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Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Barbiekhadyjarh: 7:19am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Joavid: |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Komedy(m): 7:20am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Shud we throw a pity party for you? Did you not know/hear/read of stories like urs b4 yu started doing wateva yu did. I didnt waste my time reading ur story, just d headline, 2moro anoda man will still tell his episode. Your money is gone. Sorry. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Generalk007: 7:29am On Aug 17, 2015 |
every disapointment is a blessing bt i blame u sha to let love blind ur eyes.u for marry her before she go for nysc |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by mkmonday: 7:35am On Aug 17, 2015 |
I want to believe that, you actually send yourself without the leading of any body even God, so take your cross |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by bonetalk(m): 7:40am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Joavid:a comment like this should be enough for any reasonable guy that they are the same, while in relationship except marriage, being selfish, not relying upon, being sensitive is not a crime. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by faghoshe(m): 7:42am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Another one happened this morning in delta state and the girl assassinated the guy and his new girl friend so make u now now go assassinate this girl but mind u na he'll u go go after you kill am ooooo lol Guy Move On And Be Wise From Now On |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by searay(m): 7:43am On Aug 17, 2015 |
@OP, the girl must not go free, if you will like to frustrate her spiritually. Message me. But the best way is for you to keep quiet and let nature take its course. 1 Like |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by abbeyty(m): 7:44am On Aug 17, 2015 |
cococandy: Dont mind some people with certificate. They think life starts and ends with that. I don't know why a university graduate can't marry an OND holder,what is the big deal there |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Nobody: 8:06am On Aug 17, 2015 |
njokusboy:you need a bottle of alomo |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by steppin: 8:11am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Joavid:This is exactly why devils like you are assassinated when things like this happen. I wouldn't be silly enough to sponsor a lady, single or married. But if I did, and I hear stories like this, she should be ready to pay me everything back or regret the day she met me. She must have promised him marriage and he believed her. Guys who are just into ordinary relationship do not go about paying school fees for their girlfriends. If they wanted to waste money that much, I'm sure they still have siblings/cousins who will appreciate the gesture better. Dey chop dey clean mouth...one day monkey go enter school, to return na wahala. 3 Likes |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Fkhalifa(m): 8:16am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Hmmm, I'm starting to believe and agree with that guy searchingforlove message about nigerian girls... see them all calling the already.pained guy a loser,when she knows they arent compactible,why not break up with him wheb he was rendering the help? small time they ill say guys are only after thier body,what do you expect a gentle man to do? i now see why bad guys are in the majority whilst the husband materials are inthe minority. 2 Likes |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by mechanics(m): 8:19am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Wow, dont worry bro, life continues, just dat u made a mistake by putting urself in one basket, and u went too far, a lady dat u ave nt paid her bride price wil nt guarantee u dat u wil b her future husband, she took advantage of ur care to decieve u, just pray 4 a woman dat wil luv u wholeheartedly 4rm her heart and nt 4 material things, take heart bro. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by coconat(m): 8:20am On Aug 17, 2015 |
U tink wit ur head b4 u make ds post? Joavid: 1 Like |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by marshalcarter: 8:23am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Sorry bro..... Note-no nigeria gal is worth spendin for no nigeria gal is worth dying for...cos dey re all birds of the same feathers Pele sha....sumtyms...its gud to be bad nd bad to be gud nd m sure most of ur family member are not in sch yet |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by blazingkid21(m): 8:24am On Aug 17, 2015 |
this what we call in kd,Hadashe where u no pack..lesson to all guys |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Naff24(f): 8:30am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Joavid:Chai see sentiment oo, u sure say u get conscience 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Nobody: 8:31am On Aug 17, 2015 |
sukkot: Lol. No. One thing I know for sure is no reasonable lady would not leave a guy just cos of OND cert. I mean, he has a lucrative business and an OND can still further even on part-time basis. Its either she encouraged him to further and he doesn't want to or he's a bad man. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by uzo4real(m): 8:34am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Hmmm 2 Likes
