OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL….

Date: Thursday 28TH January 2016

Theme: MAKING YOUR MARRIAGE WORK 2

Memorise:

and said, for this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh” Matthew 19:5

Read: Ephesians 5:21-25

21 submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.

22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;”

Message:

A marriage that has God in it is the best thing that can happen to any child of God. The Bible says: “ Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord” Proverbs 18:22

This Scripture unequivocally dismisses the wrong notion of marriage being a burden. For your marriage to work, our memory verse for today reveals the first obligation on the part of the man (the husband) towards his wife: you must strictly adhere to this twin-command - leaving your parents and cleaving to your wife. Some men never leave their parents, particularly their mother. They are “mummy’s boys” and after marriage they still ‘eat from their mother’s pot’ on regular basis. This habit destroys a marriage relationship fast.

Unconditional love is another obligation a husband must perform towards his wife. This kind of love will make the man give his entire being to his wife without expecting anything in return. The Bible says:
“Husbands,, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it” Ephesians 5:25

Some men, unfortunately, do not know what it means to be married. Marriage could be regarded as giving of one’s self to one’s spouse. Paul, an apostle of Jesus Christ, gave the real picture of marital obligation when he wrote:

“But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.” 1 Corinthians 7:32-33

The truth in the above passage is that a man is under obligation to cater for his wife and to have an unreserved commitment to the joy and well-being of his wife. Some so-called Christians are so careless about their marriage that they neglect the divine mandates of caring for the family. As a result, the wife becomes disillusioned about the faith and the children vow never to follow their father to worship God. At the end of the day, the failure of the family eventually affects their Christian walk and ministry. Love must be experiential and substantial, men must show their love practically, and their spouses will not be in doubt as to whether or not they are loved.

Prayer Point:

Father, please give me the ability to love my spouse unconditionally.

Bible in one year: Matthew 9:27-12:8, Job 12:1-12

AUTHOR: PASTOR E.A. ADEBOYE

Prayer Points On Today's Open Heavens (Thursday January 28th 2016)
MAKING YOUR MARRIAGE WORK 2

1.Thank you Father for the marriage institution, that you have ordained for your purpose and for the benefit of man.

2.Thank you Father for your blessings and favours upon my life by providing for me a "help meet".

3.Father, I invite you afresh into my home and marriage, please, come and take absolute control and pre-eminence, in Jesus' name.

4.Father, help us to establish a strong and regular family altar in our home, in order to keep satan far away, in Jesus' name.

5.(For husbands). Father, help me to actually "leave" my parents and "cleave" to my wife in the true sense of cleaving.

6.(For husbands). Father, help me to love my wife unconditionally, even, as Christ love the Church and gave His life for her.

7.Father, let every spirit of hatred and hostility, threatening to destroy my home and marriage be paralysed.

8.Father, let every architect of conflict and hostility in my home and marriage be exposed, frustrated and openly disgraced, in Jesus' name.

9.Father, let every weapon fashioned against my home and marriage be rendered obsolete, in Jesus' name.

10.Father, by your divine power, help me to stop every bad attitude and conduct, that has been eroding the love between me and my spouse.

11.Father, let your peace that surpasses all human understanding begin to reign supreme in my home, in Jesus' name.

12.Your Personal petitions. (Phil 4:6)
13.In Jesus' name I pray. (Jn 15:16)
14.Thank you Father for answered prayers.(1 Thes 5:18).