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Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by Dyt(f): 8:58am On Feb 19, 2016
ahnie:
you dey always fvck up.


You better goan attend to zino and Alex
cheesy grin grin
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by ahnie: 10:14am On Feb 19, 2016
Hahahaha achvist.
Dyt:


You better goan attend to zino and Alex cheesy grin grin
howdy?
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by Dyt(f): 10:23am On Feb 19, 2016
ahnie:
Hahahaha achvist.howdy?

Very fine jor
Wish I can go back home to rest
Its Friday mahn
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by ahnie: 10:26am On Feb 19, 2016
Are yu in pakistan?
Dyt:

Very fine jor Wish I can go back home to rest Its Friday mahn
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by ahnie: 10:26am On Feb 19, 2016
Are yu in pakistan?
Dyt:

Very fine jor Wish I can go back home to rest Its Friday mahn
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by Nobody: 10:49am On Feb 19, 2016
mattodunsi:
I have married for almost four years now, and the marriage is blessed with 2 children. However, i have a challenge that i have been battling for quite a while now which is inability to satisfy her on bed. I have taken all manner drugs prescribed by doctors, i have even taken different herbals medicine which has most times resulted to stooling for me, rather it is getting deteriorated by the day. Atimes i would have aroused her before i see jack robinson i have released and that is the end of whole thing. Now she is fed up and promised that if i didn‘t do anything about it, she will get her satisfaction else where. I am scared because i love her so dearly and i have promised my God that i will not divorce, but peradventure if i caught her in the act am afraid of my action. Please help me i have wasted enough money buy drugs ranging from medical to orthodox. If need be, you can take it to fp
Watch what you eat. Based on your post you suffer premature ejaculation, if you take beverages like coca-cola and the likes stop it and take nothing but water. Reduce your alcohol intake. If you drink tea or akamu with sugar start substituting the sugar with unadulterated honey.


Engage in rigorous exercise to burn fat and reduce your blood sugar level. Stop wearing pants if you do and wear boxers instead for easy penetration of air to your scrotal sac.


Lastly eats fruits and vegetables everyday. The lady I buy fruits from sells some fruits she says it's specifically for men, I will ask her for their names and send it you. In the main time maintain peace in your home.
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by Dyt(f): 11:03am On Feb 19, 2016
ahnie:
Are yu in pakistan?

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Namaste
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by ahnie: 11:33am On Feb 19, 2016
Is Namaste the capital of bauchi state?
Dyt:

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy Namaste
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by mattodunsi(m): 2:11pm On Feb 19, 2016
michymeg:
Watch what you eat. Based on your post you suffer premature ejaculation, if you take beverages like coca-cola and the likes stop it and take nothing but water. Reduce your alcohol intake. If you drink tea or akamu with sugar start substituting the sugar with unadulterated honey.


Engage in rigorous exercise to burn fat and reduce your blood sugar level. Stop wearing pants if you do and wear boxers instead for easy penetration of air to your scrotal sac.


Lastly eats fruits and vegetables everyday. The lady I buy fruits from sells some fruits she says it's specifically for men, I will ask her for their names and send it you. In the main time maintain peace in your home.
Thanks very much for your contribution, but i need to let you know that i dont usually take something sugary, infact water is my best drink. If i eat vegetable too much, it purges me. Moreso, i dont know what alchol tastes like.
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by dahmie2013: 3:41pm On Feb 19, 2016
Dere is a guy advertising one kind of oil here, samsu or so. U can give it a try.
https://www.nairaland.com/2913981/enhance-sexual-performance-samsu-oil
Dats d link.
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by Nobody: 4:06pm On Feb 19, 2016
mattodunsi:
Thanks very much for your contribution, but i need to let you know that i dont usually take something sugary, infact water is my best drink. If i eat vegetable too much, it purges me. Moreso, i dont know what alchol tastes like.
The vegetables I meant is not ugu, green or waterleaf. What I meant is vegetables like cabbage, celery and co. Don't eat too much at once.

