Having a partner who understand you better is the best partner one need in any relationship. Do not cheat on her.
Treat her like a queen.
Always expres how you feel when you ae wit her.

lovely ...just what I need right now. thanks ops!

There is this girl I once knew.
The whole points the Op listed just described her totally.

hmmm, op thank u

Well, I have been a victim of No. 3 but this episode will guide me.

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PLEASE, WHEN will all these RUBBISH end..?

hmmm many relationship gone sowr cos of number 1&3

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eleojo23:
Feel free to leave a comment...
Don't forget, this is not only about romantic boy-girl relationships

Thanks for sharing.

I don't do relationships

pls help me i need nairaland agent contact e.mail

Perfect post.I was guilty of all.

Op, if one is broke nothing can make the guy secure.
There's just a thin line between love and heartbreak when one is broke.

autotrader014:
the only sure way to stop feeling insecure in life is to make money.. shekina.

You are on point bro...

zoneros:
I don't do relationships

You are just making comments without reading.
Chai! nairalanders never disappoint.

I stated that this is not just about romantic relationships.
That is why i did not create this topic in the romance section.
The word "relationship" means more than "romance"!

What do you call the connection between you and your brother, sister, friends? It's relationship!
If you don't have any relationships, it means you don't have connection with any human being.

Tanks though. .....

eleojo23:

I was also guilty of number 1.
I was always trying to read the minds of my friends and decipher what they were thinking (feeling like a detective). But it usually led me to making wrong assumptions.

I have realised that everyone has a right to think private thoughts the same way I like to have my privacy. If someone is honest with you, he/she will tell you the things you should know. No need to probe too much.

I am also guilty as well.

it is not easy changing especially if you are the kind that tends to jump into conclusions. you can't blame the person especially this action is arising from past events.

but then that is no excuse as assumptions is the mother of Bleep ups

This is what led to divorce in my life. My wife is looking for a perfect marriage. She does read meaning to all my actions.

And this results into complain and nag everyday. My less Dan 3 years marriage has collapsed.

I think insecurity also stems from a person's personality or temperament. A melancholic or phlegmatic temperament is very prone to insecurity, at certain times and in certain situations.
But this is a very informative piece. Nice one

feldido:
Op, if one is broke nothing can make the guy secure.
There's just a thin line between love and heartbreak when one is broke.

zoneros:
I don't do relationships

gentlesoul196:
Bulsh!t write up... stay single n be happier

Ameanux:
Having a partner who understand you better is the best partner one need in any relationship. Do not cheat on her.
Treat her like a queen.
Always expres how you feel when you ae wit her.

Kreamie:
* STOP NAGGING
* STOP ASKING FOR MONEY
* STOP COMPLAINING EVERY SINGLE MINUTE
* STOP THE FBI CRAP
* STOP LOOKING THROUGH HIS/HER PHONE AS YOU'LL ONLY GIVE YOU YOURSELF A HEARTACHE

Ameanux:
Having a partner who understand you better is the best partner one need in any relationship. Do not cheat on her.
Treat her like a queen.
Always expres how you feel when you ae wit her.

Olodo like these will just comment without reading. OP said not for romantic relationship.

Ndukings92:
as far as d guy in question is broke, insecurity is his case. period!

gentlesoul196:
Bulsh!t write up... stay single n be happier

Ameanux:
Having a partner who understand you better is the best partner one need in any relationship. Do not cheat on her.
Treat her like a queen.
Always expres how you feel when you ae wit her.

Kreamie:
* STOP NAGGING
* STOP ASKING FOR MONEY
* STOP COMPLAINING EVERY SINGLE MINUTE
* STOP THE FBI CRAP
* STOP LOOKING THROUGH HIS/HER PHONE AS YOU'LL ONLY GIVE YOU YOURSELF A HEARTACHE

Ameanux:
Having a partner who understand you better is the best partner one need in any relationship. Do not cheat on her.
Treat her like a queen.
Always expres how you feel when you ae wit her.

Olodo like these will just comment without reading. OP said not for romantic relationship.

feldido:
Op, if one is broke nothing can make the guy secure.
There's just a thin line between love and heartbreak when one is broke.

that's the insecurity we are talking about! What ever happened to self confidence? I knew of a broke guy that approached a Banker in my Hood with mere slippers and it worked for him! Last time I checked, he's enjoying his relationship inspite of his financial status! The highest form of Inferiority complex is when you borrow your friend's car, wears just to approach a common Lady!! Sigh! The key word is BE YOURSEL!

You just elaborate what av been going through in d past 2wks now.....currently experiencing all what you post up there.............#ThumbsUp

reading in process...no comment yet

OP u nailed it.

God bless you O.P
you just blessed a soul.

Nice....