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Best wishes you two!

abeg Theolar and Real truth

is like both of u are slacking
there is no time to waste and beat about the bush
u pple shld just go straight to the point jor!!!
me i must tie ashebi this year for Nairaland wedding ooooo,

Honestly if you guys can pull this offf
I wld make sure i attend it even if it is gonna take place in the moon
so Please dont keep us waiting for too long


BTW hope u pple have exchanged pictures already?

Coolfaced8 tanx 4 describin Nezed in words dat describe her perfectly. Chinesedoll takin our time is d best thing we can do 4 ourself.

coolfaced8:

You come across as a wonderful person Nezed. There's a great satisfaction in being part of something good. I'm sure you'll be a good friend and nurturer. Theolar is lucky to have you on her thread for the encouragement and support you've shown. You're a beautiful angel, never let your light fade.

Gawd, aint it too much a compliment? thanx a lot, Am so humbled!

theolar:

Coolfaced8 tanx 4 describin Nezed in words dat describe her perfectly. Chinesedoll takin our time is d best thing we can do 4 ourself.

Thanx theolar,
Hope u and R.T are getting on well? guess its time we give u guys a little break!
Gurl, enjoy urself , Lol

theolar:

Chykeo and Nezed dont worry we wil always giv u guys gist but like everioda tin dere will be boundaries. I hope R.T. agrees wit me on dis. anyways Nezed i missed u and a few odas ova d wknd . R.T. and i spoke on sat and he was a bit shy which was very endearin on d whole i am lookin 4wd to knowing him beta.

House, isnt dat soooooooo sweet?

my robe people no dey do refund after 6 months so you may need to take out insurance cos i will sue both of you for emotional damage.

seriously do enjoy the journet

Chei, i don miss something oh.
2 NairaLanders hooking up?
Congrats.
remember me for the wedding oh and i could be a very good MC.

@ poster and other comments

It is very interesting and intriguing to observe you and I on our conquest to find the right one.  
As one of the finest man on earth  , I ironically observed many women that were looking for one guy or the other and I am ashamed to say that majority of them were all blind.  They were blind cus they put out fancy words about the kind of men they wanted (wind chasers are they I say).  And when these men appears before them, not necessarily in the way they expected, they freaked out and cut them off.  Yet they kept complaining - where are my dogs at?  
To those women who are looking for significant fellow, would you be able to recognize such if he is standing in front of you?  I can bet you all the money in this world that the answer is cheesy - NO you can't.

Look conversation online does not necessarily reveals what some pple are in the real world.  Just exchanging emails with a stranger does not even reveals their true potentials or persons.  Online is just another means to let go of the steam without any restrictions or baggage.  You want to find good guys who are ready for marriage - are you ready yourself?  Do you know the kind of guys you want, or do you know your own persons?  Do you know the qualities that good guys are looking for in a female?  By the way, good guys come in different shapes and sizes, but one thing is true about them all - they are sincere, faithful, committed, some are shy, some are introvert, men of principles, some appears weak and hopeless, they don't fork around, and many more.  But these good guys are the pillars of the world!  

I bet you many gals most have rejected President Obama before he eventually finds Michelle.  What about Bill Gates, Steve Job, Even Tupac was rejected by most gals cus he was nothing from the beginning.  So you women out there that are looking for good men, yall be good first, and then learn how to identify a good marriageable men.  

if you think I am unrealistic,  look back at your female friends,  female relatives and siblings, and the society at large and picture me saying to find a good guys who are ready for marriage be true to yaself!

Taken:

@ poster and other comments

It is very interesting and intriguing to observe you and I on our conquest to find the right one.  
As one of the finest man on earth  , I ironically observed many women that were looking for one guy or the other and I am ashamed to say that majority of them were all blind.  They were blind cus they put out fancy words about the kind of men they wanted (wind chasers are they I say).  And when these men appears before them, not necessarily in the way they expected, they freaked out and cut them off.  Yet they kept complaining - where are my dogs at?  
To those women who are looking for significant fellow, would you be able to recognize such if he is standing in front of you?  I can bet you all the money in this world that the answer is cheesy - NO you can't.

Well said, however, everyone has the quality they want in the other, and why settle for less when you know that it might make u to cheat later when u now see what you would have settled for.

Taken:

Look conversation online does not necessarily reveals what some pple are in the real world.  Just exchanging emails with a stranger does not even reveals their true potentials or persons.  Online is just another means to let go of the steam without any restrictions or baggage.  You want to find good guys who are ready for marriage - are you ready yourself?  Do you know the kind of guys you want, or do you know your own persons?  Do you know the qualities that good guys are looking for in a female?  By the way, good guys come in different shapes and sizes, but one thing is true about them all - they are sincere, faithful, committed, some are shy, some are introvert, men of principles, some appears weak and hopeless, they don't fork around, and many more.  But these good guys are the pillars of the world!  

I bet you many gals most have rejected President Obama before he eventually finds Michelle.  What about Bill Gates, Steve Job, Even Tupac was rejected by most gals cus he was nothing from the beginning.  So you women out there that are looking for good men, yall be good first, and then learn how to identify a good marriageable men.  

if you think I am unrealistic,  look back at your female friends,  female relatives and siblings, and the society at large and picture me saying to find a good guys who are ready for marriage be true to yaself!

