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Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by flawlessT(f): 11:04pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
bqlekan:No nah,tot I hv done dah already |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by bqlekan(m): 11:06pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
flawlessT:at all.. yet to see the lecturer arrive |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by omosefeeguaibor(f): 11:09pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
At first when I read what you found at the beginning of your story, OP two things came into my mind, first I thought you saw a gun meaning maybe he's working for the militants. And secondly a bomb meaning he could be working for BH. *sighs* thank God its a condom, yes it's best you talk to him hey! Not as a child because in one of your statement you said he is 18, and a child. that is erroneous, so pls while you are talking to him talk to him as you would a friend your age, because if you wanna use the 'I'm your elder bro" tactics it will surely backfire, as that age is when they wanna test all 'THINGS' and tends to be rebellious. it is good you know who his friends are, as they also play a huge role in this matter, don't make him feel he has done a horrible thing, talk him out of it. Good luck in your quest big bro #justmyhumbleopinion. 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by great664(m): 11:10pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
that's a free condom donated by UNICEF or something like that, a friend have about 200 of it, if he is a student, they might have shared it in his school and he take so much just for the fun of it but totally not what you think, sit him down abs talk to him |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by ohzee(f): 11:10pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
benny4wax: Your brother is your responsibility as long as he resides with you. You cannot afford to handle this matter with kid gloves. There is no jokingly here oh..... Make your stand very clear, let him have NO doubts in his mind. The only problem here is what is your stand? Does he see you with girls? If so, it will be tough for you to preach to him. If your stand is that you don't want him to be sexually active, make it clear and back it up with good reasons, good example and scripture. If you can't be a good example please send him back to your parents. Depending on how he behaves later, you may or may not need to tell your parents. Let him know you are keeping a very close watch on him and you may need to monitor more closely the friends he keeps. Curtail his freedom if necessary. How you handle the matter now will shape his future. I wish you the best. |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by flawlessT(f): 11:10pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
bqlekan:Lol |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by bqlekan(m): 11:13pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
flawlessT:ensure she shows up... the class loves her 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by RobinHez(m): 11:13pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
BornnAgainChild:Come...hope u're not wishing 4 me to do what ur dad should have done? Abeg...dey ur lane, and use ur brain! Bornagainpikin... Cuz wetin dey do me now...if I use am talk to you, you go drink 3 crates of beer, u no go get drunk! 1st show me wetin u don achieve for this life with your "distinct queens english" maybe then..u can now 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by Cameleon72(f): 11:15pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
What if he went for HIV test and he test negative thus they gave him those stuff... Why have a negative mindset towards abi him missed road, na when you been start use yours |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by Excllncy(m): 11:21pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
Please calm down, your bro is still that saint you know. He is not using those things yet. He must have gotten them in school free of charge. You need to let him know you have taken custody so he won't think you want to enjoy yourself. Engage him politely, he'll tell you evrything. |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by Precious91(m): 11:27pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
obum88:obum! obum!!Lafta wan tear my belle ooo.You be badt somebori |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by BornnAgainChild(f): 11:30pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
RobinHez: Well..for mentioning my dad in a mere post I wish u bad in all |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by vicque(f): 11:38pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
Sex matters can be a bit tough on teenagers First of all ask him how he got them and what he is using them for? Seek clarity before you break his head. It could be these NGO or NYSC group came to his school or he is using them to educate others. Every teen or young adult will eventually get to know what sex is about either by experiment or by sex education. Help him understand that it his body and also his life he may be toying with of he doesn't handle his sexual energy properly. 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by RobinHez(m): 11:40pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
