Just like the normal saying that 'there's nothing new under the sun'.But there are somethings that cannot be ignored.I was so confused about what a friend told me. Either married or single,ladies and gentlemen in the house you can give your own opinion about this issue. A friend of mine pay a big bro visit last week and guess what happened? The bro has a wife and three kids with his mum living with them.they're both health workers and sometimes very busy.this bros mum is the one doing the house chores including taking care of the children,cooking,mopping,sweepping,dusting and scrubbing the floor.they don't care to take a house maid,so I guess it's his mum that's filling that space. Note; they're happy with it.no sign if his mum liked it or not(no obvious complains recorded during the vistit). My question is; as a guy/man can you allow your mum to take the place of a house maid in your house. I trust my sincere guys in the house and as a lady,hmmm! Well,will you allow your mother inlaw to do all these for you? Your opinions!!!

Do u knw if dey (couple) wanted 2 employ sm1 n d woman refused?

I'm so sure this poster is opening threads on nl instead of looking for wife.

noblegrex:
Just like the normal saying that 'there's nothing new under the sun'.But there are somethings that cannot be ignored.I was so confused about what a friend told me. Either married or single,ladies and gentlemen in the house you can give your own opinion about this issue. A friend of mine pay a big bro visit last week and guess what happened? The bro has a wife and three kids with his mum living with them.they're both health workers and sometimes very busy.this bros mum is the one doing the house chores including taking care of the children,cooking,mopping,sweepping,dusting and scrubbing the floor.they don't care to take a house maid,so I guess it's his mum that's filling that space. Note; they're happy with it.no sign if his mum liked it or not(no obvious complains recorded during the vistit). My question is; as a guy/man can you allow your mum to take the place of a house maid in your house. I trust my sincere guys in the house and as a lady,hmmm! Well,will you allow your mother inlaw to do all these for you? Your opinions!!!

Bro, let's move on from three kids scenario.

The couple had eight kids.

itstpia8:


Bro, let's move on from three kids scenario.

The couple had eight kids.

hmmm

Lisaflex:
Do u knw if dey (couple) wanted 2 employ sm1 n d woman refused?

I tire o!
People taking panadol for another person's headache.

noblegrex:
Just like the normal saying that 'there's nothing new under the sun'.But there are somethings that cannot be ignored.I was so confused about what a friend told me. Either married or single,ladies and gentlemen in the house you can give your own opinion about this issue. A friend of mine pay a big bro visit last week and guess what happened? The bro has a wife and three kids with his mum living with them.they're both health workers and sometimes very busy.this bros mum is the one doing the house chores including taking care of the children,cooking,mopping,sweepping,dusting and scrubbing the floor.they don't care to take a house maid,so I guess it's his mum that's filling that space. Note; they're happy with it.no sign if his mum liked it or not(no obvious complains recorded during the vistit). My question is; as a guy/man can you allow your mum to take the place of a house maid in your house. I trust my sincere guys in the house and as a lady,hmmm! Well,will you allow your mother inlaw to do all these for you? Your opinions!!!

It depends and dat is if the mother inlaw see it as an exercise to her but once it bcomes a stress to her body i dont think such shud b allowed

akinsal:

It depends and dat is if the mother inlaw see it as an exercise to her but once it bcomes a stress to her body i dont think such shud b allowed

hmmm! Ok noted

Lisaflex:
Do u knw if dey (couple) wanted 2 employ sm1 n d woman refused?

may be. But will you allow that if she's to be your mother inlaw

wtf!!! ...who does dat?...i cant do that oo...not for my mother inlaw not to talk of my own mother....if i cnt get a maid...i will doit myself!!!

btw i cnt allow any extenal family live with me....not my mum or siblings and definitely not from my husbands side, dey can come visits spend weeks or days but dey will go afterwards...i cant take anyone living with me...naaaahhh

Lisaflex:
Do u knw if dey (couple) wanted 2 employ sm1 n d woman refused?

Are you kidding me?

Why would she say that when she won't be paying the maid.

The husband is a fool and his mama his more of a slowpoke. No offense!

Karleb:


Are you kidding me?

Why would she say that when she won't be paying the maid.

The husband is a fool and his mama his more of a slowpoke. No offense!

Calm down, u r tkin ds tn 2 personal... Sm elderly women r sha lyk dt..She myt be lukn at it 4rm d perspective dt dey would be wasting money if dey employ sm1, meanwyl she would be der wt notn 2 do

noblegrex:
may be. But will you allow that if she's to be your mother inlaw

I wont allow it

If the mother in law is still healthy and fine with the set up what's wrong with that.

When my on mother comes to the house and we all leave for work and school she does not sit down to watch telemundo

She will clean and cook and not complain.

Why make a big deal over nothing.