Acidosis:
Majority of 'couples' today got married without spending all these. Do you know the number of couples who didn't do any wedding at all? Yet these people live as husband and wife, in fact some just seal their relationship at a Registry and they live happily.

Money is the least most relevant thing for intending couples. We need to stop placing too much emphasis on money.

I remember when I attended my friend's wedding, he did it as simple as ABC some of her friends was just laughing her, but look at them now!

sonofananimal:
if only your guest will be the one that will pay your bride price and fix you on a house and even provide for you!

You can say what you just said, but anyway! When last have you even witness any wedding going around you

So, because they are not the ones to pay my bride price, I should ensure I disrespect them with disposable cups and chewing gum, since they committed the crime of coming over to celebrate with me. Se?

I'm sorry, I don't understand anything in your 2nd paragraph.

Bishop David Oyedipo of Winners said that he did his wedding with cabin biscuit and sift drinks. If you can manage the amount OP estimated so be it after all there is live ahead

This kind of wedding shall not be my portion

Gaborone:



So, because they are not the ones to pay my bride price, I should ensure I disrespect them with disposable cups and chewing gum, since they committed the crime of coming over to celebrate with me. Se?

I'm sorry, I don't understand anything in your 2nd paragraph.

never mind!

Once that time reach, you will understand the second paragraph,

And for the first paragraph! If you really know what respect and disrespect is! You won't use that world!

tosyne2much:
I just hope you will not scare me away sha

no naaaah,its also my wedding,so i would assist *kisses*

Freemanan:


A conventional Nigerian girl can shoot you in the head.... twice, for this comment.

But its just the simple truth... When we go get sense sef

Afrer freemanan Change his name to Freeman!

politricks:
I dont know why we place so much emphasies on the cost of wedding. Let me ask you, is the amount you spend on a wedding directly proportional to how blessed your married life would be?

no mind am. I had no money to do mine, all I did was to buy lots of drinks for just 8k, then live goat to be killed for suya. They arranged palmwine and peppersoup and some few others,n including sewing of native wears (lace). Everything I paid for didn't pass 80k,minus the bride price wch 'must' be paid my the groom's 'parent'.

Some girls go just want make their own be like say na them be queen, meanwhile them be retired 4ki-4ki girls

rational thinker..resource re vry scarce..so one should focus on relevant tink nt irrelevant ..best eva planned wedding...am working on it bro

My dear,in as much as am not a frivolous spender,I stil dont go along with that idea jo. If na so,make we go jus wear jeans and normal tops, head to registry and sign d dotted lines dats all. That pic painted in my mind's eye,reeks of poverty in all sense of it,lol! Fine we knw one shdnt spend above one's means but because marriage is smtn done once, jus up d ante a bit na,insted of letting everybdy seeing us as church rat. Abg I'd rather not go thru dat stress than expose myself dat badly,lol!
Btw d way,how are u?

sonofananimal:
I wonder why many see this as poverty!

For me it is better to spend little on a wedding and invest more on the future.

Marriage is not all about wedding but how life will be like when two party agree to work as one for the benefit of each other in common.

That amount cant be spent if it were to be a traditional wedding...hell no! If na Marriage Introduction, 50K is ok. Bt ona try oo.

Jephz:
I . .....#quit

don't luv....don't worry u can afford it

20bc:
Must you even marry, abeg carry the girl enter house like that...

Use the remaining money take play baba ijebu

damn.

Olaolohun:

Don't be deceive bros, wedding is only once in a life timen once u missed it, u've missed it 4 life, if you have money to celebrate it, it is better u do, bcus there are 3 most important our life: birthday, wedding day and burial day, d only day dat we can only witness among this days is wedding day, so bros I'd ont pray 4 dis kind of wedding.

very very very wrong!

What make you to conceive this belief

You only talked about marriage but never mention divorce!
So can't the divorce witness another marriage in their lives again?

Seriously! You yourself don't even know what you are talking about!

