wagazala:
OP could be blowing this out of proportion. Is there anyway he could examine without actually touching them and caressing? Inexperience on the part of the Doc forced him to smile seeing how the patient is aroused by just a medical examination. Lastly, OP had her mind made up about the 'Young' Doc before he started examining her, there's nothing he would do that would be right in her eyes. Wonder if she would have felt the same way if it was an older doctor and the scenario played out exactly the same.

PS: to those who think the tip isn't to be examined:


Cover the entire breast from top to bottom, side to side — from your collarbone to the top of your abdomen, and from your armpit to your cleavage.

Follow a pattern to be sure that you cover the whole breast. You can begin at the Tip, moving in larger and larger circles until you reach the outer edge of the breast. You can also move your fingers up and down vertically, in rows, as if you were mowing a lawn.

Read rest at link below.

http://www.breastcancer.org/symptoms/testing/types/self_exam/bse_steps


Madam should have examined herself or insisted on a Female doc if she wasn't comfortable @ a younger doctor. Shikena.

adorablepepple:
I would advice you to tell your husband because it once happened to me but it was while he was using his stethoscope on my chest and the next thing he started touching my breast asking if I do examine it,immediately I collected that his stupid instrument and hit it on his head and used my shoe on him and I kept shouting till people came. I told my mum and she followed the case up. It happened in a general hospital. He faced the hospital committee . Women stop keeping quiet when been molested,stop it! Fight back

adorablepepple:
I would advice you to tell your husband because it once happened to me but it was while he was using his stethoscope on my chest and the next thing he started touching my breast asking if I do examine it,immediately I collected that his stupid instrument and hit it on his head and used my shoe on him and I kept shouting till people came. I told my mum and she followed the case up. It happened in a general hospital. He faced the hospital committee . Women stop keeping quiet when been molested,stop it! Fight back

chachanga:
[size=14pt]Blog Reader Feels Molested by Male Doctor Who Squeezed Her Breasts[/size]

But why any self-respecting person would do this i just can't imagine! The woman should just take up the issue, abeg.

bettercreature:
She went for lump test,what does she expect the doctor to handle?
Go and ask how doctors normally fingers those who are seeking the fruit of the womb
Nonsense!

adorablepepple:
I would advice you to tell your husband because it once happened to me but it was while he was using his stethoscope on my chest and the next thing he started touching my breast asking if I do examine it,immediately I collected that his stupid instrument and hit it on his head and used my shoe on him and I kept shouting till people came. I told my mum and she followed the case up. It happened in a general hospital. He faced the hospital committee . Women stop keeping quiet when been molested,stop it! Fight back

Horlawale1:
Story that touches the heart breast.

Very Unprofessional

mommysgirl:
SMH That's y u can't be a doctor No offence

KingTom:
This one created a thread and called mods tire, mods no answer am. ChaI I feel bad for na.ughtynaughty

https://www.nairaland.com/2896032/lady-felt-molested-male-doctor

Royals1st:
U see why nigeria is so backward in some western and middle east and Asia country woman doctors attend to woman while man attend to man bcs such things has break many home to my advice pls dnt tell ur husband and keep a way from such hospital and again if am ur husband i will be very mad @ you simply u said he was playing withh ur tips and u stay that long and u saw the fool who called him self a doctor smiling and u waited that long that sounded like u enjoy the time he was playing with u anyway abi? If am ur husband i will be mad @ u gan

Ayauche:
U wasted time nah, as u noticed he wasn't doing the right thing u shud ve gotten up, u even saw him smiling, I swear I will give him a very resounding slap, that way no1 loose and I will get home and tell my hubby straight.

