Sam Milla:

Why wont some people just give their opinions here instead of condemning the topic.
Or atleast leave the topic alone ?

Wont you pay off this girlfriend if you believe beyond doubt that she will leave your husband alone?

Yes or know, With reasons , not calling the topic names like pathetic.

Or you think pulling your husbands girlfriend's hair or tearing her cloth in the public will solve the problem?
Huh!!

pek:

know one thing about blackmailers? they keep coming back for more.

beingme:

paying off indeed.

u will talk of pay off if uwere the one that got the woman for ur husband. these re mistakes we make that crash our homes (women).

what happens if the man is taking a second wife? kill him?

come on women we ought think well in order not to make mistakes in our homes.

if uhusband s cheats on u u ve to lay low and be faithful to urself not nagging, disrespecting or confronting him, but wit time u will discuss wit him making sure u know why he's cheating on u

ifyalways:

Never say never.

JJYOU:

it is amazing what over opiniated people would do when faced with real life situations and choices. it is so easy to call people names on NL. if there is anything life teaches it is never say never becos u never know.

kay9:

Now, let me say it straight: I wouldn't dream of cheating on my wife. If i love her enough to marry her, wtf am i looking for fooling around like that? Shit happens, yes, but i think a good percentage of the required self-control is up to me.

Ok, having said that, lemme now talk objectively.
If i did cheat on my wife and she's dense enough to pay off the girl, i shall without much ado, proceed to commit the said cheating again - and split the money 50-50 with the girl!! Easy dough!

Sam Milla:

When husbands become unfaithful most wives find it very hard to stomach such betrayal. They go to any length to restore their homes which they guide so jealously. So, what solution would you proffer to a girl friend that snatches your husband?

Would you just watch and let her take away what rightly belongs to you so there would be peace? Or would you fight her with everything within your reach? Or would you rather pay her off, if only she can name the price? Well, if you are caught in this web, what would you do?

Snatches my husband He is a grown man.He choose to leave with her. If he wanna leave with her, so be it.I am not gonna fight over someone that leaves with another woman.

*dhtml:

I dunno why SeanT, but from what i have seen, no matter how bad the man becomes, most women seem to want their husband back.
I think marriage is deeper (possibly to women) than when they are just dating free-style, at least from what i have seen. . . . . . . . . . .

sistawoman:

I stand in the group that says if he cheats he can stay with her.

If he is stupid enough to give up his 80 for her 20 then go be with her, i dont want him back.