Loving is like a side of a coin, being loved is the
other. Naturally is rare to be loved by the ones
you love. Love they say is the sweetest feeling
where as being truly loved is the greatest wish of
man. Keeping a long and healthy relationship
appear to be something most individuals found
her go do. Building a relationship isn't as easy as
it looks. At the point where a relationship starts,
the feeling is being felt to be strong and vibrant.
But after some months or weeks, it depreciates.
Why? This is because love is a feeling. Its a state
of the mind. Its never eternal. Its seasoned, but
can be revived by caring and decision.
7 things needed to build a long and healthy
relationship
1. Love
To make it healthy, love must be available. Its
love that makes you value your partner. Love
makes him/her look perfect and better than the
new faces appearing great like a camelion.
2. Care
This is the aspect of love that is like its love. A
times most people misinterpret care as love.
Caring isn't always out of love but loving must
depict some level of care.
3. Time
Creating great time for your partner goes a long
way in building a long lasting relationship. It
paves for friendship. Dating your friend is having
a long standing relationship. With time to talk
over some personal issues with no secrets or
restrictions builds some level of commitment and
a strong bond between you two.
4. Decision
This is one attribute most married couples lack.
This is the most reason we keep having divorce
cases or heartbreaks. This is why most guys/girls
are flirts. In the beginning you were madly in
love but along the line you lost the feeling. Your
partner no longer interests you. Dear all you
need is Decision. Love is a feeling. its
seasoned...but so far your partner still loves you,
decide to remain to remain loved. This will revive
your feelings in as much as you have some great
time together and care for each other.


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Is love a feeling or an act? Cuz if love was a feeling, God would hav killed everybody in d earth and thr would be no salvation.

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