Rightly said again, however, how do u know that it wasnt Michelle that brought out the best out of Barack, Barack could be in jail, if he had married Chelsea, there is a need for us not to always compare such, cos till you in the shoes of those people, you cant tell what the hurt is.
Maybe if Tupac had married someone else, maybe he would still be alive.
I do agree with you though that sometimes, the sistas are looking for men that are not born yet, i know some sistas are expecting too much, for example, a woman that is almost 50 years old and looking for a hunk, she needs to get her brain checked.

True dat, never wrong to have desires and traits that you wanted. But the big answer is that such traits are found in unusual men.
You are well aware of the saying that white pap or eeko is from the black pot. A rose is surrounded by thorns, and if you break the coconut, you get to drink the juice inside.
Once more, all I am saying are that the traits most women are searching for are usually hidden and found in unusual men.

Yes, i do agree with you that sometimes, they asking for some ridiculous stuff like i said earlier.
However, for a 24 year old lady to wanna marry a man that got it together and got it going on for him, a man with a career, a man that will love her and looks good, i don't think that is too much to find in a "usual" man, expect if she got nothing to offer the man herself.

In any case patience with one another is what we all need.
And time does the rest.

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In any case patience with one another is what we all need.
And time does the rest.

Now you are right.
And if you looking for the right person, start a thread too and i am sure someone will be wiling to crack the coconut to drink the water inside of you.
Good luck

Thanks for the suggestion, I will pass.

Taken:

Thanks for the suggestion, I will pass.

Lol

I'm loving this, really.

ayomifull:

I'm loving this, really.

About to experience the first NairaLand wedding.

:d

Hey can i be the sponsor of this ur wedding

i read this post when it just started and laughed look how far it has come i wish u guys the best sounds sincere who knows. fingers crossed

Well i guess we should all give them a bit of breathing space sha, cos it seems the Bridegroom is shy Whilst you are going about the getting to know one another session vis a vis courting, I will go about starting to prepare the lists of goodies you need to bring to seek the bride's hands in marriage and present it to you soon, so it will not come as a shock later



_{Come sef, where is the Moderator Tgirl4real, the original Wedding Coordinator, and to think this is happening right on her turf}

Fhemmmy:

Well said, however, everyone has the quality they want in the other, and why settle for less when you know that it might make u to cheat later when u now see what you would have settled for.

Rightly said again, however, how do u know that it wasnt Michelle that brought out the best out of Barack, Barack could be in jail, if he had married Chelsea, there is a need for us not to always compare such, cos till you in the shoes of those people, you cant tell what the hurt is.
Maybe if Tupac had married someone else, maybe he would still be alive.
I do agree with you though that sometimes, the sistas are looking for men that are not born yet, i know some sistas are expecting too much, for example, a woman that is almost 50 years old and looking for a hunk, she needs to get her brain checked.

Very wise words Uncle Femo, very wise words indeed

Fhemmmy:

About to experience the first NairaLand wedding.

This ain't even the fifth wedding, and trust me, I should know

touchmeder:

i read this post when it just started and laughed look how far it has come i wish u guys the best sounds sincere who knows. fingers crossed

me too.

i think i would give this thread a break
at least until i am alerted, that my serices are needed
until then
wish u guys the best

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Busy_body:

This ain't even the fifth wedding, and trust me, I should know

Are you serious that NairaLanders have been marrying one another/
Then, they need to come and buy us palm wine oh.
I will love to attend one, one day sha

Na wa una just abandon us . Anyways we doin good. Nezed, chinesedoll, gen2genius,fhemmy, coolfaced8, ifyalways and all odas space no permit me hail. How are u peeps doin hope u are havin a swell time dis wknd. R.T. and myself , we re satisfyin our curosity. Not in my wildest dream did i tink it was goin to take dis turn. Tanx u all and we are still keepin our fingers crossd. Ciao

@Theolar
all d best just keep being urself n making new friends everyday n in no distant time a deserving man will come knocking.

@Real truth
So tweet!!

please guys do av fun and take your time. and keep us all updated. .

theolar:

Na wa una just abandon us . Anyways we doin good. Nezed, chinesedoll, gen2genius,fhemmy, coolfaced8, ifyalways and all odas space no permit me hail. How are u peeps doin hope u are havin a swell time dis wknd. R.T. and myself , we re satisfyin our curosity. Not in my wildest dream did i tink it was goin to take dis turn. Tanx u all and we are still keepin our fingers crossd. Ciao

Hiya Theolar, nah, we didnt abandon u nor RT, far be it from us!
'We' just thot it was courteous and respectful to let u guys 'do ur thing' at ur own pace witout us 'paparrazing' u guys,
Good to hear u guys are smoking and satisfying your curiosity _{BTW, wat does dat mean? is it wat am thinking?} .

C'mon gurl, lets do some ladies gossip here, hw is he? uve seen his pishur? hope he is dashing? pepper nko? wen is d face-face meeting? etc,
Pls spill the beans, we are waiting,

Minwhile, is RT ur pet name 4 him? u can do better (sumfin sweet and, ) ^{u know now!}

have a great week y'all,

I'm loving this.