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Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by Beremx(f): 5:37pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
BodyKiss:so what was her reason of going back? |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by Alphaoscar: 5:38pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
batulakarada: The girl was 17 them but she was already a spoilt fish at that age . you guys talk as if been 17 equals been foolish and senseless. She was the one going back for more when the guy was obviously trying to avoid her. She accused the guy of raping her with his friends but the content of the mails shows she's the one flirting with his friends and the guy was upset with her actions . 2 Likes |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by Nobody: 5:41pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
The problem with this issue is that everyone is looking at it from a black and white angle, when there's probably 50 shades of grey in between, literally. 1 Like |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by Beremx(f): 5:42pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
batulakarada:well at 17,I just finished secondary school and while i waited to get admission into the university, as the first child of the family,I was helping my mum in her shop. Thinking of a relationship at that age was the least of my problem. So you see,I didn't do anything that would bring shame to my parents at that age. 1 Like |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by Alphaoscar: 5:44pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
batulakarada: running away at 17 is not same as been senseless to the point of going back and begging the guy that raped you to please give you more. 1 Like |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by dBard: 5:49pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Nigerians.. The same people here that got beat up, Ana.lly poked, got treated like porn stars, did abortions, stole, rimmed ass and all that ish and with a smile and thank you, Because They Were In Love/Infatuated, are all here now casting stones with their leprosed hands, conveniently forgetful. We have almost all bin 'Stupid in love'.....so all u self righteous folks can go stick it in d nearest black hole. I for one, ain't going to justify the crime because of the person. Y'all forget, this same sugabelly, had bin on NL eons ago n had a thread about abusive relationships...190 I believe commented, so wats making the story false I s.m.h f y'all 1 Like |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by batulakarada: 5:51pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Alphaoscar:How is running away any less foolish without money or roof over my head .If I was a woman and one of these perverts like audu caught me ,wouldn't I be another sugabelly? |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by biafranqueen: 5:51pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Which brings us back to Warden -- and anyone who's ever wondered what an abuse victim derives from staying. It's giving into this very thought -- they must like this -- that creates one more barrier to the abused being able to leave. It makes the world simpler, no doubt, for us to indulge this theory. We feel safer. "That couldn't happen to me," we can say. "I'd never put up with it." But the research proves anyone can end up abused. And blaming the victims in this way is a huge part of the problem. It reinforces their shame.https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/romance-redux/201303/why-do-people-stay-in-abusive-relationships 1 Like |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by batulakarada: 5:55pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
When oby Ezekwesili who knows you in and out and even know you are a close friend to her children believes the story immediately without asking questions ...I think the verdict of the story has been given . |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by BodyKiss(m): 5:58pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Beremx: Stockholm syndrome, or capture-bonding, is a psychological phenomenon in which hostages express empathy and sympathy and have positive feelings toward their captors, sometimes to the point of defending and identifying with the captors. These feelings are generally considered irrational in light of the danger or risk endured by the victims, who essentially mistake a lack of abuse from their captors for an act of kindness. The FBI's Hostage Barricade Database System shows that roughly eight percent of victims show evidence of Stockholm syndrome. Stockholm syndrome can be seen as a form of traumatic bonding, which does not necessarily require a hostage scenario, but which describes "strong emotional ties that develop between two persons where one person intermittently harasses, beats, threatens, abuses, or intimidates the other."[4] One commonly used hypothesis to explain the effect of Stockholm syndrome is based on Freudian theory. It suggests that the bonding is the individual's response to trauma in becoming a victim. Identifying with the aggressor is one way that the ego defends itself. When a victim believes the same values as the aggressor, they cease to be perceived as a threat. Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_syndrome My take on this is that her case sound very plausible and should not be taken likely. The case should be taken to court, and which ever party, Sugabelly or Mustapha is found guilty should face the punishment for the crime. 1 Like
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Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:04pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Ishilove: You sabi this guy from before? 1 Like |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by biafranqueen: 6:08pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Beremx:http://www.byui.edu/counseling-center/self-help/abusive-relationships https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/romance-redux/201303/why-do-people-stay-in-abusive-relationships http://www.destinyconnect.com/2014/07/01/why-women-stay-in-abusive-relationships/ |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:08pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
batulakarada: What integrity does she have? What happened to her BBOG crusade? Are the girls back? Only fools rush to take sides. 2 Likes |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:11pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Beremx: You just postponed it for a coupla years . |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:14pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Alphaoscar: No mind them. She wants us to believe that the same guy who took offence that you flirted with his friends, passed her around to be gang-raped - earlier. 1 Like |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by biafranqueen: 6:22pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