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Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by ElFenomeno1: 8:34am On Aug 17, 2015 |
vislabraye: The second paragraph is golden! He has to learn now and find the strength to move on, no matter how hard it is! If there is a promise / commitment involved, she will pay most likely... 1 Like |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Chima541(m): 8:36am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Big bros, I got one question for u_before u started ur spending on her do she agree to marry u after her school or are the one keep it as surprise package for her? |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by toyese01(m): 8:37am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Joavid: You kinda sound like d girl in picture or someone that can do such....I don't think a girl receiving such help from a guy should need a herbalist to tell her The guy will want to marry, The girl had it in mind to use him,did The guy not give companion too with The financial help or what, mtcheewww 3 Likes |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by sukkot: 8:39am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Joavid:happens all the time in america. these men with lucrative business as taxicab owners and drivers bring their women over from nigeria and sponsor and pay for their education in america as nurses. and as soon as the woman graduates and starts earning she dumps the guy. it is an epidemic in america. in fact over 10 nigerian women have been killed by nigerian men in houston texas alone over this type of treatment. so your point is mute 2 Likes |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by MrLee(m): 8:44am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Man nothing new under planet earth so just move she was not your wife, she was just past of your and her part is over so let it go. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by stinggy(m): 8:50am On Aug 17, 2015 |
cococandy: You can say that again and again, very distorted and so unreal! |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by lastpage: 8:51am On Aug 17, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr: Well, l sympathize with you but as you have read in most comments here, WE LIVE IN A WICKED WORLD! I dont need to tell you again that 99% of Nigerian women (infact women in general) will do exactly as she has done! Women in general, are heartless when it comes to issue of selfishness. I hope "men" will LEARN from your experience! Your kind of experience occurs on a daily basis, to hundreds of men. LOVE your woman but NEVER DEVELOP HER AT YOUR OWN EXPENSE! That is not love, it is foolishness, especially for women of nowadays! ALWAYS BE ABOUT TWO STEPS AHEAD OF HER SO THAT WHEN SHE SHOWS HER TRUE COLORS, YOU WONT FEEL THE IMPACT THIS MUCH AND YOU WILL BE PREPARED. Sorry, lick your "wound" and dont repeat the same mistake again. Also, help other younger men to realize that they must "love with open eyes"! Lastpage! 1 Like |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by persius555(m): 9:02am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Joavid:In other words, guys should see a relationship as a give and take and not a room for charity givings. Op, the ladies have spoken, be wiser next time. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by jabojafa(m): 9:03am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Jman06:seriously been nice to girls nor d pay at all. Infact afta sometime dem go 4get u. In u must b nice 2some one, let it be ur family i.e ur mother n sistas plus d lady u wan marry. Since show luv to ppl especially d less even if dem go forget. Becos d ppl dt will rememba u tomorrow are not d ppl u are nice to 2day. 2 Likes |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Adedaniel211(m): 9:05am On Aug 17, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr: Eeya sorry ooo. U don enter one chance my broda, but jst move on nd life goes on.. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Sammyblaq(m): 9:06am On Aug 17, 2015 |
A jigga on this forum is about or making the mistake already. Quoting some ladies up there... 'he is an asshole (s in dollar)' 'sh:t happens' 'friendship mustnt end at marriage'. .... All noted. 'This gals are very deadly, i checked myself nobody rape me' - 2baba Guys BEWARE! When you reason before spending, they say 'U STINGY'...but when u spend before reasoning.... |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by sniper77(m): 9:16am On Aug 17, 2015 |
Guy move on with your life.she is not a part of your life.what will be will be.Focus on your future.In the fullness of time your destined wife will come. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Sammyblaq(m): 9:21am On Aug 17, 2015 |
cococandy:ikpofelam!... Tell them... I know this bigshot in umuahia that owns a well known and visited hotel and many other big investments attached to his name.... He is on MONEY and controls MONEY but he obtained a degree not quite long. After college, we furthered; but this guy joined a market. Now he's made it large pass many o'us. Chukwuma is every womans dream...handsome dude, well built, speaks well, Runs dough, cares and other pluses but no degree yet if am guessing right. #StreetPaid sister u'r right about it. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Edusouls(m): 9:37am On Aug 17, 2015 |
RedCard1:dont mind them brother, his siblings maybe there suffering begging him for help,he will tell them no money, men are fools.. |
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