Is roughsex the same tin as rape ? i dont understand d difference any more after reading this post.

You are a foool for going to date a supposed 27 year old man at 17. I am sure the girl in question wasn't even disvirgined by that man. What did you think he wanted from you before? Marriage? You went to his house, his friend was there, he definately took you to the room, you followed him like mumu. Did he tear your clothes? The writer of that message is an eediot and whoever calls this a rape is a co-eediot. Useless girls everywhere.

adesegun121:
This comment on Sisi Yemmie’s Blog on a post she did on the Sugabelly case has now gone viral. This lady is anonymous, and didn’t mention names so she has no reason to lie. Rape is real. We need to stop stigmatising and be more empathetic towards rape victims.

@:http://www.gistmelove..com/2015/12/sad-story-this-ladys-rape-ordeal-will-give-you-goose-bumps.html

When the Bible says you should be born again, una think say na moinmoin.

There are enough woes for those who refuse that gracious call. But unfortunately those in Christ are envious of the Satan's slaves.

To you, I will never agree these were rapes. You didn't cite a single instance that he kidnapped you. You were/are just an unfortunate slave to sin/sex.

Before anyone becomes offended by this, hear it from the Source;




Rom 6:16 Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?

For the love of God almighty... that wasn't rape... call it anything you want to call it... but not rape... EoD!!!

At that age
Anyone could fall
Even some older fall for more cheaper flows
I will kill any man who takes advantage of my child's innocence
Seriously when I look back, I must have been so lucky cos obviously I could have fallen too

BrianRoss:
rape is becoming too common in nigeria

Rape is not becoming too common in Nigeria.
It is too common in Nigeria.
It is just the social media that is now bringing it into public consciousness.

Rape is rampant in Nigeria coz the justice system is so wrong! no scape goat its really pathetic

Eiya sorry dear, all thanks to ur room mates ohhh, that nigga would have ruined ur future completely...#End time story#

plaetton:

Rape is not becoming too common in Nigeria.
It is too common in Nigeria.
It is just the social media that is now bringing it into public consciousness.

God bless you!

I feel her pain...... it is well with u dear






But y is rape common? If u badly need sex y not just patronize one of dis brothel? (Not dat am in support of the brothel business) its better to patronize a brothel than make her girl live in fear for the rest of her life.....


May God help us see d Light...

this is not rape but stupidity, i blame the girls and her parents. imagine at 17 he didnt disvirgin u and ur puci don wide. fished brain fool

Before u criticize her ,why not try and understand the concept of stockholm syndrome, the brain is really complex. Its jus like women in abusive relationship,due to fear there brain makes them believe its d right thing
rape or beat my sister,I swear hellfire wont even be safe for u

Rape every now and then, this is becoming so alarming.... But truth be told i think both of them have fault not the guy alone even the gal too f up small....

24lolade:




What I don't understand is why you have to go back everything he abuses you.

Being young doesn't mean you should be foolish

That's what I think oo

24

I am glad you said you don't know.


Its psychological. Never underestimate mind control. Its worse than chains.

How do you describe this as rape? You even became a foster mother to his son, picking him and dropping him at home. For crying out loud, you literally accepted to be his wife doing all those, and he followed you to the university. Maybe sugarbelly unfamed write up reportedly meant to discredit the Audu!s has suddenly woken up teenagers experiences, an inertia kind of thing. The tendency for a body to remain at rest or to stop when something has began to move. And so every teenager now finds her dis-virginity experience as rape. Rape ko, Rake ni!

ihatebuhari:
Rubbish cos this ain't rape.

What is it? A man taking advantage of a naïve teenager and you are here calling her story rubbish? For me, if such a teenager dare make pass at me, I will tongue lash her and report her to her parents. That's is why these small girls in my area think I am hash. I make it clear to them that I am their senior by dating a lady that is way of out their league.

sage2:


What is it? A man taking advantage of a naïve teenager and you are here calling her story rubbish? For me, if such a teenager dare make pass at me, I will tongue lash her and report her to her parents. That's is why these small girls in my area think I am hash. I make it clear to them that I am their senior by dating a lady that is way of out their league.

Mr. 'HASH'... please define rape...

Most guys will lambaste her because they are good at forcefully having carnal knowledge with ladies... Worse of it all is when they realize that the lady in question is vulnerable to them, they tend to use her like a piece of shit..

One thing I know for sure is that Karma is a real....
If your sisters don't experience this same level of wickedness you have done to any lady that you maltreated as a result of her vulnerability to you..., your daughters will not escape it...

Always be sure that se.x is borne out of mutual agreement and treat her nice even though you know she is crazily in love or lust with you.

Tellmestory:
End time

New week new moniker i see. Better stop this nonsense and change ur miserable life 4 good. Go get a job as a bloody dish washer or something b4 u starve from lack of #200 airtime.

adesegun121:
This comment on Sisi Yemmie’s Blog on a post she did on the Sugabelly case has now gone viral. This lady is anonymous, and didn’t mention names so she has no reason to lie. Rape is real. We need to stop stigmatising and be more empathetic towards rape victims.

@:http://www.gistmelove..com/2015/12/sad-story-this-ladys-rape-ordeal-will-give-you-goose-bumps.html

M

Moral Lessons:


Parents shud cultivate the habit of relating well with their kids. Most of these things happen for long , and they keep it to themselves for fear of castigation.

Building a family is not just about having kids and dumping them out there for education.
Parents shudd be the number 1 friends to their kids, this will help the kids confide well and seek proper advice or legal actions to take in casses like this.

This story is just like the inverted proverb,
' Once bitten, twice bold!'

Rape is a one time thing, if you go back for second helpings, it is no longer rape but consensual .ex.

emma9990:
Nairalanders...........

Deniyari:
..

Seun what re You guys doing concerning this scammers?

Mstchww!!!

IS THIS RAPE? HE KIPS F***KING U ALL D TIME N U KIP ENTERING HIS CAR HOME EVERYDAY. PERSON PUSH U ENTER D CAR? ........... ENDTIME F***KING, NOT RAPE. THANK U!

I talk am....only low self esteem will make a girl keep going back to a man that abuses her physically, emotionally, verbally and sexually. Its not love at all!


Parents need to help their children develop self esteem and confidence so they won't settle for less. Fathers especially need to help their daughters see how a man ought to treat a woman so they won't fall for the first animal to say; 'hey beautiful'.

As much as i'm against the rape of a thing,her going back to meet the guy doesn't in anyway count as rape.Op,i'm sorry I had no goosebumps concerning the so called 'rape story'.The goosebumps came cos of her stupiidity.

When you decided to have a boyfriend at age 17, u didn't see anything wrong in that, when u supposed to be busy with your studies. Now it backfired & u re claiming rape. From every indication this is not rape. U called for it & He gave it to you nicely. By the way at that age, we're a virgin. U did say that one, meaning u don dey chop am b4. Sorry this is not rape.
I can understand that of sugarbelly because he said he video taped of d scene & d fear of leaking d tape is what made her keep going back.
In your own case, what made u keep going back. U were enjoying it, doing big girl on campus, posing to your mates that u have boyfriends that comes to pick u probably with a driver at that tender age when u shd be ashamed of having a boyfriend.
Pls, this is not a rape but a result of being a wayward, useless & spoilt. At that age, your utmost concern shd be your studies & not boyfriend.