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Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by kentozybee(m): 7:41am On Oct 29, 2015 |
is it a taboo to help ur mom undo her hair? Like I was assisting my mom in undoing her hair, my dad shunned me off that |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by Onegai(f): 7:50am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Na real wa. Nothing wrong with it. My first bf ever helped me take off my braids (we were in uni) and 14 years later I still love that moment we shared. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by marshalcarter: 7:57am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Onegai:He's talkin abt him and his MOM....not him and his g.f Ya reply no get head and tail 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by Nobody: 8:00am On Oct 29, 2015 |
There is nothing wrong there. Maybe your dad is one of those "medieval men" who think it would make you less a man, or isn't something a man should be seen doing. I don't loosen people's hair (no matter who you are) _ don't loosen mine too. Gives me headache mehn... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by cococandy(f): 8:06am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Maybe he wanted to do it himself and you deprived him of that romantic moment. Do you know how many stories and jokes husbands and wives share while he's helping her undo her hair? OP Take your time o. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by ladyju(f): 8:09am On Oct 29, 2015 |
There is nothing wrong with dat. It's either he feels, it will make less a man, woman wrapper or what ever. Or he is jealous 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by Onegai(f): 8:26am On Oct 29, 2015 |
marshalcarter: His father was most likely referring to how a "male" should not be seen doing hair (unless he's a hairstylist) and said not to touch it. Which is why I gave that example: nothing wrong with it, for a loved one. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by Godmother(f): 8:34am On Oct 29, 2015 |
cococandy: Lolz @ this reply. It may be true though. @OP How did your mum take it? Was she angry? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by Adesiji77: 8:40am On Oct 29, 2015 |
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Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by SAMBARRY: 8:51am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by okongo(m): 6:24pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
call me woman wrapper. after so many years of marriage I am still very much into it. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by tpiah11: 6:44pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
kentozybee: so you opened thread. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by kentozybee(m): 3:41pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
tpiah11:E go (foolish) sir |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by Roland17(m): 6:12pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
kentozybee: Your dad was merely being jealous, unbelievable but factual..He might hide his ego behind it too and give you the masculine excuse. Mom is his wife first and foremost and certain things are considered personal and that includes his wife's hair, if it's an activity he does not enjoy doing he would rather no one except a stylist or his female kids perform them but a man is a no no.. If you think I am lying, jokingly tell your dad a male stylist touched his wife's hair and watch his reaction.. Don't overthink it, if he does not like it, back off.. Na the man pay dowry no be you and don't ever mention the fact he is being jealous to his face.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong To Help Ones Mom In "Undoing" Her Hair by Nobody: 8:46pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
Hhm @ the comments. Yeah, its actually sorta strange come to think of it and it almost feels odd to out and say it, but, in a sense, hair is intimate. Apart from yourself, and the maintenance and styling that takes place in the form of impersonal trips to hair salons/barbers here and there, who makes habitual contact with your hair other than your SO? Pulling your hair back from your face to see you, caressing your hairline in lounge-mode, stroking, finger-brushing, actual brushing at times and when you're unwell, scalp massages, burying his face in your hair, undoing it after a night out, etc - these are all gestures I'd generally associate with with intimate affection. Whatever his reasons, maybe you should just refrain. 1 Like |
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