A friend was in a similar situation sometime ago, I know what I am saying.herbal remedies and medical drugs won't give you a permanent solution. Too much use of sex enhancement drugs might make you develop poor eyesight in the long run.
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by marbee(f): 7:32pm On Feb 19, 2016
Your wife harsh sha,
Visit a medical specialist in that aspect, not just any doctor, you will definitely get cured.
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by oluafam: 8:32pm On Feb 19, 2016
For me, it's not how far but how well. You can last for 30 hrs yet can't take her to orgasm and if you don't take her to or gasm, then u haven't satisfied her.

Most women reach orgasm through karessing(fin gering). If your wife loves it, then you have no problem, just get to get down there and take her to the highest paradise and after that you can do your two minutes. And at the end everyone is satisfied, case closed. Believe me, if u do this very well, she may not even want you to mount her again.

While on this, you can gradually build on your confidence without being pressured.
I rest my case.
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by Nobody: 11:09pm On Feb 19, 2016
Unless you too are, you can never satisfy a sex machine. For now I would advise you to engage in prolonged romantic caressing before sex, that way your wife could be taken to dreamland quite easily.
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by raumdeuter: 11:25pm On Feb 19, 2016
Dyt:

Was it like this before or it changed mid way?
Are you having financial issues?

Important kweshon
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by HaneefahRN(f): 5:48am On Feb 20, 2016
First I feel ur pain and understand hw u must be feeling. Has it always been like this? I think ur wife shld be more understanding tho cos u'll most likely feel anxious wanting to please her and even worsen d situation. For now work more on ur pre-intimacy, knw where sets her off and maximize on it, u dnt av to penetrate b4 u can make her orgasm. Then if possible u can learn to distract urself or reduce stimulation when near so as to prolong it. Relax and free ur mind and don't be anxious. If u take alcohol or caffeinated drinks let go of them. All the best
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by Eketem: 7:26am On Feb 20, 2016
OGA GO AND SEE A DOCTOR haba for years you have been taking all sorts of concoctions it hasn't worked yet you are ignoring the advice to see qualified doctors to get to the root of your problem and accepting advice on more concoctions to take. When you kill your kidney and liver you will come and be asking for funds on nairaland.

Nigerians STOP SELF MEDICATION AND SELF DIAGNOSIS. Go to a certified government hospital and see a Urologist. Stop running around like a headless chicken drinking all sorts. You confessed you have wasted so much on quacks yet you are ready to take different things recommended by nairaland " doctors and pharmacists "

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Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by darlenese(f): 7:27am On Feb 20, 2016
Your wife is suppose to give u all the support u need in times like this, her attitude towards u can cause anxiety , and that can also contribute to ur present situation . what on earth will even make her to say she will find satisfaction elsewhere? Is she so selfish and heartless ? Did she marry u becos of ur sexual prowess only ? I'm a married woman too but I'm so disappointed at her!

Your problem may even be psychological
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by bobojoshua(m): 8:04am On Feb 20, 2016
dapsonlou:
My guy you are in luck, the Love doctor in here. Google China brush and see if you can get it in Nigeria, if not get Stud 100 and Spray it in you penis heavy. Come back and give me a feed back. I hv other tricks for you.
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by Sealeddeal(m): 11:19am On Feb 20, 2016
Op,your problem is called Premature Ejaculation and it's prevalent but treatable.The cause can be Psychological or Biological.From your explanation, its clear that anxiety could be the major contributory factor to yours presently due to your past failures and your wife's ultimatum.
I suggest that you see a Doctor personally while you and your wife should see a counselor.
Can you also tell me the names of the drugs you've taken so far which you claimed failed?
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by ogawisdom(m): 11:26am On Feb 20, 2016
mattodunsi:
I have married for almost four years now, and the marriage is blessed with 2 children. However, i have a challenge that i have been battling for quite a while now which is inability to satisfy her on bed. I have taken all manner drugs prescribed by doctors, i have even taken different herbals medicine which has most times resulted to stooling for me, rather it is getting deteriorated by the day. Atimes i would have aroused her before i see jack robinson i have released and that is the end of whole thing. Now she is fed up and promised that if i didn‘t do anything about it, she will get her satisfaction else where. I am scared because i love her so dearly and i have promised my God that i will not divorce, but peradventure if i caught her in the act am afraid of my action. Please help me i have wasted enough money buy drugs ranging from medical to orthodox. If need be, you can take it to fp

