SIRKAY98:


it is as if you want more people to join you in your divorce issue? nooooo . when men beat a woman you forgot the woman is a goat?

passionate88:
NO. 5 Are you serious?.. That's just f*+kd up!. While at it, can I still pay for pants, her tissues, her paloma, her pad too?. What ever happened to the 'financial independent' that you girls all shout about?. Did you girls attend a different school from us?

illiad1:
If there are 20 mistakes married men make, there are 100 married women make!



And I can list them for y'all ladies.


1 they stop dressing well
2 they want to imprison their husband
3 they get fat mostly due to lack of exercise
4 they fight their husband relatives
5 they want to control their husband
6 they get dirty
7 they pile up the house with loads
8 they don't want you to hang out with guys
9 they become impatient
10 some cheat
11 some complain about sex
12 some cook what you don't eat
13 they nagg
14 they fight you over little/nothing
15 they hate their mother inlaw
16 they questions your decisions
17 they wanna go through your call list
18 they wanna come to your office for...
19 they wanna choose your secretary
20 they don't want fine house helps
21 they abuse their husbands at will
22 some get very greedy
23 some become extremely rude
24 some use your children to fight you
25 some push their man towards crime
26 some frustrate their husbands life
27 they suspect you unnecessarily
28 they demand an inventory of your outing
29 they accuse you of being stingy
30 they cook late watching Africa Magic
31 some turn their husbands to ATM
32 some forget home become career women
33 some hand over husband to house help
34 some become lazy & reduced to gossips
35 some deny their husbands sex
36 some become feminists in Africa
37 they run mouths like grinding machines
38 they compare dia husband to moneybags
39 some become diabolical
40 some listen more to friends than husband

IdiAmin1:
I didn't only read it, I digested it and have planned on correcting my own errors as a husband but ladies' version should also be looked into.

delectablegyal:




Source: http://adegboyegailori.com/20-costly-mistakes-married-men-make/

passionate88:
This thread is wacked from the first point... The man is the 'PHYSICAL' Head of the home, the woman might be spiritually stronger thab the man.

anumide:

Bros e remain 60 na?

illiad1:



Sweetheart I don't want y'all thinking I don't appreciate your greatness & specialness....I DO WITH ALL MY HEART!

I was only highlighting human errors on that list, not to talk down on women by any means! I can make an equal list for men too as we are all imperfect.

Another day another list

illiad1:
If there are 20 mistakes married men make, there are 100 married women make!



And I can list them for y'all ladies.


1 they stop dressing well
2 they want to imprison their husband
3 they get fat mostly due to lack of exercise
4 they fight their husband relatives
5 they want to control their husband
6 they get dirty
7 they pile up the house with loads
8 they don't want you to hang out with guys
9 they become impatient
10 some cheat
11 some complain about sex
12 some cook what you don't eat
13 they nagg
14 they fight you over little/nothing
15 they hate their mother inlaw
16 they questions your decisions
17 they wanna go through your call list
18 they wanna come to your office for...
19 they wanna choose your secretary
20 they don't want fine house helps
21 they abuse their husbands at will
22 some get very greedy
23 some become extremely rude
24 some use your children to fight you
25 some push their man towards crime
26 some frustrate their husbands life
27 they suspect you unnecessarily
28 they demand an inventory of your outing
29 they accuse you of being stingy
30 they cook late watching Africa Magic
31 some turn their husbands to ATM
32 some forget home become career women
33 some hand over husband to house help
34 some become lazy & reduced to gossips
35 some deny their husbands sex
36 some become feminists in Africa
37 they run mouths like grinding machines
38 they compare dia husband to moneybags
39 some become diabolical
40 some listen more to friends than husband

Excellentmind:


41. They become opposition to their husbands
42. They go into competition with their husbands
43. They become angels outside and wicked inside
44. Her money is hers and husband's is for all
45. She wants to decide how husband's salary is spent

illiad1:


Lol
Very so right!


My brother I was to go a hundred list, but I don't want them ladies thinking am talking down on them, when I was only highlighting the mistakes some ladies make, to which of course I could make a parallel list for men too, as none is perfect.

illiad1:
If there are 20 mistakes married men make, there are 100 married women make!



And I can list them for y'all ladies.