I saw the topic on front-page and my instinct told me insta ta that this topic must be from no one than NSS....... Bet NSS wait ooo shey na by force make person do wedding but wait oooo instead of the couple embarrassing themselves they can even get married for less...
I.e: invite 2 friends from hubby and wife then 4 from each parents that's 16 all together.. Okay get ur wife to cook 1/2 plastic of rice buy half carton of Turkey, 1 and 1/2 carton of juice, 1 bag of pure water no oo bottle water, cook the rice and put them in take away packs,then hire one danfo bus put the food and drinks in d booth then hv ur wedding at the registry that's all...if u think I'm lieing go to ikoyi registry and u HD see alot of wedding like this...





quote author=KimBerlyie post=41442321]Lmao ayam allergic to poverty so I will pass. Bic biro as souvenir, zobo as red wine no need for wedding, the money shld be used for dere upkeep[/quote]

rheether:
May your wedding be like this in Jesus name. Amen

Why the curse??.. ifono nah( it's not good)

No matter how u manage u must spend above 50K
OP's hypothesis is insignificantly wrong

mommysgirl:

becky watzup

cupidFlint:
Lol. You deserve it buh that doesn't mean you should spend that kinda sum on just your marriage. What happens to life after the marriage ceremony?

dere must be enoff money nah,,,,, both before and after d wedding...I don't deal wif broke ass nigga....hehheh na joke oo

udysweet:
My dear,in as much as am not a frivolous spender,I stil dont go along with that idea jo. If na so,make we go jus wear jeans and normal tops, head to registry and sign d dotted lines dats all. That pic painted in my mind's eye,reeks of poverty in all sense of it,lol! Fine we knw one shdnt spend above one's means but because marriage is smtn done once, jus up d ante a bit na,insted of letting everybdy seeing us as church rat. Abg I'd rather not go thru dat stress than expose myself dat badly,lol!
Btw d way,how are u?

Just the way we view it at different angles!

Court wedding is even preferable!

Fine dear! We thank God, everything is OK for now!

Olaolohun:

Don't be deceive bros, wedding is only once in a life timen once u missed it, u've missed it 4 life, if you have money to celebrate it, it is better u do, bcus there are 3 most important our life: birthday, wedding day and burial day, d only day dat we can only witness among this days is wedding day, so bros I'd ont pray 4 dis kind of wedding.

What kind of mentality is dis??


Kai!

Do u know Mark Zukabarg? The CEO of facebook had a low key weeding? Yet he gave millions of dollars to charity.

Life is not all about party and fun dear.

Individual differences..what I want u 2 know is that festivity level is not an indication of standard of living

sweetboy25:
becky watzup

Who be Becky?

ZuzuMan:
If you will not give me 10 Million Rounds after spending 10 Million Naira just to Marry you ! Then Forget it

10 million rounds of wat

sonofananimal:
never mind!

Once that time reach, you will understand the second paragraph,

And for the first paragraph! If you really know what respect and disrespect is! You won't use that world!

"Once that time reach (sic) , you will understand": And he thinks someone died and made him king.

Forget about my time. Think about yours and commit it into God's hands. You know nothing about me. What's more, I do well by myself.

Keep serving your elders bobo and coca-cola sweet... since that's your definition of respect.

wristbangle:




Na prayer or curse be this?

hi

Gaborone:



"Once that time reach (sic) , you will understand": And he thinks someone died and made him king.

Forget about my time. Think about yours and commit it into God's hands. You know nothing about me. What's more, I do well by myself.

Keep serving your elders bobo and coca-cola sweet... since that's your definition of respect.

ok

sonofananimal:
ok

I don't need your 'ok'. Save it; its not a means of exchange.

your ingenuity is amazing!

Buzby007:
As much as wedding is a day thing, u must realise that it is d only day out of d three most important days of ur life (naming, wedding, n burial) that u r fully conscious.
Do not enter debt cause of wedding but don't be stingy with ur wedding.

God never put naming, wedding and BURIAL as the most important thing on your life!

That believe is from the under world!

Gaborone:


I don't need your 'ok'. Save it; its not a means of exchange.

you seriously have problem!

But sorry! I don't have time for your Shiite!

To the next side pls!

[quote author=justmenoni post=41447209]I saw the topic on front-page and my instinct told me insta ta that this topic must be from no one than NSS....... Bet NSS wait ooo shey na by force make person do wedding but wait oooo instead of the couple embarrassing themselves they can even get married for less...
I.e: invite 2 friends from hubby and wife then 4 from each parents that's 16 all together.. Okay get ur wife to cook 1/2 plastic of rice buy half carton of Turkey, 1 and 1/2 carton of juice, 1 bag of pure water no oo bottle water, cook the rice and put them in take away packs,then hire one danfo bus put the food and drinks in d booth then hv ur wedding at the registry that's all...if u think I'm lieing go to ikoyi registry and u HD see alot of wedding like this...




As in ehn, I don't see y they shld run helter skelter for all these nd it will still turn out to be an embarrassment

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