[i]I have been dating her for the past nine years now, hoping to settle down soonest when fixed with a job. Its been 3yrs now since I graduated and no job (Nigerian situation). She is getting insult from friends and family, telling her she is no longer getting younger. She is threatening to quit the relationship and get on with her life if I don't act fast. I understand she loves me but again, she is going on the extreme. what do I do please, somebody advice me. [/i]

Nine years?
u get mind ooo

how long do u want to date her b4 considering marriage?



Guy that girl don tire.


#Menopauseisreal

God time is the best

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*sing passanger's*
"only know you love her when you let her go"
It might sound awkward, but if she has someone that can give her a better life, just let her go, cos I don't like being in a patch patch marriage, if you by force do marriage without job, neighbors go soon come dey separate una fight o.

Bros'. As you don chop 9yrs of uninterrupted service, u sure say service go still remain for that mast?
*in Yemi Alade's voice*
"See me see trouble! You must marry me o!"

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You are evil, you no read where the Op say he don graduate since since yrs ago?

wrong place!

politics sections? Lemme read d story sha may be its related to d ministerial list..lol

Behira:
Is Your Woman a Politician Because I Wonder Why You Posted It In Politics Section?

I think he believes the best brains are mostly found here, that's why.

OP you are not serious o, and you claim to love this gurl?
have you never heard of "if you love someone let them go, if the person comes back it was meant to be, and if the person does not come back then it was never meant to be".
let her go especially as she is now clamoring for it, you can't truly love her and want to die her down especially as you are not yet sure of when you will marry her. leave her make she go, e no even dey easy to see husband sef, concentrate on making your money and establishing yourself and when you are fully established and can support a marriage and family then you can go and check on her again, if she is still single then you marry her, if she is no longer single then you move on.
#justsaying cos this same story of yours applies to me, but my own no reach all those plenty years of yours o.

9 years, 108 months, 3285 days, 468 weeks, 78,840 hours, Dude, it's a year close to a DECADE (10years) and HELL YES she gat every reason to quit the relationship and also given people reason to insult her.
Through out those years, i'm sure she would have aborted about 2 babies and still sticking to u.
Guy, my piece of advice, do everything possible to marry her irrespective of whatsoever u face. (if ur gf was my sister, hommie, I won't take it easy with u)

Beremx can answer this

na this kin topic dey sweet am

madam Beremx give the dying op nduvice (advice)

yakubuadeiza:
[i]I have been dating her for the past nine years now, hoping to settle down soonest when fixed with a job. Its been 3yrs now since I graduated and no job (Nigerian situation). She is getting insult from friends and family, telling her she is no longer getting younger.

The end of this relationship has come. I understand you want to honour her commitment to you but it's time for you to come to terms with the fact that she's acting in her own best interest, it's time for you to start doing the same.

She is threatening to quit the relationship and get on with her life if I don't act fast

And you shouldn't be pushed to desperation, sir. Her mind has left you and this is her way of putting you on red alert. She's either already seeing someone else or is extremely receptive to toasters. You cannot negotiate desire. Bros, if she's willing to stick by you, no amount of noise from friends and family will shake that decision. Shes only giving a flimsy reason. Come to terms with the approaching demise of this relationship.

I understand she loves me but again, she is going on the extreme. what do I do please, somebody advice me. [/i]

Be very careful about the people you think love you, my brother. Love is a verb, and her actions and threats reveal just how much log she truly has for you. Be wise. Come to terms with the demise of your relationship.


My brothey advice is for you to call her and tell her the truth: that you are not capable and ready to start a family right now, as such she should do as her family has said and move on; she may be forming tears but deep down she will be relieved . Meanwhile, channel your energy into achieving your dreams and being a success.

Finally, please date in your situation. Very important, you need to know who is who be to you hammer. Good luck.

GenbIoodykiller:
Beremx can answer this

na this kin topic dey sweet am

madam Beremx give the dying op nduvice (advice)

are you too densed you can't give the Op advice?


@Op,what's the certainty that you will eventually marry her when you get a job? Abeg time waits for no one. Free the lady and allow her look somewhere else.

You don run show for 9 years, what else do you want? Let her go jor and search for fresh something when you get a job.

Beremx:
are you too densed you can't give the Op advice?


@Op,what's the certainty that you will eventually marry her when you get a job? Abeg time waits for no one. Free the lady and allow her look somewhere else.

Nwanem, your lips is not from here at all, it is from either pluto or venus.

If to say u never marry, I for just dey razzle am like ponmo iya basira walahi

Chanchit:


You are evil, you no read where the Op say he don graduate since since yrs ago?

Akathriel:


Nwanem, your lips is not from here at all, it is from either pluto or venus.

If to say u never marry, I for just dey razzle am like ponmo iya basira walahi

thanks for the compliment.

yakubuadeiza:
[i]I have been dating her for the past nine years now, hoping to settle down soonest when fixed with a job. Its been 3yrs now since I graduated and no job (Nigerian situation). She is getting insult from friends and family, telling her she is no longer getting younger. She is threatening to quit the relationship and get on with her life if I don't act fast. I understand she loves me but again, she is going on the extreme. what do I do please, somebody advice me. [/i]

Guy, no one can tell you what to do. The answer lies with you

go a job o.p, its simple as abc, u can be an okada rider, recharge card seller, office worker, cab driver, jux get a job and save your relationship.

when you think there're 3 billion of them walking around and this olodo is disturbing my afternoon because of a single one!
Get out and get a life!

Beremx:
are you too densed you can't give the Op advice?


@Op,what's the certainty that you will eventually marry her when you get a job? Abeg time waits for no one. Free the lady and allow her look somewhere else.

this woman sha

Beremxxxxxxxxxx

Beremx:
thanks for the compliment.

Na only Face you get? How Apc employ only face for internet to dey preach propaganda?

omenka:
I think he believes the best brains are mostly found here, that's why.

He wants Apc and Buhari to provide Job for him,even if its in same Apc situation room you are working,help d guy!