Chazzyboy:
u jail people

chachanga:
[size=14pt]Blog Reader Feels Molested by Male Doctor Who Squeezed Her Breasts[/size]

Hello Princess,
I dont know if I should tell my husband about this or just swallow it so as to avoid causing problems or a confrontation. I went to ****** hospital close at Alausa to check for chest lumps. A very young doctor came strolling in to the office where I was asked to wait. He looked so young that I was even tempted to ask him if he was really a doctor or was a student on houseman-ship but I decided to keep cool as he was wearing their white gown as was actually assigned to me by the admin at the general waiting area.
The hospital was actually recommended by my sister in-law who had her mammogram there. It was my first time and I was very uncomfortable when he asked me to remove my top and bra and then he started touching my breasts. I decided to close my eyes and wait for him to finish the examination. The touching soon turned to caressing and at a point he seen to concentrate on my nipple and to be honest, I have a very sensitive nipple and the always harden and jut out when touched (even breast feeding my babies felt that way)

This went on and on until I was almost shivering. I was embarrassed beyond words and wanted to ask if lumps form in the nipple area but i felt so violated to speak. I opened my eyes to tell him to stop only to discover that he was looking at me smiling sheepishly! All the while he’s been handling my breasts!


I felt so awful. I felt used and molested. He didn’t say a word, I removed his hands and dressed up while he continued smiling and then started saying some medical trash that didnt make no sense to me cos I wasnt listening anymore. When I finished dressing up, he even asked me to come back in 7 days time for another round of checks as I left his office.
This happened on Monday and up till now I have this heavy feeling of being violated by a kid. I still cannot calm down, as if I was defiled. I have been moody and unable to tell my husband. Please what should I do?



Your Thoughts?

http://fashionbuzz.tv/blog-reader-feels-molested-by-male-doctor-who-squeezed-her-breasts/#comment-4763

NB
Yeah, I know this was from an agony column on a 'blog' for Pete's sake but one can't be too careful these days as the #Endtimes chanters would wanna have you believe besides I'm yet to forget numerous tales of these pathetic souls who throw all caution to the winds on the path of destroying another's virtue and sanity (https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=doctor%20caught%20molesting%20patients&gws_rd=ssl).

But why any self-respecting person would do this i just can't imagine! The woman should just take up the issue, abeg.

drwebs:
@ Op, sorry for the way you felt. It happens especially as it was ur first time.

Next time, you can ask for a female doctor or a female nurse to accompany you, just simply explain that you won't be comfortable if it's a male.

Now to the issue at hand,
it's the normal procedure the doctor followed. In fact, I noticed the young man didn't even complete the examination propably because of the way you were feeling(guess that's what made him smile).
Before you examine a woman's breasts, you ask her to remove the bra to have full access.

Both breasts are examined even if it's one that's having problem.

The nipped are also examined and squeezed to check for any abnormal discharge which is also diagnostic.

The armpits are also examined for lumps.

After examining you while lying down, the doctor can ask you to sit up and do another series of examination. in fact, twice while sitting up.

I think you should simply overcome your anxiety and and the way you feel right now and go back for another examination as the doctor requested since you didn't even listen to what he said after the examination( You can ask for another doctor this time around).

You don't know what the doctor wrote down, it could be that he noticed something and requested you to come back. It could be he couldn't finish the examination because of the way you were responding and asked you to come back.

In these scenario, you ant hold the doctor responsible if you had a lump and he didn't detect it or send you to do the required investigations.

As regards to reporting the incident to your husband, you can go ahead, but let it be clear to you that you weren't molested, these are things you go through as a lady.

As you advice, you might need to be examined in your private part by a doctor, just prepare your mind for the worse if it's a government hospital, worse still, a teaching hospital because you might even be used by an intern or student to learn.

Once again, sorry for the way you felt embarrassed, it happens, sometimes the doctor might be the one that feels the way you do(esp if he stands attention while examining you), it doesn't mean he was having a good time. we are all human,

wagazala:
OP could be blowing this out of proportion. Is there anyway he could examine without actually touching them and caressing? Inexperience on the part of the Doc forced him to smile seeing how the patient is aroused by just a medical examination. Lastly, OP had her mind made up about the 'Young' Doc before he started examining her, there's nothing he would do that would be right in her eyes. Wonder if she would have felt the same way if it was an older doctor and the scenario played out exactly the same.

