Na wa oooh. So this thread is still on.

Pls, anyone knows how iIcan contact Rukemi, pls iIrilly bid ur help. Tnks

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idyexcel:
You don't have to be too hard on yourself. You did what anybody with conscience would have done. Maybe that's why she loved your son. What is meat and juice? My advice is when next you go looking for some helping hands, go for someone younger, someone you can still mould, someone that is still naive. Maybe it's even better you go to the villages.

It's not all the time oo.. these ones especially from the villages are not naive oo.. there is one that I have now 9 years , she lies alot , very stubborn and adamant , anytime I scold her for doing something wrong she will refuse to eat, does whatever she likes.. I want to return her after her exams

glossy6:


Hmmmm. I laugh in Latin. last yr Oct, I brought an 11yr old naive girl from the village to help me at home. she bedwets and mop up the mess with the pillows.

I enrolled her in a private school close to my house where she was admitted in Basic 4. I bought textbooks for her & she started schooling immediately. But aside the bedwetting which has stopped after much coaching, she can't wash dishes clean enough even up to now. she sweeps the house using 2 hrs 30 mins on the average. At the end of the sweeping exercise, you will wish she never did.

She tell lies more than any human being living. I have been asking after her homework which she kept on saying she was not given. She will be idling away while my kids sweat it out doing loads of homework. I wasn't ready to confront the proprietress on this since I had confronted her when she was in Basic 4. I don't want to be seen as disliking her teachers. hers was the only school that admitted her in Basic 4, others went as low as basic 2.

About 5wks ago, I brought up the homework issue again and I sent someone to confirm from her classmate if they were not given homework and why?

2wks later the story remained same but she went to school to allege that house chores does not permit her to do homework. that she is being starved (she serves food to herself )......and lots of unprintable lies.

Conclusion: you hardly can find a good one. No matter what you do to them, you are not her biological mum and she can NEVER appreciate you.

Wow!! You just described my own.. the one I have will be 10 years in November. She is very adamant, lies a lot, if she does something and you scold her she will get angry and go on a hunger strike...

Must we send our own children to the best private schools while we send the children of others to government schools?