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15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:16am On Sep 26, 2015 |
1. Because you have something that they
don’t.
Whether is it your new Paco Rabanne
fragrance, your new house, your new
tattoo or your life in general, you possess
something they don’t — and that upsets
them. Because they realize that life can be
unfair, and that some people can have
things or do things in life that others can’t.
Perhaps they even desire what you have
but don’t quite know how they themselves
can achieve those things. When haters can’t
figure why they lack the things they lack, or
how they can get the things they lack, they
become very angry individuals. To help
themselves cope with this sense of
frustration, they hate. This is how they deal
with their feelings of inadequacy and
inferiority after comparing themselves with
others — by putting it on you. 1 Like |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:17am On Sep 26, 2015 |
2. Because they think you don’t deserve it.
They look at your fame, your popularity,
your friends, your career, etc., and think
that you are not worthy of these things,
because they are only looking at things at
surface level. They don’t care about the
hard work you had put in behind the
scenes — your sacrifices, your worries,
your fears and the pains you’d gone
through. Because they are superficial like
that. 1 Like |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:17am On Sep 26, 2015 |
3. Because they don’t want to lose to you.
They see life as some kind of competition
— who’s more popular, who’s richer, who
has more friends, who has more dates, who
has the better job, yadda yadda — and they
want to win. Their eagerness to do better
than you is not based on their zeal towards
life, but stems from their fear of losing to
you and being seen as failure in their own
eyes. They sort of made you their goal, and
the further the distance between you and
them, the more they hate. That’s why your
haters never want to hear that you are
doing well in anything. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:18am On Sep 26, 2015 |
4. Because they can’t get over the past.
You two had a thing in the past. Perhaps
you were close friends but unfortunately
fell out. Perhaps you were lovers but things
didn’t turn out as planned or expected.
Perhaps there was no closure for whatever
issue there was between the two of you.
Whatever it is, this hater of yours is still
bitter about the past. He/she still can’t get
over it; he/she is unable to forgive, yet. Well
maybe after some time that troubling affair
had quietly slipped off his/her mind, but
because of the grudge still buried deep
inside, whenever he/she gets reminded of
you, emotions can run wild all over again.
And there go the nasty comments and
passive aggressive posts, again. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:19am On Sep 26, 2015 |
5. Because they can’t get over you.
You were important to this person and you
broke his/her heart. And even after all this
time, the wounds never really heal
completely, and perhaps, never will. Maybe
cognitive dissonance has a part to play in
this as well. It is natural instinct to
undermine the significance of the things we
lose, so as to help us cope with loss and the
grief that follows after. Haters
overcompensate this aspect — the deeper
they loved, the stronger they hate. Haters
are people who (still) care, but they do so
far too much. Sometimes you could feel that
they care more about you and the things
you do than you care about yourself, and
they care about what other people think of
you more than you actually do. 1 Like |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by Truckpusher(m): 11:19am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Just in case - At least I have one ardent hater in this forum. MizMyColi, where are your haters? This kain topic be like best seller - And me na FTC things I dey target since 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:20am On Sep 26, 2015 |
6. Because they have nothing better to do
in life.
And we should take pity on them, really.
Because for them, besides surfing Tumblr
five hours a day, stalking other people’s
Facebook and Twitter pages, and posting
hateful comments on blogs and YouTube
videos, they really don’t have much else to
spend their time and energy on. The lowest
of them stoop to writing long hate mails. All
these activities give them that momentary
sense of purpose and achievement in life.
Perhaps your haters don’t even really dislike
you that much. They just like hating on
other people. Hating has sort of become a
lifestyle for them. We can only wish them
the best. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:20am On Sep 26, 2015 |
7. Because their life just ain’t as great and
exciting as yours.
It’s true. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:21am On Sep 26, 2015 |
8. Because they need attention.
What haters are most afraid of is silence.
They feel their existence when they know
that you heard their voice. So don’t talk
back or argue with them. They would only
get more excited. Don’t try to reason with
them. Don’t. Even. They won’t bother
listening. They just need your response to
know that someone actually cares about
what they think or what they have to say. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:21am On Sep 26, 2015 |
9. Because they can.
Because anonymity allows them to spew
nonsense without taking responsibility for
it. It is convenient. It is easy. It is cowardice
at its finest. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:22am On Sep 26, 2015 |
11. Because they are such self-righteous,
moral high priests.
No matter, they will always think of
themselves as the better person compared
to you. They would use your past against
you, judge and criticize you using their own
morals and values, and dismiss any good
that you do. They don’t feel the need for
humility when talking to you because they
believe that they will always be (more)
right. But we all know that such beings do
make the biggest hypocrites around. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:23am On Sep 26, 2015 |
12. Because they are big green-eyed
monsters.
They are jealous people. They curse and
wish for your downfall because they want
you to lose the things you have that they
don’t. They see life as a zero-sum game.
They think, perhaps if you lose a couple of
friends/fans, they could gain some
themselves. And if they can’t have the
things you have, they rather you not have
them at all as well. They are basically pretty
bleeped-up human beings. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by midehi2(f): 11:23am On Sep 26, 2015 |
hnmm |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:24am On Sep 26, 2015 |
13. Because they are unhappy with some
things in their own life.
And they try to make someone else
unhappy too — by being the nuisance that
they are. They want to pull you down to
their level of unhappiness. They want you
to be disturbed and not have peace. If they
can’t enjoy their life, they make sure you
can’t enjoy yours too. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by Nobody: 11:24am On Sep 26, 2015 |
And thats why I'l keep on loving Tu Baba's "if nobody talks about you, then you're nobody" |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by agarawu23(m): 11:24am On Sep 26, 2015 |
To all my haters
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Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:25am On Sep 26, 2015 |
14. Because they need to put someone
down to feel good about themselves.
Read: Self. Esteem. Issues. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by zuchyblink(m): 11:26am On Sep 26, 2015 |
15. Because they are, in general, just
losers.
But losers who need much love. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by dialfa: 11:26am On Sep 26, 2015 |
101: Because you are Igbo. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by Omotayor123(f): 11:27am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Haterz Abeg keep Hating It only means I'm getting Higher. |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by coolitempa(f): 11:28am On Sep 26, 2015 |
dialfa: No news here...everyone hates the iboes....even iboes hate themselves.... 1 Like |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by MizMyColi(f): 11:42am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Hehehehehehe Them know themselves, abi you want make I mention names? Well, their hate makes no difference really. I've always had the awareness the OP is sharing now. That pretty much sum up the reason I don't engage them. They are miserable people. You sef check am na. Can a peron whose life is filled with joy and isn't miserable in anyway try to cause other people pain? Especially unprovoked? 1 Like |
Re: 15 Reasons Why Your Haters Hate You by Nobody: 7:33pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
@OP, do u knw one of d symptoms of a wasted sperm? they will be d one to always posted 17 out of every 20 comments on there thread |
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