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I have been hearing something like this from girls “He can't satisfy me" if this is true I presume I'll have so many issues in my marriage. I dated for more than a year and I have never for once asked her for sex and she cheated on me bcoz of that. she was bold enough to tell me that I never made her feel like a woman. so many girls have given me attention and sometimes romantic with me but I never opted in for sex and they thought I'm not serious with them and they left me. I don't have urge for sex and I may love a girl so much but it's hard to sleep with her and I to sum everything up I detest sex. would it affect me tomorrow would I have problems in my marriage male friends have been telling me my wife will cheat on me and I am very jealous if I catch her I'll be forced to divorce her but I'm worried. I see sex as a most unpleasant act and I don't like it. To me sex is a dirty thing. please I need your advice. thanks

Why do you hate sex?

Then stay single as u r...if u can't have sex with ur wife, then what's the use of being married anyway and get a divorced coz she enjoying the eggplant of others & not urs?


Don't get married if u can't give happiness to ur wife, she eventually wants children


So, don't make ur life complicated and avoid making other's life miserable coz u cant have sex with them...STAY SINGLE.

KashyBaby:
Then stay single as u r...if u can't have sex with ur wife, then what's the use of being married anyway and get a divorced coz she enjoying the eggplant of others & not urs?


Don't get married if u can't give happiness to ur wife, she eventually wants children


So, don't make ur life complicated and avoid making other's life miserable coz u cant have sex with them...STAY SINGLE.

I know I have to do it for the sake of our children but what I'm saying is they complained about their partner not being able to satisfy their sexual urges. that's where I think they'll have problems with me

Tyviv:
Why do you hate sex?

like I said it's like a dirty act. All I want from a girl is to love me and also be faithful to me. Sex is not the sole purpose of marriage. the way some people are doing is like the main reason they got married is to have sex

donTbone:

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Sex doesn't have to be everyone's proclivity. Like I will always say, every individual on earth is wired differently, whether it's sexually or psychologically, so OP, don't allow anyone force you into thinking that something is wrong with you, because you are perfectly normal. Sex doesn't have to be "the thing" for everyone. You don't find sex appealing or interesting. I perfectly get it. It's who you are.

But what you should know is that just as sex isn't appealing to you, there are people who can't do without it. There are women who have high libidos and who crave sex on a constant basis. You need to stay away from these kind of women. You are not sexually compatible with them at all.
What you should do is find a girl who is just like you or close to being like you. Someone who sex isn't what she is actually after in a relationship. Someone with a low libido. And you can't do this if you don't talk about this with your girlfriend early into your dating relationship.

Why women cheat on their husbands like your friends are telling you that your wife would do, is that prior to their getting married, the woman didn't notice her husband wasn't sexually active, probably because they didn't have sex or they didn't talk about it while they were dating. So that's why I would advice that you talk to any girl you are dating and let her know how you feel about sex as a whole, and if she says she is okay with it, good for you, go ahead and tie the knots, but if she says she isn't, you just have to find someone else.

One thing I can certainly assure you is that there are women like yourself out there. Lots of them. So don't fret.

Decker:
Sex doesn't have to be everyone's proclivity. Like I will always say, every individual on earth is wired differently, whether is sexually or psychologically, so OP, don't allow anyone force you into thinking that you something is wrong with you, because you are perfectly normal. Sex doesn't have to be "the thing" for everyone. You don't find sex appealing or interesting. I perfectly get it. It's who you are.

But what you should know is that just as sex isn't appealing to you, there are people who can't do without it. There are women who have high libidos and who crave sex on a constant basis. You need to stay away from these kind of women. You are not sexually compatible with them at all.
What you should do is find a girl who is just like you or close to being like you. Someone who sex isn't what she is actually after in a relationship. Some with a low libido. And you can't do this if you don't talk about this with your girlfriend early into your dating relationship.

Why women cheat on their husbands like your friends are telling you that your wife would do, is that prior to their getting married, the woman didn't notice her husband wasn't sexually active, probably because they didn't have sex or they didn't talk about it, while they were dating. So that's why I would advice that you talk to any girl you are dating and let her know how you feel about sex as a whole, and if she says she is okay with it, good for you, go ahead and tie the knots, but if she says she isn't, you just have to find someone else.

One thing I can certainly assure you is that there are women like yourself out there. Lots of them. So don't fret.

Thank you so much. You've said it all. God bless you

Fongido:
Thank you so much. I've said it all. God bless you

You are welcome.