guccidriver93k:
My boyfriend said I should buy him Gucci Driver shoes worth N93k when I am coming home for Christmas break, said he will give me the money when I come back. This is going to be the first time we will meet since we started our fragile relationship 9 months ago, we knew a bit in University few years ago.

Severally, I have told my boyfriend prior to now that I cannot afford it. Last before now, he said "but you can start saving now and you will get the money before your arrival". So this time, to be the virtuous girlfriend, I had to go all out and check up the prices for this shoe.
I think he assumes that because I am a self-sponsored student abroad, I am Dantata's love child.
Anytime i debunk this claim, he goes like "haba!" and

Richy4:
Nairaland is becoming something else.

I think nairaland are getting tired of when people spits, they ask why the spittle was white. Or If they sh!t , they create a thread to ask why they should use tissue papers or advise on how to use tissue papers

guccidriver93k:
My boyfriend said I should buy him Gucci Driver shoes worth N93k when I am coming home for Christmas break, said he will give me the money when I come back. This is going to be the first time we will meet since we started our fragile relationship 9 months ago, we knew a bit in University few years ago.

Severally, I have told my boyfriend prior to now that I cannot afford it. Last before now, he said "but you can start saving now and you will get the money before your arrival". So this time, to be the virtuous girlfriend, I had to go all out and check up the prices for this shoe.
I think he assumes that because I am a self-sponsored student abroad, I am Dantata's love child.
Anytime i debunk this claim, he goes like "haba!" and

hanubarbie:
Op in my opinion I tink ur guy is using d shoe talk to get rid of u, his not really into u dats wat most naija guys do if they want to breakup with a girl....move on wit ur life!!

Which one is "naija guys" again?

You just spoilt everything you said with that short phrase

5minsmadness:

What's there to advice Your boyfriend said u should buy him something and he'll pay u back when u enter naija. You should have even offered to tell him not to bother paying back and bring it as a gift but that aside what's wrong with it?

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OK av read the rest of the story.

Well maybe a girl should answer this. As a guy I see nothing wrong with it, we give girls gifts all the time. Even when they say they'll pay back and deep down we know they won't we give them anyway. If u don't trust him then u Ave no buisness calling him your boyfriend. If you can afford the n97k but don't want to give him cos you think it's too expensive then politely tell him so.

Abi ladies Wat do you think? Tearoses, MarvellousGod?

hanubarbie:

Chillisauce:


How you carry know. Na we suppose tell you the size .
Meanwhile small ones better pass big ones oh.
Make the thing no shift person womb.
Wetin person wan carry oversize do.

francizy:


OP, ya bf wan use that shoe go toast another babe.. Probably a senator or governor's daughter...

Better run for your life!!!

Who knows, it's possible your bf is even commenting here.
5minsmadness hafa na?? You sure say no be you??

kaboninc:


Everyone sounds familiar to you.

guccidriver93k:


Lol. I'm a regular reader here madam. Just registered to get ideas on how to intelligently solve this issue. I remember you Madame Calloti

guccidriver93k:
Now, I am a student, furthering my studies. And he is working, he has worked for sometime too.
Ok, so I have some money that I am saving to do something later next year, when I will be graduating. But my fear is that he doesn't sound like he will give me back this money. Two, I have a problem with him wearing a 93k shoe in this harsh economy knowing that the money can be saved and invested in something of worth. His choice at the end of the day sha.

Do you think I should buy it Opinions pls

rapmike:
Really you want advice on this

Okay, okay, let me advise you: Dump the motherfvcker!
Is he working for Dangote or Dantata that he needs Gucci shoes? What kind of 'woman' are you dating?( am sorry for saying that but its usually girls that do such frivolous things). You are a wise and kind lady, don't allow him to manipulate you cos if you do this, you will always have to do stuffs like this for his frivolous wants.

kaboninc:


But sweery, I've taken notice of the screenshots you said came from him. Then if you noticed also, you'll see that there was a 6 hour difference between when he told you not to buy the shoes again and when he replied you rudely.

My interest is in his rude reply. I strongly believe that something led to it, either you guys had a fight or something as I do not think he sent that text immediately after the previous ones.

guccidriver93k:
My boyfriend said I should buy him Gucci Driver shoes worth N93k when I am coming home for Christmas break, said he will give me the money when I come back. This is going to be the first time we will meet since we started our fragile relationship 9 months ago, we knew a bit in University few years ago.

Severally, I have told my boyfriend prior to now that I cannot afford it. Last before now, he said "but you can start saving now and you will get the money before your arrival". So this time, to be the virtuous girlfriend, I had to go all out and check up the prices for this shoe.
I think he assumes that because I am a self-sponsored student abroad, I am Dantata's love child.
Anytime i debunk this claim, he goes like "haba!" and

chukxie:


I have a feeling I know you. I might be wrong though. Call me if you're the person I'm thinking you are. My name starts with 'F' and I reside in a place in China that begins with 'H'. Back to the matter, don't buy those shoes. Period!

chukxie:


I have a feeling I know you. I might be wrong though. Call me if you're the person I'm thinking you are. My name starts with 'F' and I reside in a place in China that begins with 'H'. Back to the matter, don't buy those shoes. Period!