1 they stop dressing well
2 they want to imprison their husband
3 they get fat mostly due to lack of exercise
4 they fight their husband relatives
5 they want to control their husband
6 they get dirty
7 they pile up the house with loads
8 they don't want you to hang out with guys
9 they become impatient
10 some cheat
11 some complain about sex
12 some cook what you don't eat
13 they nagg
14 they fight you over little/nothing
15 they hate their mother inlaw
16 they questions your decisions
17 they wanna go through your call list
18 they wanna come to your office for...
19 they wanna choose your secretary
20 they don't want fine house helps
21 they abuse their husbands at will
22 some get very greedy
23 some become extremely rude
24 some use your children to fight you
25 some push their man towards crime
26 some frustrate their husbands life
27 they suspect you unnecessarily
28 they demand an inventory of your outing
29 they accuse you of being stingy
30 they cook late watching Africa Magic
31 some turn their husbands to ATM
32 some forget home become career women
33 some hand over husband to house help
34 some become lazy & reduced to gossips
35 some deny their husbands sex
36 some become feminists in Africa
37 they run mouths like grinding machines
38 they compare dia husband to moneybags
39 some become diabolical
40 some listen more to friends than husband

illiad1:
If there are 20 mistakes married men make, there are 100 married women make!



And I can list them for y'all ladies.


1 they stop dressing well
2 they want to imprison their husband
3 they get fat mostly due to lack of exercise
4 they fight their husband relatives
5 they want to control their husband
6 they get dirty
7 they pile up the house with loads
8 they don't want you to hang out with guys
9 they become impatient
10 some cheat
11 some complain about sex
12 some cook what you don't eat
13 they nagg
14 they fight you over little/nothing
15 they hate their mother inlaw
16 they questions your decisions
17 they wanna go through your call list
18 they wanna come to your office for...
19 they wanna choose your secretary
20 they don't want fine house helps
21 they abuse their husbands at will
22 some get very greedy
23 some become extremely rude
24 some use your children to fight you
25 some push their man towards crime
26 some frustrate their husbands life
27 they suspect you unnecessarily
28 they demand an inventory of your outing
29 they accuse you of being stingy
30 they cook late watching Africa Magic
31 some turn their husbands to ATM
32 some forget home become career women
33 some hand over husband to house help
34 some become lazy & reduced to gossips
35 some deny their husbands sex
36 some become feminists in Africa
37 they run mouths like grinding machines
38 they compare dia husband to moneybags
39 some become diabolical
40 some listen more to friends than husband

bemyguest:
This happens when the husband is not responsible. According to the op.

bemyguest:
This happens when the husband is not responsible. According to the op.

passionate88:
NO. 5 Are you serious?.. That's just f*+kd up!. While at it, can I still pay for pants, her tissues, her paloma, her pad too?. What ever happened to the 'financial independent' that you girls all shout about?. Did you girls attend a different school from us?

anumide:

the reason women seem spiritually stronger is because men had failed in that duty. Christ is the spiritual head of the Man, the Man is the spiritual covering of the woman. 1 cor 11:3.
somewhere in the bible Paul asked women to go home and ask their husbands questions concerning spiritual matters. if the men are less sound than the women, how will they teach their women?
Homes were the men are spiritual and sound are beautiful to live in.
my mum may wake me up at night to pray; if I like, I can roll back and ignore her. but once it's my Dad, sleep don clear be that. he is not harsh or anything like that, he has just taken his place in spiritual leadership

EmmyDe25:

The Point 5 though. Okay, lets deviate a bit. so if i tell my girlfriend to improve her looks/wardrobe, i have to finance her? Exactly why it is not ideal to go after an anyhow babe. Of course taking her shopping isn't out of point and buying her things you think would look good on her will be seen as an act of good gesture, but then, you should know when to draw the line between buying things for yourself and having your boyfriend do that for you.
These days, its just annoying how 'some' ladies see going into a relationship as a means to make money off a guy.

passionate88:
@bolded, that's not spiritual leadership at work, that's the respect and fear you have for your dad... At home if I don't want to be disturbed and my dad called me, I will pretend As if I am sleeping or I didn't hear him but if it was my mom, I will answer. Spirituality doesn't come into play in this situation... I respect my parents but I have this soft spot for my mom so I try to do good by her.

anumide:

Nope, I am not afraid of my dad, of the both of them, my mum is the tigress sef.
Leave my example alone, don't build your point around it, under normal conditions, men should be the spiritual leaders of their homes.

passionate88:
This thread is wacked from the first point... The man is the 'PHYSICAL' Head of the home, the woman might be spiritually stronger than the man.

passionate88:
What's normal?. So if I mistakenly married a girl that is later called to serve as a Pastor, I should be her 'HEAD' spiritually?

passionate88:
What's normal?. So if I mistakenly married a girl that is later called to serve as a Pastor, I should be her 'HEAD' spiritually?