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. by bbeautylik(f): 8:12pm On Aug 12, 2015
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Re: . by Nobody: 8:18pm On Aug 12, 2015
Sorry,can't comprehend your writeup
Re: . by Cutehector(m): 8:22pm On Aug 12, 2015
Thr must be smth rong smhwr
Re: . by brodalikeme(m): 10:14pm On Aug 12, 2015
I can only imagine the difficulties. I think with your dad's state of mind now, he wouldn't make a good husband. Find a way of making him copy with their loss and see if he can find a place for another woman again. If you suspect a spiritual under tone in the death of your mother and step mum, then you should deal with that first through prayers.

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Re: . by KanwuliaJara: 11:02pm On Aug 12, 2015
Is he getting married to cure loneliness? undecided
Re: . by gidjah(m): 11:51pm On Aug 12, 2015
How many kids una get can he cope with yet another woman? He should be old now na, if he has enough kids,would advice him to stay off o, no need for marriage.let your younger ones stay with him.But for two women to kick d bucket just like dat, u really need to do some spiritual check up my dear.how is d familly faring spiritually
Re: . by Nmeri17: 12:36am On Aug 13, 2015
KanwuliaJara:
.....
the shoko is not showing properly angry
Re: . by KanwuliaJara: 4:49am On Aug 13, 2015
Nmeri17:
the shoko is not showing properly angry

cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy

Use your imagination jooooooor! wink
Re: . by MARKone(m): 6:01am On Aug 13, 2015
bbeautylik:
[left][/left]MY STORY

I was six years old far back 1996 when my dad
came back from work, we all went out and
greeted him but suddenly the light current went
low so my mum went to the kitchen to off the
deep freezer not knowing that would be the end,
on touching the deep freezer, she was
electrocuted and she shouted, my dad ran to off
the current from the electric box and
immediately took her to the hospital but on
getting there she gave up.

AFTER FOUR YEARS

With more pressure from my mum's daddy, my
father decided to get married, we were all happy
we've gotten a new mum..... The marriage was
just ten years when my step mum went for her
twin brothers wedding, During the wedding, she
fell down and died mysteriously . This was
someone that called me a day before the
wedding asking me if I could make it to the
wedding, but then I was writing my 300 level
exams.

NOW

My dad is the one who I pity the most.... It's
been five years now he is still feeling depressed
and with high BP

Very sad. I think he should not marry again. Burying two wives, to some people, may not be normal, and would likely scare off any other potential bride. You did not state his age, He should channel his attention and energy to other things, and you guys can also play a very important role in keeping him actively engaged and less lonely.

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Re: . by bbeautylik(f): 9:22am On Aug 13, 2015
MARKone:


Very sad. I think he should not marry again. Burying two wives, to some people, may not be normal, and would likely scare off any other potential bride. You did not state his age, He should channel his attention and energy to other things, and you guys can also play a very important role in keeping him actively engaged and less lonely.
He is 57 years old with 7 kids
Re: . by Nmeri17: 5:12pm On Aug 14, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy

Use your imagination jooooooor! wink
owky naah smiley

*walking in from the other side of the mirror bare bodied and humming Kelly Rowland's "kisses down low" ** wink
Re: . by Nobody: 6:51pm On Aug 14, 2015
I believe your dad is above 50yrs. In his depressed state, all you can do is cheer him up with Gods word, take him out, buy him gifts and keep him company when you have the time. He should let go of the past and see you kids as a reason to live. Being happy is a choice we have to make as long as planet earth is concerned cause numerous things that can swing our emotions and feelings to negativity are countless.
Re: . by juman(m): 7:37pm On Aug 14, 2015
He should remarry.

