there is something that has been bothering me for so long in my heart and i want to share it with you guys,honestly why do we like women so much,take me for instance,i love to be faithfull to any woman i marry but i have discovered that there is thing btw my legs that always says no,i read in a book that it is in men nature,my question then is why?i dont understand it,i am being honest with myself here,
i have seen many men who hold important public postions who strugles with this problem inwardly,my question again is why?i am tempted to ask the women not to respond to this question cos i feel they will just dont understand but i am sure some will answer this question objectively,so my question again why are we men like this?i am afraid of getting married because of this very problem cos i wouldnt like to bring pain to my wife

@Poster.
Have u read thru other threads? U got an@wers already. Go search

@ poster

the spirit is wiling but the flesh is weak, but with determination & God's grace nothing its impossible.

Back in the days before colonization Africa man never used to cheat on his wife because according to customs we were allowed to marry five or six  . But since our colonial masters brought the bible and christianity we men are now struggling to manage one 

Not all men cheat but majority do. It all boils down to upbringing and self discipline. Hope i am right?

U are right Uzwu

manmustwac:

Back in the days before colonization Africa man never used to cheat on his wife because according to customs we were allowed to marry five or six  . But since our colonial masters brought the bible and christianity we men are now struggling to manage one 

ur not serious. what about the ones that have 4 wives and still get their housemaids pregnant?

frankkky:

there is something that has been bothering me for so long in my heart and i want to share it with you guys,honestly why do we like women so much,take me for instance,i love to be faithfull to any woman i marry but i have discovered that there is thing btw my legs that always says no,i read in a book that it is in men nature,my question then is why?i dont understand it,i am being honest with myself here,
i have seen many men who hold important public postions who strugles with this problem inwardly,my question again is why?i am tempted to ask the women not to respond to this question cos i feel they will just dont understand but i am sure some will answer this question objectively,so my question again why are we men like this?i am afraid of getting married because of this very problem cos i wouldnt like to bring pain to my wife

Problem solved. You can't you be faithful if you are still marrying new wives.

I remember a line from one of John Legend's Rap it says[i] ''my heart is different from my p***nis,it's got a mind of it's own''[/i]
@Poster
What you need do is to align your heart to your di.ck, let them think and act alike!

It has a lot to do with upbringing. If you have a good reason to stay faithful you will and i think you have one. For the sake of your wife and kids, stay faithful. Most guys just don't care about the other person, selfishness is the order of the day, why would i say i love someone and still be hurting them. Love is sacrificial!


Bottom line, if you realy care about your family, you will stay faithful!

Self discipline is what u need.@Poster.
Remember,u've seen one,u've seen it all.

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It ensures survival of the species but are we down to the last man and woman on earth?