One man with gloom on his face made this exclamation, “if I knew she was like that, I won’t have married her”. From the look on his face, you don’t need a prophet to tell you that the man was not happy in his marriage; he was full of regret of the woman he married as a wife. The man wasn’t alone; there are many men in a similar situation who are not happy because of the women they married.

The truth of the matter is that when a man is not happy in his marriage, it literally shows in his mood and face. That man, even though he had not divorced or sent his wife away, but they are not relating well as husband and wife. He complained that his wife was not appealing to him any longer.

In some of my earlier posts, I had warned women to be conscious and do everything possible to avoid losing their appeal before their husbands. Once a woman loses her appeal before her husband, other negative consequences in her marriage will soon follow.

But what on earth can make a woman lose her appeal before her husband and what should be done to remedy the situation? For one thing, as a woman, you don’t lose your appeal before your husband in one day; it is a gradual process and takes time before it happens.

I wish to say that most a time, it starts by ignoring a particular area or issue in your life which your husband does complain about time without number. If you are a woman and notice an issue or area your husband is complaining about you, don’t treat that issue with a wave of hands. You should know that he is not happy with you in that area.

So instead of ignoring him or his complaint, you should rather work on yourself to remove or improve on that area. If you ignore his complaint, time will come when he will choose to ignore you as well which in the long run, result in not finding you appealing.

An area some women easily lose their appeal before their husband is by allowing themselves to be an overweight. A man with regret in his eyes was quoted, complaining that the woman he has in his house as a wife is a shapeless woman that even look older than his mother rather than an elegant woman he saw years ago and married as a wife.

As a married woman, you should be conscious not to allow yourself to get overweight if you don’t want your husband to lose interest in you. However, you should as well not allow yourself to be too slim as not to appear as if your husband is not taking good care of you. Maintaining your weight and your body structure is necessary which should be one of the prizes you pay to sustain your marriage.

Another area that women easily lose their appeal is their cleanness or otherwise. As a woman, never be so lazy as to neglect to clean yourself and be clean all the time. It is noted that most of the women with body odor are those that don’t clean themselves very well and often. Never go to bed at night without taking a good bath especially if you are sharing a bed with your husband. Don’t allow your husband see or judge as being dirty.

Some women have discharge and it is noted that some discharge goes with an offensive odor. If you have such a problem, don’t allow your husband to have an affair with you especially at night without first of all going to clean your private with clean water.

A man once complained that he has made a stop to making love to his wife because any time he makes love to her, the odor that result was so offensive that he used to run away from the bedroom to the sitting room. So don’t be lazy, ensure you clean your body all the time or else your husband will not find you appealing.

Again, be conscious of your wears (dressing). Make sure you wear clothes that fit your body structure. Don’t because you want to wear the latest designer’s clothes that are reigning that will make you wear clothes that did not fit your body structure. Your watchword is that you should dress to please your husband and not to please the public. Your husband should be your mirror, so any cloth he didn’t like, don’t wear it.

Moreover, mind the clothes you wear to bed at night and don’t be fond of dressing like an old grandma. Those who designed nightgown, what do you think was at the back of their mind? Ensure that often you wear good nightgown aimed at fuelling your appeal before your husband.

Above all, ensure that you treat your husband with respect. If you treat your husband with respect, you will see that he will ever adore you. Remember all these are to ensure that you don’t lose your sex appeal before your husband. Ensure that your husband is happy all the time and you are the master key that will unlock that happiness in him.

Of a truth, if your husband is happy with you all the time, you will see that you will enjoy him and your marriage to the fullness all the time.
SOURCE: WWW.EVERGREENMARRIAGE.COM

PELE

Na real pele

if you need answers, watch your pman and momsi and wonder how they survive the marriage without hitch

visit my signature and DP

i never been there yet…everyday I'm juz getting curious hows it feel to be married

I like d 2nd to d last paragraph. Respect is d key.. men holds ladies who respect them very dear to their heart. Its a pity, most ladies of nowadays r disrespectful.

lovaleenny:
Na real pele

Please work on that your vaginal discharge

..i personally believe some women and even men get married before they are mentally, emotionally, physically and financially ready, there is a lot of development needed......i have a family friend(woman) who says she has no secret....she tells every1 everything abt her family despite her husband being a very responsible man, it's no surprise to me considering she got married at a young age. Develop urself before marriage and if u are already married try developing urself tru marriage books etcetera.

angels09:

Please work on that your vaginal discharge

Dt advice aint for me....maybe for ur girl...pick on someone else to load your frustration on..idiot!!!

lovaleenny:


Dt advice aint for me....maybe for ur girl...pick on someone else to load your frustration on..idiot!!!

Truth is bitter can't forget the oozes hmm woow

angels09:
Truth is bitter can't forget the oozes hmm woow

quit trolling her.

Op you keep writing about women this women that what of men that drag along protruding tummy like 9months pregnancy, ooh that's sexy I guess

Mtchew

Ah! Ah! You no get that OLX app



Sell her on OLX!

AtomikEnergy:
quit trolling her.

cant you mind your biz? trolling indeed...quit trolling me

Aitee1:
Op you keep writing about women this women that what of men that drag along protruding tummy like 9months pregnancy, ooh that's sexy I guess

One pack is very sexy.

Ask the men who have their homes in FESTAC, Amuwo Odofin and Okota.

KashyBaby:
i never been there yet…everyday I'm juz getting curious hows it feel to be married

You mean to say, you are still searching for Mr Right.

Op, balance the equation. What will a man do so as not to lose his appeal before the wife.

Women all have things that put them off in a man.

cococandy:
Mtchew

The best response so far.

+ 1000 Likes!!

nope...I'm not searching either but juz curious how does it feel to be married

jcflex:


You mean to say, you are still searching for Mr Right.

Rubbish! What happens to wives that masturbate with pics of van vicker? Married men should also start looking appealing as well.

Am seriously sorry to this story man.

This days, u see ladies trying to force guys into serious relationship as soon as they new u have job that can take care of their bills.
There ws this particular gal i knew back then in school, popped into my whatapp one day and we begin to talk about life and other stuffs. The moment she knew i had a job jst cos i asked her out, she as been troubling me with serious relationship which i put to an end jst recently cos of her bad n nagging behaviour, i observed few month of our dating.

Guys n ladies as to be careful with the kind of pple who want serious relationship with them all of a sudden. There is no going back when two of u are one.
All this talk of am getting old, am not getting any younget thing sud tell guys the king of person that lady is.

KashyBaby:
nope...I'm not searching either but juz curious how does it feel to be married

Take a step towards it, and stop the imagination.