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Re: . by KanwuliaJara: 8:26pm On Aug 14, 2015
Nmeri17:
owky naah smiley

*walking in from the other side of the mirror bare bodied and humming Kelly Rowland's "kisses down low" ** wink

Hahahaha

***turning around and accidentally dropping my hairbrsh and running for my dear life. shocked***

Re: . by SAMBARRY: 8:33pm On Aug 14, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy

Use your imagination jooooooor! wink
kanwuliajara shocked shocked shocked shocked


my friend cover your bom bom kia kia.go wear cloth na shocked

which one be public display shocked lipsrsealed

abi you be pornography star ni lipsrsealed
Re: . by SAMBARRY: 8:38pm On Aug 14, 2015
Nmeri17:
the shoko is not showing properly angry
stop encouraging nonsense na
Re: . by SAMBARRY: 8:40pm On Aug 14, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


Hahahaha

***turning around and accidentally dropping my hairbrsh and running for my dear life. shocked***
kileleyi lipsrsealed
Re: . by lilmax(m): 8:40pm On Aug 14, 2015
Witches at work
Re: . by KanwuliaJara: 9:41pm On Aug 14, 2015
SAMBARRY:
kanwuliajara shocked shocked shocked shocked


my friend cover your bom bom kia kia.go wear cloth na shocked

which one be public display shocked lipsrsealed

abi you be pornography star ni lipsrsealed

I don tell una make una nor dey visit my NL house, una nor dey hia word! grin

"Mad woman" dey wia cloth? Too hot in America now oooooh! I can't wear paiheint till DECEMBER tain! wink
Make my "LUCY" take small breeze abeg!!!! wink

I only showed "skin"! Haba!!!
If I turn "front" wetin una go do? tongue
Re: . by Nobody: 10:31pm On Aug 14, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Sorry,can't comprehend your writeup

Read it slowly, and as many times as possible.

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Re: . by SAMBARRY: 10:43pm On Aug 14, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


I don tell una make una nor dey visit my NL house, una nor dey hia word! grin

"Mad woman" dey wia cloth? Too hot in America now oooooh! I can't wear paiheint till DECEMBER tain! wink
Make my "LUCY" take small breeze abeg!!!! wink

I only showed "skin"! Haba!!!
If I turn "front" wetin una go do? tongue
you're embarrassing me na.go wear light cloth if weather hot lipsrsealed
Re: . by Nmeri17: 10:45pm On Aug 14, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


Hahahaha

***turning around and accidentally dropping my hairbrsh and running for my dear life. shocked***
shocked shocked that guy na murderer naa. I'm much more HUMANE and very gentuu kiss wink
Re: . by Nmeri17: 10:58pm On Aug 14, 2015
SAMBARRY:
stop encouraging nonsense na
k
Re: . by KanwuliaJara: 8:59pm On Aug 15, 2015
SAMBARRY:
you're embarrassing me na.go wear light cloth if weather hot lipsrsealed

Awwwwwwww!
Sowwwwwy! cry
I thought nature would be appreciated. wink
Re: . by KanwuliaJara: 9:00pm On Aug 15, 2015
Nmeri17:
shocked shocked that guy na murderer naa. I'm much more HUMANE and very gentuu kiss wink

Hahahahahaha!!!!
Wahala dey oooooh! grin
Re: . by ifyalways(f): 9:52pm On Aug 15, 2015
KanwuliaJara:

Hahahahahaha!!!!
Wahala dey oooooh! grin
Kai see feet. Lovely sandal. Na my size ooo,got one for me? cheesy

@OP, what really is the issue? The deaths, your dad's health condition or

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Re: . by KanwuliaJara: 9:59pm On Aug 15, 2015
ifyalways:

Kai see feet. Lovely sandal. Na my size ooo,got one for me? cheesy

@OP, what really is the issue? The deaths, your dad's health condition or


Thanks dear. grin
Re: . by Chidoks(f): 10:05pm On Aug 15, 2015
MARKone:


Very sad. I think he should not marry again. Burying two wives, to some people, may not be normal, and would likely scare off any other potential bride. You did not state his age, He should channel his attention and energy to other things, and you guys can also play a very important role in keeping him actively engaged and less lonely.

the sutuation is really complicated.the man needs company and care.he needs someone to manage/ monitor him healthwise.he can marry an elderly woman who wouldn't necessarily bear more children.he needs a friend and a shoulder to lean on.God help him

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