PS: to those who think the tip isn't to be examined:


Cover the entire breast from top to bottom, side to side — from your collarbone to the top of your abdomen, and from your armpit to your cleavage.

Follow a pattern to be sure that you cover the whole breast. You can begin at the Tip, moving in larger and larger circles until you reach the outer edge of the breast. You can also move your fingers up and down vertically, in rows, as if you were mowing a lawn.

Read rest at link below.

http://www.breastcancer.org/symptoms/testing/types/self_exam/bse_steps


Madam should have examined herself or insisted on a Female doc if she wasn't comfortable @ a younger doctor. Shikena.

Sohot1:
I can say the woman in question has inherent personality problems such that no matter who examined her, she would still misinterprete it.

Imagine her wanting to direct how the doctor should have and not have examined her....

Imagine her already assessing the doctor with a biased and judgemental mindset of being young and not old enough to be professional at his job....

The woman needs to see a psychiatrist/psychologist.

Besides, the ignorant woman called a doctor (house officer) a student?...I am speechless because he is a qualified medical doctor.

mommysgirl:
D judge sentence people not me

Roseey0:
Na so I go for malaria issue, this doc started asking me how often I checked my boobs for breast cancer. Asking me to allow him the professional do it.


From fever to breast test?

The thing wey pain me pass be say na old man. At his age and status, he was still looking for young boobs to press.SMH.

chachanga:
[size=14pt]Blog Reader Feels Molested by Male Doctor Who Squeezed Her Breasts[/size]

Hello Princess,
I dont know if I should tell my husband about this or just swallow it so as to avoid causing problems or a confrontation. I went to ****** hospital close at Alausa to check for chest lumps. A very young doctor came strolling in to the office where I was asked to wait. He looked so young that I was even tempted to ask him if he was really a doctor or was a student on houseman-ship but I decided to keep cool as he was wearing their white gown as was actually assigned to me by the admin at the general waiting area.
The hospital was actually recommended by my sister in-law who had her mammogram there. It was my first time and I was very uncomfortable when he asked me to remove my top and bra and then he started touching my breasts. I decided to close my eyes and wait for him to finish the examination. The touching soon turned to caressing and at a point he seen to concentrate on my nipple and to be honest, I have a very sensitive nipple and the always harden and jut out when touched (even breast feeding my babies felt that way)

This went on and on until I was almost shivering. I was embarrassed beyond words and wanted to ask if lumps form in the nipple area but i felt so violated to speak. I opened my eyes to tell him to stop only to discover that he was looking at me smiling sheepishly! All the while he’s been handling my breasts!


I felt so awful. I felt used and molested. He didn’t say a word, I removed his hands and dressed up while he continued smiling and then started saying some medical trash that didnt make no sense to me cos I wasnt listening anymore. When I finished dressing up, he even asked me to come back in 7 days time for another round of checks as I left his office.
This happened on Monday and up till now I have this heavy feeling of being violated by a kid. I still cannot calm down, as if I was defiled. I have been moody and unable to tell my husband. Please what should I do?



Your Thoughts?

http://fashionbuzz.tv/blog-reader-feels-molested-by-male-doctor-who-squeezed-her-breasts/#comment-4763

NB
Yeah, I know this was from an agony column on a 'blog' for Pete's sake but one can't be too careful these days as the #Endtimes chanters would wanna have you believe besides I'm yet to forget numerous tales of these pathetic souls who throw all caution to the winds on the path of destroying another's virtue and sanity (https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=doctor%20caught%20molesting%20patients&gws_rd=ssl).

But why any self-respecting person would do this i just can't imagine! The woman should just take up the issue, abeg.