage is a mercy from Allah(SWT) and out of His(SWT) bouties, He has blessed you both with a child. More boys, girls and twins are still coming Insha Allah! You can take the following steps: 1. Pray always for him on whatever bothers you about him and Insha Allah, you'll see positive change. 2. Pray for your marriage against all forms of problems from shaytan. 3. Discuss with him whatever bothers you about him. 4. On the issue of sex, please, give it to him anytime he demands for it. It is an act of Ibadan. Always remember you'll be rewarded by Allah(SWT) after every sex.This would serve as an impetus for you to be readily available for him. There are thousands of women out there who are sex starved even among the married ones! Some married women have husbands with extremely low libido. Some are even impotent! So, thank Allah(SWT). Your's is actually a blessing in disguise. So, please, give him the sex! Have the positive mindset about it and you would both enjoy it. Remember it is his right. It would be well Insha Allah. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Husband, Help!!! by flakesy01(f): 9:50am On Aug 11, 2015 |
MrOlai: I do many of d tinz u suggested. I pray 4 him, try to talk to him abt how i feel or how he mkes me feel; he neva rilly takes me seriously. He imagines he is d best he can b for me. We arent friends, he rather befriends strange women to him its nothing. Now tell if i am not emotionally connected to him how can i eva b ready to always giv him sex. I am not sayin i dnt giv him. I am not in luv wit him enuf always giv him or dsire him. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Husband, Help!!! by MrOlai: 10:05am On Aug 11, 2015 |
flakesy01: Then, call a good Islamic scholar to talk to him. Be patient with him and continue to play your own parts. With prayers, all things are possible. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Husband, Help!!! by Empiree: 2:00am On Aug 14, 2015 |
Dont know if this is beneficial to you. Got it from a sister. I break it down to make it easy read. ................... MERRY MARRIAGE ............... You Should Forward It To Him As Well |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Husband, Help!!! by Nobody: 10:19pm On Aug 16, 2015 |
Don't know what to say bout this but I just pray Allah grants u two a better solution to ur probs and grants u a joyful nmarriage. Meanwhile, just keep making dua for ur husband to change 2 Likes |
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