my girl is always accusing me of cheating on her. the most recent accusation came up on sallah day, she told me last week that she wants me to take her out on that day but I forgot. she got angry claiming that I intentionally declined to take her out because have already gone out that day with one of my other girlfriends which she knows her self to be false accusation because I don't multi date. haven't seen her since then and she hasn't contacted me, now am beginning to think maybe it is because she is already cheating on me that is why she is always accusing me of the same.
Modified.
just so u understand. on sallah day, she came to my place at 9am in the morning and left around 10am to go to work and she came to my place around 4pm in the afternoon and left around 8pm in the evening. what time do I have to go out with another girl.

You might be right

Maybe. maybe not..
it might also mean she loves u so much..

Why is she suspecting you?


Have you cheated on or been close to cheating on her before?

sebi she's ur gf nt ur wife u too don't contact her..if she's serious she will com bak

lekjons:
Maybe. maybe not..
it might also mean she loves u so much..

her love for me is not in doubt. her jealousy is the problem.

It was a holiday, celebration or whatever, so I get why she must be feeling a little salty that you weren't with her one the day. Sneaky guys always go MIA on "big days". So next time make sure that your "amnesia" doesn't happen on important dates. It was discussed & you "forgot" for some reason. Any woman with a working brain would be giving you daggers because besides cheating, standing someone up is level one disrespectful.

PunkyVeer:
It was a holiday, celebration or whatever, so I get why she must be feeling a little salty that you weren't with her one the day. Sneaky guys always go MIA on "big days". So next time make sure that your "amnesia" doesn't happen on important dates. It was discussed & you "forgot" for some reason. Any woman with a working brain would be giving you daggers because besides cheating, standing someone up is level one disrespectful.

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just so u understand. on sallah day, she came to my place at 9am in the morning and left around 10am to go to work and she came to my place around 4pm in the afternoon and left around 8pm in the evening. what time do I have to go out with another girl.

Insecurity......if she isn't cheating then she must be thinking of it.

Harbosede02:
Insecurity......if she isn't cheating then she must be thinking of it.

exactly my thoughts

I fink she is looking for a way to dump you..

alexistaiwo:

exactly my thoughts

be careful

Nopes. She might have been raised in an enviroment or family where cheating cases from men seems a norm and she's merely fitting you in the tempo of those men. Now you have lots to do to prove to her that you aint as those bunch.

Harbosede02:
be careful

nothing to be careful of. her excesses have gotten too much only a matter of time before I will end the relationship.

xpac01:
Nopes. She might have been raised in an enviroment or family where cheating cases from men seems a norm and she's merely fitting you in the tempo of those men. Now you have lots to do to prove to her that you aint as those bunch.

am done proving anything. if u know the extent to which have shown this girl love, u wouldn't type the above comment

alexistaiwo:
my girl is always accusing me of cheating on her. the most recent accusation came up on sallah day, she told me last week that she wants me to take her out on that day but I forgot. she got angry claiming that I intentionally declined to take her out because have already gone out that day with one of my other girlfriends which she knows her self to be false accusation because I don't multi date. haven't seen her since then and she hasn't contacted me, now am beginning to think maybe it is because she is already cheating on me that is why she is always accusing me of the same.
Modified.
just so u understand. on sallah day, she came to my place at 9am in the morning and left around 10am to go to work and she came to my place around 4pm in the afternoon and left around 8pm in the evening. what time do I have to go out with another girl.

u had between 11 am nd 3pm to go out wit anoda girl.

alexistaiwo:
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just so u understand. on sallah day, she came to my place at 9am in the morning and left around 10am to go to work and she came to my place around 4pm in the afternoon and left around 8pm in the evening. what time do I have to go out with another girl.

Between 10-4

justified19:
u had between 11 am nd 3pm to go out wit anoda girl.

bros. park well

alexistaiwo:

nothing to be careful of. her excesses have gotten too much only a matter of time before I will end the relationship.

wah about ur "excesses"?

Dats just another jealous I3itch
Nothing personal

Harbosede02:
wah about ur "excesses"?

dat for her to decide

alexistaiwo:

dat for her to decide

I will advice u deal with ur "excesses"

Harbosede02:
I will advice u deal with ur "excesses"

am not cheating on her

alexistaiwo:

am not cheating on her

bt we aren't sure she is??

Harbosede02:
bt we aren't sure she is??

then y is she always accusing me.

alexistaiwo:

then y is she always accusing me.

she loves u so much and she is starting to feel insecure mayb cos ur recent attitude towards her

Harbosede02:
she loves u so much and she is starting to feel insecure mayb cos ur recent attitude towards her

hmmmmm

alexistaiwo:

hmmmmm

mmmm...shit happens in relationships....bt quitting isn't the solution. Trying to understand each other irrespective of the differences is wat matters.

She may not b cheating. Mayb. U. R giving her reasons to bliv u r cheating. She cnt just wake up n accuse u of cheating without u showing signs of cheating. Every gal need attention.

JVgal:
She may not b cheating. Mayb. U. R giving her reasons to bliv u r cheating. She cnt just wake up n accuse u of cheating without u showing signs of cheating. Every gal need attention.

attention ko salute ni

alexistaiwo:
my girl is always accusing me of cheating on her. the most recent accusation came up on sallah day, she told me last week that she wants me to take her out on that day but I forgot. she got angry claiming that I intentionally declined to take her out because have already gone out that day with one of my other girlfriends which she knows her self to be false accusation because I don't multi date. haven't seen her since then and she hasn't contacted me, now am beginning to think maybe it is because she is already cheating on me that is why she is always accusing me of the same.
Modified.
just so u understand. on sallah day, she came to my place at 9am in the morning and left around 10am to go to work and she came to my place around 4pm in the afternoon and left around 8pm in the evening. what time do I have to go out with another girl.

generally, one thing you have to know about ladies is that the can be very jealous and attension seekers. Perhabs she might have been seeing you with some casual female friends and probablly sometimes feels left out