I need advice from NLanders.When i was in University,i met a guy in my 3rd year and we were hi-hi friends for 2 whole years.We never had any conversations at all,we just say hello and moved on.After we graduated,i travelled and ran into him again and we got really close.We spent at least 5 hours every day talking and getting to know each other.There was nothing physical involved,we just talked a lot for about a month.Finally,we kissed.When he left for home,i missed him a lot and he missed me a lot too,he said it all the time.Finally after a couple of months,we were able to see face to face and we were very happy to see each other.Consequently,we've drifted apart and hardly talk anymore.I miss my friend a lot and think i might have fallen in love with him.What can i do?

Dont u guys have mobile phones??

@tope,we have mobile phones of course.We were apart for a couple of months and kept in close contact,speaking on the phone for hours and we sent at least 20 texts back and forth everyday but now i feel like i am the one that always does the calling and thats usually after waiting for days and even weeks for him to call.

bee22:

@tope,we have mobile phones of course.We were apart for a couple of months and kept in close contact,speaking on the phone for hours and we sent at least 20 texts back and forth everyday but now i feel like i am the one that always does the calling and thats usually after waiting for days and even weeks for him to call.

So u r the only one doing the calling now?? maybe he is losin interest
maybe you shud tell him how u r feelin

yes, TELL HIM HOW YOU ARE FEELING, IT WOULD DO YOU BOTH GOOD

na wa o! girls and emotion

@Poster
There is a saying in sports that ''Don't Let The Fear Of Striking Out Keep You From Playing The Game''
Overcome your fear by calling him to intimate him of your feelings,Ask how he feels too.
Either wayz your findings go,You will be better off.

give the guy some space,
maybe the he is trying to figure out where you guys stand
hand on, he would surely come around

yes

not true.

supported ben

Well if you truly love him as you claim, then keep calling and assuring him of your undying love towards him; am sure he would be greatly encouraged by that.

@poster
i bet you very soon since you are the one that is always calling your feelings for him will soon wax cold but which ever way keep cool??
and always have faith cause if he is yours he will come for you no matter what.

i really want to say thank you to evry1 that has written on this thread.

i think one of the main reasons y he doesn't call so much anymore is because he's currently out of a job.i'll keep encouraging him as a friend,i guess and if this was meant to happen it'll flow naturally.

Feel like my theme song right now is Energy by Keri Hilson cause this love is taking all of my energy,

@bee22
omo the guy don make you fall in love

@poster
U dey wait 4 am 2ask u out. D guy ìs either takin his time or e no get liver.(sissy)
Wat advice can i gv u? NONE. Im just a PLAYER. No strings attached.
lol.

@puskin

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