please is it a disease to break up with ur boyfriend becos he is a jerk, get into a relationship wit another whos treats you like u are equal and secretly still have feelings for the jerk?

well i'll say that you are still having the hangover of the former relationship;it's like alcohol. takes a while to wear off. the only remedy is to love and cherish your new relationship and in no time the truma of the past will wear away

thanks

u welcome girl

no. it's perfectly natural. give it some time. it helps to avoid the jerk as long as possible. and keep other things on ur mind, like how good the new guy treats u. and try not to be bitter by calling him a jerk cos the new guy will sense it. and the new relationship sounds like a rebound one. if he thinks u're bitter he'll think u're using him, which i hope u're not anyway.

Time girl give time d chance to heal ur wound I believe u're definitely goin to enjoy d new guy.

well u think u are havin feellings 4 him but u are not is things that happen

gurl, u need to make up ur mind. Go for the best or the good guy, kick the old one to the curb and get him outta ur system.

@poster:
Is it a disease? Why, of course it is! And the remedy? Just one night of serious koboko with Dr. Kay9 is bound to cure the malaise!! 

*^{hiss at above poster's reply}* Girl, its not a disease.Enjoy your life

^^lol. . . 2006 post

Ladies naturally loves jerks

Macgreat:
^^lol. . . 2006 post

lol...this is almost 2015

I call it low self esteem.