BornnAgainChild:See ur life now? Shey u see how painful it is? Just cuz of a little error..u see what u've brought on urself? Hahaha....always remember..what went down today, whenever you want to act like a smart pant...! And BTW, u might want to ask the Op's brother to give u some of the packs... U're hubby would definitely need it. 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by NaLaugh: 11:58pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
Are you kidding me? Is there anywhere on this planet where teenagers do not have sex with each other? I lived in Nigeria as a teenager, and I started going to the store to buy condoms for personal use at 14 . You should be proud that he is responsible enough to use condoms. Judging from the quantity though, he either resells them in school, or he is the biggest playboy in town. Neither one of these possibilities is a terrible thing in itself. If someone who didn't know Nigerians better read through this thread, he'd assume all Nigerians stay virgins till they are 18+ or something. Why the hipocrisy? |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by UjSizzle(f): 11:59pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
Confront him. Lace your question with a healthy dose of humour and you can't possibly go wrong. |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by Tolubory(m): 12:00am On Oct 05, 2015 |
May be he wants to use it for a Case Study.. You never can tell.... Teenagers, wan bad gaan...... |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by ChynoBEATS: 12:00am On Oct 05, 2015 |
benny4wax: Seize em ....and talk to him when he's less occupied |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by Nobody: 12:04am On Oct 05, 2015 |
From what I can see, your brother recently did HIV test and was given those condoms for free.. benny4wax: |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by BornnAgainChild(f): 12:06am On Oct 05, 2015 |
RobinHez: Lol...its obvious u don't even listen to yourself,I wouldn't have even responded back if you hadn't taken a shot at my dad,its called common sense but yours aint common,this is a social network where people bash people whether with hard fEelings or not,severly I have been bashed too but for once I never involved anyones parent,that's common sense,if you feel you not cool with whatsoever is said to you,you can as well say same to me,stop being a coward and face reality 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by baloney: 12:06am On Oct 05, 2015 |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by darmochy1(m): 12:13am On Oct 05, 2015 |
Under 18? And with such quantity of condo.m? That's serious bro. I remember when I was his age. I did not even know how a condo.m looked like. The first time I saw it, I thought it was a cigarette box. My girlfriend still laughs at me whenever I tell her this. |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by NemzySeries(m): 12:14am On Oct 05, 2015 |
wa Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo.......dis Looks like. Championship League to me....wat club dos ur kid bro plays 4? |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by Danielwisdom(m): 12:14am On Oct 05, 2015 |
[color=#990000][/color] Sorry sha, nomather what even if he is a Marjor distributor like my bro said, is not good at his age without telling u, I don't think is for decoration, I think is for work I mean banging.....dat guy is ehh infact he maybe a consumer(girls) there is no children this days oo. |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by RobinHez(m): 12:16am On Oct 05, 2015 |
BornnAgainChild: Lol...maybe u're just meeting my type 4 d first time. See...we dont bat an eyelid if u curse at our parents...I won't! But u started this ish...now u're claiming common sense? How come ur 'sense' so eluded you that you had to tell me I needed those condoms? Stop putting ur 'online frustrations' on me. If someone else has bashed you here, take ur rantings to him/her ... I'm the guy u wouldn't wanna be caught in a crossfire with. Have a blissful night rest! 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by bummyla(m): 12:20am On Oct 05, 2015 |
talk to him about it! http://www.bummyla.com |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by Spybradd: 12:33am On Oct 05, 2015 |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by BornnAgainChild(f): 12:35am On Oct 05, 2015 |
RobinHez: Just shut up and stop saying rubbish here,or u think you can do it better then give it a trial...plus you owe me a million thanks right now,at least you typing right now courtesy me...hhehehehe.... 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by blankson24: 12:36am On Oct 05, 2015 |
ur bro works with condom factory |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by RobinHez(m): 12:49am On Oct 05, 2015 |
Spybradd:Yeah,...I know, |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by Nobody: 12:49am On Oct 05, 2015 |
benny4wax:PLS O DONT GO AND POUNCE ON HIM BEFORE HE USES THEM ON U OOO 1 Like |
Re: I Saw This Inside My Younger Brothers Bag (photos) by RobinHez(m): 12:51am On Oct 05, 2015 |
BornnAgainChild: 1 Like |
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