i don't know if it is nice for husband to be beating their wives
should the woman continue bearing it or what advice do you have for such people

omotf:

i don't know if it is nice for husband to be beating their wives
should the woman continue bearing it or what advice do you have for such people

Can even beleive that you say that as well.
It is morally and everything wrong for a man to beat a woman.
No woman shd allow a man to do that to her, she shd walk away from such relationship.

It's because they are very heartless and stupid.

Heartless

Or refer to this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-264305.0.html

chaircover:

Real men step back, count to ten, walk away, go for a walk, gof ro a drive, drink ice water, leave the room etc

Real men do NOT beat their wives

And real women don't insult their husband. How about that.

yeah olabukola real women don't insult their husband BUT there are ways of dealing with women who don't fall in the real category aside from beating them.
Beating a woman is like saying you aren't man enough to handle the situation that brought about the beating.

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@ chaircover,

Good points there, but u do agree REAL women dont insult their men

No matter what the woman has done, a REAL man shuld never lay his hands on the woman, if you really wanna lay your hands on her, wait till you are making love to her and you slap the a$$ real good, and she will love you more.
For real, never beat a woman, cos all you doing is breeding a monster and when she fully grown into what you breeding, you will run for your life.

Inferiority complex. Some men beat a woman through psychological intimidation

some men beat their wives out of frustration
some men beat their wives out of anger
some men beat their wive just because they dont understand each other
some men beat their wives because thats the only way to relieve of the marriage stress
some men beat their wives because thats the only way to get them into submission
some men beat their wives because they cant communicate
some men beat their wives because she asked for it
some men beat their wives because they know that she aint going nowhere and aint gonna do shit about it
some men beat their wives because they believe that since he brings the bread, he can do what he wants.
some men beat their wives because his wife dare to raise her hands on him.

A cursed Men beat their wives but for me, I believe woman are partner and not slave and they need to be treated as partner because partner means your half and things should be of equal.

walestar:

A cursed Men beat their wives but for me, I believe woman are partner and not slave and they need to be treated as partner because partner means your half and things should be of equal.

hmm nice one

sexyLeamon:

hmm nice one

Do you have a yahoo messenger,may we can chat on yahoo atime

Yu just had to hit on her after how many posts.

Okija_juju:

Yu just had to hit on her after how many posts.

Mr Gbeborun, me and her have fought well in sexuality forum, so she get mad with me and leave the forums because of what I asked her though I asked her dirty question so I want to appologize now

Real Men don't beat their wife which means Unreal men do.
Real women don't insult their husband which means unreal women do.

Any man that beat the wife is unreal and any woman that insult the husband is unreal.
So where you have real men u will have real women as well and where you have unreal man you will equally have unreal woman.

Why do men beat their wives??

ANSWER: To resolve conflict.

Should men beat their wives??

ANSWER; If the situation calls for it.

Is beating of women/wives right??

ANSWER; It depends on the events preceeding the beating.

Are wife beaters necessarily bad men??

ANSWER; Not all of them.

Does the fact that a man beats his wife makes him any less of a man??

ANSWER; I dont think so.

Okija_juju:

Why do men beat their wives??
ANSWER: To resolve conflict.
Should men beat their wives??
ANSWER; If the situation calls for it.
Is beating of women/wives right??
ANSWER; It depends on the events preceeding the beating.
Are wife beaters necessarily bad men??
ANSWER; Not all of them.
Does the fact that a man beats his wife makes him any less of a man?
ANSWER; I dont think so.

I thank God beating wives is now an offence in Nigeria, I pray most of you men will not end up in kirikiri

All of you are making the women/wives out to be the victims. There are situations were the guy has to beat the woman to defend himself you know.

Now this does not mean I beat women o!! I'm just trying to be objectiv e about the topic.

Okija_juju:

All of you are making the women/wives out to be the victims. There are situations were the guy has to beat the woman to defend himself you know.

Now this does not mean I beat women o!! I'm just trying to be objectiv e about the topic.

A man defending himself wont beat the woman, but hold the hands that wanna beat him, or walk away.

he has no respect for his mother
none for his wife
none for women
and not much for himself. don't marry a misogynist, its like being black and marrying a white racist.

A man has NO reason to beat his wife.

Beating is never an option in any marriage because it create crisis and tension each time there is any disagreement. Rather there should be a better way of resolving it. Though some women could be frustrating and stubborn but there are always a way out. Just like a stubborn child, the more you beat the hard he/she becomes.

So to all you women beater, does the situation improve after beating her

They will beat the woman and at night, expect same woman to make love to them and be happy with them.
How sad.

Fhemmmy:

A man defending himself wont beat the woman, but hold the hands that wanna beat him, or walk away.

Now imagine a lepa guy tht weighs in at about 75kg holding the hands of his orobor 110kg wifes hands!! Now thats a site I would love to behold. I'm not sying it is right, but atimes it might just be the only avaliable option.

And I thought the women considered themselves equals?! So why is fighting now forbidden?

I'm just saying some women/wives drive their men to the point where they need to be smacked around for peace to be restored.

There is never any justification to insult your husband, and neither is there any justification to beat your wife. The moment such a scenario tries to rear its ugly head, dialog should be the solution. If you can't handle that, then reconsider your union in the first place.

If Man can beat man and women are equal to men why can't men beat women or women beat men.
What happends to equality statue?
Since they are equal let them fight it out to determine who is who. If the woman come out on top she will become boss
and start issuing out orders to the man and start spanking him anytime he insult her.