Hi everyone, I just wanna use this medium to know if what I'm doing is wrong.
I have a boyfriend who loves me to death, the only problem is he's too overprotective, he doesn't like me going for parties or hanging out with guys or anything like that,I'm still young and I just wanna have a bit of fun while I'm in schl(he's 12 years older than I am) I'm schooling in the east and he's in lag. there's this other guy in schl here that I like and I've been cheating on my boyfriend with him, I love my boyfriend but hes so far away, I only see him when I'm on holz, I like the one in schl here too, he's about 3years older than I am. problem now is I always feel guilty cuz I know the one in lag ain't cheating and I just can't stop myself from cheating with this one because he's closer to me and I feel more compatible with this one, I'm confused I dunno what to do, shld I leave one or I shld continue with both of them cuz I like them both

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Cheating on two grown up guys at the same time is totally wrong.

Be careful!

dump the good, matured guy and continue with your cheat mate....... when the school guy dumps you dirty, you would know whether you were right or wrong....


the guy is only being a guardian angel trying to protect you so you wouldn't go astray...... well guess what.... you gradually turning your own life the wrong way

If u don't feel the connection with ur bf, then leave him.
how are you sure he ain't cheating on u over there?

buh u shouldn't have cheated on him. break it with him bfor jumping into another man's arms.

Why are you deceiving yourself?
Break up with the lagos guy if you feel the guy on school is the one you want to be with.
With all the possessiveness of the lagos guy,you are still in another guy's arms.The guy dey deceive himself.

What makes you think your older bf is not cheating on you too?
Overprotective men do worse, trust me.

The problem with most ladies of this generation is that they don't actually know the definition of "love"... & they are naturally confused.

OP I believe u are not a distance relationship kind of person just like me. I will advice u to tread carefully with the overprotective guy. Most of these people who are tagged "over protective" can be very dangerous... as for u & the second guy, I believe the chemistry is just right currently, enjoy it while it last. Cheers.

Is better u dump that sch lover b4 he dumps u I can bet wit anything that wen ur real dumps u, u won't survive it

Lyondavinci:
Trust Me you're not yet matured enough to be in a relationship, from the look of things you're prolly a teenager.

I'm not a teenager

u already knw wat to do!....stop asking us wat u already knw!

Cheaters.....Cheaters every where.

What do you mean by cheating? Have you both started fvcking?

Sheyb u can multi-task

kwantinew

LDR ish

delectablegyal:
What do you mean by cheating? Have you both started fvcking?

no we not fucking

You're cheating? Why are you still in a relationship? You should end your Lagos relationship.

Or you still want to be chopping his money so you can spend on your school boyfriend?

This is why working class guys should never date students.

kimnicki:

no we not fucking

e dey press your boobz and finger you?

If yes, you can call it cheating. If he is doing none of the above, you are not cheating, you are just having fun. Btw, 12yrs ? Dats huge. If you luv him, no shaking.

OP, how old are u that ur boy frnd is 12years older than u, if I'm even to blive dis story, but the age difference has just made me to see dis story as 1 of those super stories we read on NL. It was in the days of my father and mother that boy frnd will senior his bea for 10years, but such is very rare now. So OP, consider ur ways cos JESUS is coming soon.

If this your story is true, please expect this post to resurface later in the future when you will be frustrated that no man is coming to ask for your hand in marriage...

just continue being a bitchh dear, its not as bad as people make it out to be.
You loves him but fks the other guy bc he's far from her, are you sure you are a female? Hahahaha

You really playing a dangerous game.

I just pray nairaland no carry ur story again afta now.... Overprotective boyfriend beats lover 2 death...i dnt wanna c such a caption... Biko ... Repent.

Plenty money for bank and the pocket too fat when you see money dey fly na we be that all eyes on me I dey feel like 2pac anytime I comot the people be like who be that. na we be the niggas wey dey step in the club with a bullion van

Op u for do remix with nico and vince na

Why must ladies cheat and have school Boyfriends even when they have someone they love soo much at home...Once they get into school, the freedom makes them forget about everything and everyone...I always wonder if there is a "higher institution cheating spirit" that tends to possess them once they gain admission or maybe its just the "over excitement" that they are free at last..My opinion though....

kaziblake:
Cheating on two grown up guys at the same time is totally wrong.

Be careful!

so if one is grown up and the other a teen it's not wrong

delectablegyal:


e dey press your boobz and finger you?

If yes, you can call it cheating. If he is doing none of the above, you are not cheating, you are just having fun. Btw, 12yrs ? Dats huge. If you luv him, no shaking.

lol

you're complaining that he doesnt want u to go for parties n stuff and when ure away, u cheat... you're not serious yet na.