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I will advice you to talk to the babe first.
Let her see reason why you need the money and let her give you her word on how you can get the money back fast.
But wait oh, she never gave you document of your fixed deposit showing how much you invest and the rate and all that kinda stuff?
Here is what you wanna worry about.
She can be vengeful and go to your wife if you go ahead and report her without you guys trying to sort things out first oh, or better still, she can tell her manager that you guys have agreement to fix whatever she fixed if there is no document to show anything that she fix for you, so whatever is on the document is what anyone will believe, so i am sure you will be asked same question too.

Someone don land for hot peppersoup
why do u think appraoching the manager wud help anything?did she sign any document with u or did u document the exact amt u gave her?
The only peaceful way to solve this is to resolve it amicably with her
call her and let her know u really need this money.she might just listen and free ya money for u.

You could even tell her that if she give u the money, you will give her one for da road.

rofl
good idea.

she just took her fees for the dating (married man indeed, who dash you wife?) there is nothing free in freetowm, forget the money.

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sparta:

she just took her fees for the dating (married man indeed, who dash you wife?) there is nothing free in freetowm, forget the money.

hahahaha

chaircover:

Plan A - Forget about the money and continue to live with your wife in peace & sin no more.

Plan B - Tell the bank manager, then your ex girlfriend tells your wife and you are in peppersoup

Plan C - Call your ex-girlfriend and beg her to try and find a way or returning your money. If Plan C does not work, then back to Plan A or B

As for A the reason i cant forget about the money is that she didnt render me any service to warrant that kind of money and am not afraid about my wifey finding out. Its better to use about a 100k of the money to do shopping for me and she would definitely forgive me

Plan B looks very tempting and that wat i think am gonna do.
Plan C , i have begged,cajoled and even threatened b4 and she always promise to pay it in my account but i have not seen my account credited to the tune.
Will she really loose her job if i go to the extreme?

Its better to use about a 100k of the money to do shopping for me and she would definitely forgive me

OMG!

@Poster, If want your money, the manager is your best bet.

shinaidowu:

i cant forget about the money because she didnt render me any service to warrant that kind of money
wrong: She rendered her time,and her body to service your extra marital sex urge.What service is more than that?

Its better to use about a 100k of the money to do shopping for her and she would definitely forgive me
To bad you could debase ur wife to dis extent.

Plan B looks very tempting and that wat i think am gonna do.
Will she really loose her job if i go to the extreme?

What joy will it give u to see her go jobless?
Am not supporting her,and am not supporting u
u used her,she used u 1,1 na draw.Take advise and thread carefully.money aint everthing.

shinaidowu:

As for A the reason i cant forget about the money is that she didnt render me any service to warrant that kind of money and am not afraid about my wifey finding out. Its better to use about a 100k of the money to do shopping for me and she would definitely forgive me

Plan B looks very tempting and that wat i think am gonna do.
Plan C , i have begged,cajoled and even threatened b4 and she always promise to pay it in my account but i have not seen my account credited to the tune.
Will she really loose her job if i go to the extreme?

So sad that your wife will just forgive you cos of some 100K worth of shopping, i guess that explains why you went for extra marital sex.

She will lose her job, cos she supposed to invest all money given by investors.
however, what documentation do you have that shows you gave her 1 Million naira?

Fhemmmy:


however, what documentation do you have that shows you gave her 1 Million naira?

Thank u.
@Poster,Unless,u have a documented prove that u actually gave her 1M,u have no case.
I pity ur wife(if u have one)u not only cheat at her but u also dont have any respect/regards for her.

The girl is a thief and you are a LovePeddler. You too deserve each other. I just pity your wife.

ifyalways:

Thank u.
@Poster,Unless,u have a documented prove that u actually gave her 1M,u have no case.
I pity ur wife(if u have one)u not only cheat at her but u also dont have any respect/regards for her.

That is sad.

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chaircover:

Aiye ti baje

Imagine the effrontery

You will spend N100,000 on your wife to "apologise" for your adultery and on top of that you "lost" the money you should have spent on your family.

Lord I thank you each and every day for the wonderful man you have blessed me with.

Men life is not as serious that you are taking, i made that statement not because i have no regards for my wife but i just wanted to take everytin in a lighter mood,ok. What i meant here was why spend it on someone that dubious and not my wife.
Thank God for a wonderful husband that u have and i pray to be like him.

shinaidowu:

Men life is not as serious that you are taking, i made that statement not because i have no regards for my wife but i just wanted to take everytin in a lighter mood,ok. What i meant here was why spend it on someone that dubious and not my wife.
Thank God for a wonderful husband that u have and i pray to be like him.

When you are messing with her, you never remember that she is not your wife ?
Anyhow, no need to scold you, cos u knew you were wrong.
So best thing to do is talk to her and let her reason with you why you need your money back.
But never talk about your wife anyhow.

Fhemmmy:

When you are messing with her, you never remember that she is not your wife ?
Anyhow, no need to scold you, cos u knew you were wrong.
So best thing to do is talk to her and let her reason with you why you need your money back.
But never talk about your wife anyhow.

Thank you very much, i started by saying i know i messed up big time, its just that a lot of folks here are so unforgiving that they are so mad at me even though they are not my wife. No amount of tongue lashing is going to change the fact that i made a terrible mistake which i am so sorry about. Cheating on my wife does not in any way means that i dont love or respect her, but at times things happen that you cant explain the reason for your actions.
Nuff love everybody for their contributions and God bless us all.

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Chaircover has said it all.
Good luck, Shina.

@Poster,
I work in a financial institution and I know the implication of suppressing customer's fund.
Make it clear to the lady that you want your fund back and failure to do so will lead to you reporting her to the appropriate authorities.
By the way, I hope you have a deal certificate to prove your claim if not,then disregard my suggestion.

IFELEKE:

@Poster,
I work in a financial institution and I know the implication of suppressing customer's fund.
Make it clear to the lady that you want your fund back and failure to do so will lead to you reporting her to the appropriate authorities.
By the way, I hope you have a deal certificate to prove your claim if not,then disregard my suggestion.

You noticed that the guy has refused to answer if he has any document to show that he paid the lady?

Fhemmmy:

You noticed that the guy has refused to answer if he has any document to show that he paid the lady?

Yeah I did but i didnt want to assume that was i said:

IFELEKE:

By the way, I hope you have a deal certificate to prove your claim if not,then disregard my suggestion.