The other day my mom walked into my room while I was dressing up for work, I asked her to leave my room but she got all hot and bothered. I felt a little bad, but I'm just not comfortable with her seeing me all naked. Do you guys think I need to apologize to her or just let it be.

Sure, she's my mother . . . what am i hiding that she didnt wash?

Besides my mom seems to be even more sensitive than we are, she never enters if we're dressing.

You right in a sense Davidylan, but I'm all grown up now. Yes she saw and washed me when I was little but I've changed a lot down there. And I wish my mom is as sensitive as yours, mine just walks into the room without even knocking

davidylan:

Sure, she's my mother . . . what am i hiding that she didnt wash?

Besides my mom seems to be even more sensitive that we are, she never enters if we're dressing.

Lol . . . but he is grown ass dude, his mum shud have excused him na

OgidiBoy:

You right in a sense Davidylan, but I'm all grown up now. Yes she saw and washed me when I was little but I've changed a lot down there. And I wish my mom is as sensitive as yours, mine just walks into the room without even knocking

Guess it is abt time . . .u stop living with mommy

nope, i have no problem wotsoever with it. maybe you should try telling your mom you sometimes need your own privacy

tope5000:

Guess it is abt time . . .u stop living with mommy

I live in the dorm. But I'm home every other weekend to reload on supplies.

OgidiBoy:

You right in a sense Davidylan, but I'm all grown up now. Yes she saw and washed me when I was little but I've changed a lot down there. And I wish my mom is as sensitive as yours, mine just walks into the room without even knocking

lol do you have sisters? My mom had all boys so she learnt very early to give us our privacy. I think my dad had something to do with it . . . he also never enters while we are dressing.

You just have to tell your mom or find your own apt.  

OgidiBoy:


I live in the dorm. But I'm home every other weekend to reload on supplies.

lol. . . well then its her house, she can do wateva she wants

davidylan:

lol do you have sisters? My mom had all boys so she learnt very early to give us our privacy. I think my dad had something to do with it . . . he also never enters while we are dressing.

You just have to tell your mom or find your own apt.

Lucky you, I have four sisters and it's so much easier for girls to dress and UnCloth in front of each other.

tope5000:

lol. . . well then its her house, she can do wateva she wants

There you go again with that Nigerian mentality.

tope5000:

lol. . . well then its her house, she can do wateva she wants

but still, i think her mom should kind of give him so needed privacy esp. when dressing

he's no longer that little boy she use to bath in the bathtub

~Sissy~:

nope, i have no problem wotsoever with it. maybe you should try telling your mom you sometimes need your own privacy

Yeah try and reason with a Nigerian parent

~Sissy~:

but still, i think her mom should kind of give him so needed privacy esp. when dressing

he's no longer that little boy she use to bath in the bathtub

of cos im not disputing that at all but there is nothing he can do abt it unless she speaks to her

tope5000:

of cos im not disputing that at all but there is nothing he can do abt it unless she speaks to her

This is a mom that won't let me have a lock to my room, have my own computer or phone in my room, or stay out after mid-night.

@topic

yep!   _{but she hates it though}

OgidiBoy:

This is a mom that won't let me have a lock to my room, have my own computer or phone in my room, or stay out after mid-night.

say what?
You are an ADULT right?
She must be very strict

tope5000:

say what?
You are an ADULT right?
She must be very strict

Let's just say I'll be old enough to buy alcohol next year.

tope5000:

of cos im not disputing that at all but there is nothing he can do abt it unless she speaks to her

true.

OgidiBoy:

Yeah try and reason with a Nigerian parent

Ogidiboy, i think you have to frank with your mom and tell her that you feel little bit uncomfortable with her entering your room without knocking especially when you are dressing, though she might be angry at first but maybe she will take note

OgidiBoy:

Let's just say I'll be old enough to buy alcohol next year.

u r still lil boy jor j/k

Normally when children are old enough to recognize their private parts they should be respected and should not UnCloth in presence of people including their parents unless when very sick and they are unable to take care of their own unclothedness. This is important to avoid ugly occurrences.

Remii:

Normally when children are old enough to recognize their private parts they should be respected and should not UnCloth in presence of people including their parents unless when very sick and they are unable to take care of their own unclothedness. This is important to avoid ugly occurrences.

oh really?

what of some  families living in a one room apartment with curtains/a wrapper as room dividers? "    "

ikamefa:

oh really?

what of some families living in a one room apartment with curtains/a wrapper as room dividers? " "

lol, maybe when one of them is ready to dress the rest goes outside for a few minutes

ikamefa:

oh really?

what of some families living in a one room apartment with curtains/a wrapper as room dividers? "   "

Anyway I said "normally" and you know the kind of stories that comes from such habitats too. Dressing up get levels too, at least not stark naked, "the main, the main" should be covered even from bathroom and opposite genders should leave the room too, at least there would be parlour, I assume. As soon as one could afford it, there is need to separate sleeping places of boys and girl children.

Remii:

Anyway I said "normally" and you know the kind of stories that comes from such habitats too. Dressing up get levels too, at least not stark naked, "the main, the main" should be covered even from bathroom and opposite genders should leave the room too, at least there would be parlour, I assume. As soon as one could afford it, there is need to separate sleeping places of boys and girl children.

aight oh! was just checking " "

Massage for all parents out there, we not comfortable seeing you naked either. Lock the door for crying out loud when you in the bathroom

OgidiBoy:

Massage for all parents out there, we not comfortable seeing you naked either. Lock the door for crying out loud when you in the bathroom

Ok, oh! Now we know, lol

Remii:

Ok, oh! Now we know, lol

Thank you, now pls spread the word.

@Poster,she might have just left without u asking her to leave.Its possible she got inquisitive when u asked her out so she decided to see what u are hiding and why u are so anxious to ask her out. . . . lol .Apologie to her and  [b]lock [/b]ur room while undressing.

@topic, I think it's easier when you're a female. For me, sometimes depending on my mood.

If she was already in the room, fine. But if she barges in without knocking, I so hate that.

The only way to avoid them barging in is to move to your own house, that's naija parents for you. They're right even when they're wrong. You dare not argue.

ifyalways:

@Poster,she might have just left without u asking her to leave.Its possible she got inquisitive when u asked her out so she decided what u are hiding and why u are so anxious to ask her out. . . . lol .Apologie to her and [b]lock [/b]ur room while undressing.

Oh no!! she was not going any where, in fact she sat on the bed and said she had sometime very important to discuss with me, am like mom can it wait till I'm dressed. That's when she got mad and just stormed out of the room.  

chiogo:

@topic, I think it's easier when you're a female. For me, sometimes depending on my mood.

If she was already in the room, fine. But if she barges in without knocking, I so hate that.

The only way to avoid them barging in is to move to your own house, that's naija parents for you. They're right even when they're wrong. You dare not argue.

My dear you know exactly what I'm talking about. Mines are just like that.