FBS:

phuck this "typical naija man" statement. its uncalled for.arrant nonsense. lots of naija guys/men/folks on this thread declared that the husband go for a test.

Dammy_ray:

the man no watin him dey do outside na him cuz am , but let me ask who brought up the idea , dont they trust their self?
What idea and trust are you talking about? the man was caught cheating and u re talking about trust. Of cause there's no more trust here. Both of them should go have themselves tested and if by god's grace they are free, the guy should be made to know the risks involved in extra-marital affair. He should be monitored thereafter (the wife should send spies after him) to know if he has actually changed, if not, the wife should always play it safe with him until he finally answers the death that has been calling him. There are many widows out there, the important thing is to stay health and alive for the kids.Shikena

Dammy_ray:

the man no watin him dey do outside na him cuz am , but let me ask who brought up the idea , dont they trust their self?

emiemi:

This is another TYPICAL NAIJA MAN's statement.

saintade01:

[size=14pt][/size] , so what happened if he tested positive to any of the STD's ?  she pack her things and leave?

Nooooo. marriage is for better for worse. whateever it is she continues in the life term contract.
So what difference does it make?

FBS:

I can clearly see your problem. you are not a qualified comedian

saintade01:

[size=14pt][/size] , so what happened if he tested positive to any of the STD's ?  she pack her things and leave?

Nooooo. marriage is for better for worse. whateever it is she continues in the life term contract.
So what difference does it make?

Theblessed:

Do they mean you stay in a hopeless marriage and cross your leg because no other man would find you attractive should you get out, or what  You are a human being (so, is he).  Everybody needs somebody and at one point when you are still crossing your legs naturally, you would experience intense sexual urge - tell me what would you do then?  I prophesy you would run back into his arms, all is forgiven and there he gives you doses of HIV/Aids ''GERM'' you'd been waiting for.lol!!!

You see, these are mistakes women make that always catch up on them.  As you are busy crossing those legs, your old man will be busy visiting his regular joints for his sexual needs, which you failed to meet and, now you are in desperate needs, he will be happy to bring home all he had been saving for you from those women - the disease you have been avoiding. 

eiete:

lol! she should get one of his dirty undies

and send it to the lab for testing.

BabyGirl_1:

One can't say you should leave your marriage, Is that wisdom? Without knowing if you're just asked him a week ago to take the test, you should talk with him and persuade him to take the test and he may eventually give in and take the test and your marriage would be saved.

Now you hit town, Meet a "Gentle Man" whose doesn't tell you he's infected, then you get infected, just to find out your husband wasn't affected

Theblessed:

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Hey, too sorry indeed.  Your attacks suggest nothing rather, a woman that lacks confidence in herself.

You are one of the marriage slaves in woman-hood.  Your writing suggests that you are willing to eat sh-t from your husband for the sake of marriage, how sorry!  Is marriage compulsory? Were you born with a man in your hand when you entered this world?  Who tells you that you cannot make it in life without a man - what a brainwash?
If she did not marry, would it prevent her from being a woman and a human being? Your type is the kind that endangers vulnerable women because of your insecurities and fear of the unknown - girlfriend let me tell you 'change does you alot of good and you must not forget that'. Well, if you had read my commentary properly without jumping into conclusion, you'd have understood what is written.  Obviously, you didn't and hence your attacks.  It goes to show how small your brain is, and you might be the kind that quickly jump into bed with anything that has a sausage between his legs and thus, think you'd found love.  Intelligent and independent women do not act like that, girlfriend. They first of all develop relationship with someone, get to know them properly - talk, discuss, share dreams, plans and aspirations before your bedroom tactics.  It takes a long time to develop relationship girlfriend and by then, you would have talked about every aspect of your relationship with the person and let me remind you and your kind here one more time - no intelligent and sensible person jump into a new relationship these days without taking some sort of test first, except some love starved women - your kind.

The woman in question has been humiliated enough in her marriage and the best thing is to leave that sorry marriage and move on with her life.  Why respect a man who has no respect for you? Infidelity is a sinful act both in the eyes of man and God and men get away with it because of women like you.  Yes, I hear you say, go and beg him to take the test presummably, until the last drop of her blood before she could get sense and get out of a dangerous marriage that would ruin her life eventually and blight the life of her innocent children. This woman had already applied your clever ideas and got no where with this idiot of a man and you still want her to continue begging and begging because in your previous life you were deprived of a marriage hence your stay and die attitude to marriage.

The best thing is for this woman to leave this marriage and make a new start and please, if you care about her wellbeing stop advising her otherwise - Mrs die in Marriage