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Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by richyblink1(m): 7:38am On Feb 14, 2016
Your mom came visiting over the weekend. It was time for service on Sunday, you and wify are already seated in the car waiting for her to finish and join you guys. Only for her to come down and ask your wife to vacate the front seat for her.
You try pleading with mom to let wify be explaining to her that she(mom) always had the front seat with your dad without interference. But she won't have any of it.
For peace to reign you asked wify to come have the wheels so you could seat at the back while mom have the front seat. Mom equally refused saying she want to share the front seat with her son and no other person else she won't go for service.

Guys, what will be your next action?
Ladies, assuming you are the wife, what will you do?
Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by MrHighSea: 7:43am On Feb 14, 2016
Dts y I'm teaching her the owner's corner manual. Mum, you dnt need the other side of my bed, nor beside me while dinning, Mum, just be at the back, she refuses, tek her inside, ask her, to put herself in wify's shoes, reason wit am with red eyes n serious stern warning, she no gree, i zoom off. btw, l lyk it dt u switchd d steering with wify. NEVER LET MUM AV DT SEAT.
Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by JewelRegi(f): 7:45am On Feb 14, 2016
Are sure wify and ur mother u no get small matter. If am ur wify I will ignore it but it must nt happen nxt time if not no body go go anywhere.
Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by starpon1: 7:47am On Feb 14, 2016
i will ask my wife to go sit at d back, afterall she ve' been sitting in d front before mum cum visiting. Or rather we cancel going to church.
Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by ivyT(f): 7:47am On Feb 14, 2016
Odiegwu!

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Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by greatme2good(f): 7:59am On Feb 14, 2016
I will obey only for that day if i know shes really fond of her son,and my personal relationship with her is really palatable too.and also on the condition that she will never try it again. but if she's this insatiable mother inlaw n she's doing it intentionally to see what I will do,I will not come down or worst still everybody will enter public transport to church.

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Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by Khd95(m): 8:00am On Feb 14, 2016
That means we will ve d service @ homesad

my wife is d rightful owner of dat seat,cos na she i marry not my mum,nd na me buy my car not my mum,if she wants any front seat,she should go to her husband's cargringrin

i knw my lovely mum will never do such tho cool


did i make any sense

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Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by Nobody: 8:25am On Feb 14, 2016
Then we won't go to church. Let her go back to her husband(my father). She sat at d front with him bcus she was his wife not his mother so its my wife's time to enjoy d favor too. That my mum comes visiting does not change the fact that I remain the head of my home and my rules remain..its she that have to succumb to it. I won't bend my rules for her. She came visiting as a mummy not as a 2nd wife.

Except my wife agrees by herself to go to d back seat for peace sake and I'll compensate her for that but there will never be a 2nd time as I will call my mum aside and talk to her and go to my dad (her hubby) to call his wife to order b4 I now broadcast her wahala to d entire family.

My own mum no even fit try am with me she sef know. Apart from the fact that she's enlightened, I myself don dey give her smallsmall tough time upon say I never marry so when I marry she won't say its my wife making me change to her.

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Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by JustOzito(f): 8:33am On Feb 14, 2016
I will stop assuming
Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by Qualer: 8:49am On Feb 14, 2016
ivyT:
Odiegwu!

Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by veave(f): 8:59am On Feb 14, 2016
Dear Lord... Give me a reasonable mother in law and make me a sensible woman. Amen!!!

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Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by Nobody: 9:03am On Feb 14, 2016
She will return that very day to her house.
Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by DBestDoc(f): 9:53am On Feb 14, 2016
I will drive myself to church in my own car, case closed.

No time for crap.
Found myself in a similar situation sometime ago, though my Dad was the driver. We finished from an occasion and on our way out, someone asked for a ride.

As a matter of fact, we were already seated and about to take off but the guy walked up to my side of the car to take up the front seat where i was already.

I just moved to the back, in my heart i was feeling sorry for the guy and his reasoning.
What is the point really when everyone will still alight at the end of the day.

See a stranger feeling entitled, how much more a mother-inlaw. I go leave the yeye motor for she and her son, who get time for unnecessary drama?

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Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by ifyalways(f): 10:34am On Feb 14, 2016
Na only bush women dey fight over car sha.

What's the biggie? I as the DIL would change seats and balance well as the chairman then tease them both non-stop.

Anyways, not even a case for me. My MIL is not a bush woman. tongue
Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by Nobody: 11:23am On Feb 14, 2016
What nonsense. I wont have none of that,am married to my wife,and not my mum.
My mum enjoyed her hubby,let my wife enjoy me too.
Am the baba of the house,my rules,my decision binding on my mum.
Its my car,and not my mum's hubby's car
Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by Nobody: 12:30pm On Feb 14, 2016
Please where do you find these people from?
People fighting over car sits? I can't imagine such hogwash.

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Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by PresVA: 12:34pm On Feb 14, 2016
I will let her sit if that will make her genuinely happy. . She's only a visitor and will soon go...

I refuse to be bothered by flimsy stuffs. .. Can only be bothered if her sitting there will reduce my husband's love for me!

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Re: Guys, How Would You Handle A Situation Like This? by jashar(f): 4:31pm On Feb 14, 2016
...but what is so special about front seat sef?
A while ago, it was friend vs. Wife... another time sister vs.wife. ki ni de?

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