BuddhaPalm:http://www.livescience.com/8202-women-stay-abusive-relationships.html |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by biafranqueen: 6:24pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
BodyKiss:It is unfortunate that so many uneducated or undereducated people have access to the Internet. 3 Likes |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by batulakarada: 6:26pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
BuddhaPalm:Maybe he was angry because he didn't initiate it ...posseive like audu will pick offence if they are not the one commanding u to be abused . |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by teeewai(m): 6:27pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
These stories sha...............by the way I was checking out Sugarbelly's blog. http://sugabellyrocks.com/2014/07/the-seven-reasons-i-had-sex.html One of her "The Seven Reasons I Had Sex". I've copied some of her posts below. She actually kept going back and seems to enjoy every bit of the "sexcapade". Not judging her though......... "Lust It just sort of happened all at once. Once the stone got rolling, it was all downhill from there. An accidental picture on Facebook, then a quick detour to get shawarma turned into an afternoon spent splayed out naked on the fully reclined passenger seat of a red Mercedes, breathlessly steaming up the windows as my toes struggled not to accidentally turn off the AC or change the radio station." "sugabelly August 25, 2014 at 3:39 am I’m still totally waiting to hear your reasons! As for being splayed out in the Mercedez, that ended up happening a lot with him. We had sex in his car almost every night. Maybe it was me being a teenager and not having a place to go for privacy, so I made him park his car down dark streets all over Abuja and turn the AC up which steamed up the windows while we had sex in the reclined seats. " |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by biafranqueen: 6:28pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Alphaoscar:http://www.teensagainstabuse.org/index.php?q=understand Let us educate ourselves! |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by 190theclown: 6:29pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
dBard: who me? |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by shiinihost: 6:30pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
maupe: maupe , you are sick 1 Like |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:31pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
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Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by shiinihost: 6:39pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
dBard: that she was abused doesn't man it is mustapha that abused her. Use your brain man. |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:40pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
biafranqueen: You miss my point. Someone who is capable of getting jealous just because you flirted will not pass you around to a gang. 1 Like |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by shiinihost: 6:43pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
batulakarada: A manipulative sicko would not instigate a legal action. A manipulative sicko would not sight instances with evidences. A manipulative sicko would not lie against powerful people like oby. Are you looking for your manipulative sicko? check sugarbelly 3 Likes |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:46pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
batulakarada: Your mind is already so made up that even if God parts the heavens, this very moment, to tell you that Sugarbelly is full of it. You'll likely tell him that maybe he was sleeping. 1 Like |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by shiinihost: 6:51pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
biafranqueen: o really? lots of emotional noobs here.....everywhere. |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by shiinihost: 6:59pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
maupe: with every word that comes out of mustapha's mouth, he's being vindicated as the innocent victim here. The problem with chronic feminists like you is that you think women can never do wrong.....it's always, 'oh that poor innocent girl, oh, that holy teenager' Y'all should just stop this emotional flares. He didn't create the mom's BF, the silly sugar 'belle' did. Go back and read her tweets and email she sent. He never blamed sugar belle. Never! If anything, he blamed her mum for abandoning her child the way she did. have you tried finding out sugar belly's history? Do you know if she was from an abusive home? It's very clear that that girl was sick way before she met mustapha. I suggest a well needed psychological help for your sugarbelly, that is after she has apologized in the public. Naija girls are devils! 1 Like |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by shiinihost: 7:11pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
DevilhimseIf: in a sane country, sugar'belle' should have being arrested for wrongful accusation and blackmail. She no fit try this rubbish in even ghana. Where are here evidences? why now? Trust me, she's be sorry she told told these lies. Very sorry. 1 Like |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by olu4life(m): 7:17pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
I am so furious at the way most of us reason. We have let sentiments cloud our sense of reasoning #CommonSense should prevail. Firstly, u all said a woman in abusive relationship won't easily back down. Now please pin point to me the abusive part from the emails exchanged, cos the last time ichecked it was the guy who accused her of cheating with his friends in which she apologised, once again tell me where the abusive came in. And don't gimme d crap of siting situation of a married woman with that of a teen. Don't forget they were both young. Secondly, have u gone through her posts to see loads of distorted craps? A NLder even helped to pinpoint it to us all, where she claimed 2 different scenes of gang rape. Once again, where is ur #CommonSense Also, why would some stupid people think a lady of 17yrs isn't matured. Like seriously,this happened in 2007. We all know children of then weren't kids, so spare me d stupid talk of saying she was manipulated at her age, u must be stupid to think that way. Furthermore, why do people easily side a lady in this kind of situation despite seeing loads of evidence. Or u wanna tell me that d emails were photoshopped? At least thank God she's didn't claim it was. Lastly, have u noticed her silence since d release of d emails? Or she's just too dumbfounded to forget such chats could be retrieved. By d way, she never said she was disvirgined, once again pls tell me if this was her first time of having sex cos I know it would have made a strong point if she was actually disvirgined by d guy With these points, I drop my pen #ImOut Cc tonyebarcanista beremx ishilove etc 3 Likes |
Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:22pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
olu4life: 1 Like |
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