Quick fix - drink alomo bitters u will surely give testimony infact she will beg u to release dt she is tired tongue
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by Nobody: 11:28am On Feb 20, 2016
Please invest in going to see a proper specialist
It will save you your health, time, money, peace of mind and marriage in the long run
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by dapsonlou(m): 12:08pm On Feb 21, 2016
mattodunsi:
Thanks my brother, but where can it be found in Nigeria.


You can get the stud100 from any major Pharmacy. The China Brush is the best, you can go 3days without releasing

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Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by Nobody: 12:26pm On Feb 21, 2016
According to the information below:

"Green vegetables contain chlorophyll which is very similar to our blood. When you consume green vegetables, the chlorophyll allows blood to transport oxygen to cells. Foods that are rich in chlorophyll include broccoli, kale, romaine lettuce, spirulina, chlorella and blue-green algae. Foods rich in iron like wild game, and beans, B-12, fish, eggs and cheese. And copper, chocolate, nuts and seeds can boost oxygen by delivering oxygen to the muscles once the food is broken down metabolically".

Based on the above information, you need a lot of blood to flow into your erectile area. In other words, you need to start eating right which l believed 'Greatgod2012' had also given you a piece of advice regarding this.

Avoid sugar intake, do minimum exercise, remain calm before making love to your wife...l would also advise you guys practice MouthAction before taking it to the next level. You give her intense stimulation via her clitoris and she gives you bj, yet it's got to be by mutual consent. Also, let your mindset be set on pleasing her cause a larger percentage of good sex is based on a balanced mindset. Don't let the pleasures take over your mind, kindly learn to control it. Stay cool!
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by VitaminB12(m): 7:50am On Feb 22, 2016
mattodunsi:
I have married for almost four years now, and the marriage is blessed with 2 children. However, i have a challenge that i have been battling for quite a while now which is inability to satisfy her on bed. I have taken all manner drugs prescribed by doctors, i have even taken different herbals medicine which has most times resulted to stooling for me, rather it is getting deteriorated by the day. Atimes i would have aroused her before i see jack robinson i have released and that is the end of whole thing. Now she is fed up and promised that if i didn‘t do anything about it, she will get her satisfaction else where. I am scared because i love her so dearly and i have promised my God that i will not divorce, but peradventure if i caught her in the act am afraid of my action. Please help me i have wasted enough money buy drugs ranging from medical to orthodox. If need be, you can take it to fp
If you want to fix this the natural way, the first thing you need to do is to stop all sugar intake including junk foods (meatpies, eggrolls, burgers, sharwarmas, ice creams e.t.c), replace your sugar with honey. Then take variety of fruits and vegetables like banana, carrots, cucumber and watermelon. Then get a clove of garlic, blend half of it and mix with a half glass of warm water and drink at night once a week. Equally be drinking herbal bitters like Goko cleanser or Ashetu. Am a living testimony as I last much more longer now than before. Its sweet to see your woman satisfied by you

Also psychologically, battle your anxiety by first controlling your urge to expunge. This you can practice by ceasing your urine midway while urinating. Goodluck

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Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by cococandy(f): 8:49am On Feb 22, 2016
OP, this.
PresVA:
Firstly, your wife has to be patient and work with you... putting pressure on you will worsen it.. her threatening to go outside for satisfaction is utter nonsense to me ... You're willing to deal with the situation, why can't she just support you?

Coming to your issue, could it be you're always so anxious during sex? Because I know lasting long in bed has a lot to do with the mind..how relaxed you're et al..

Also, have you considered satisfying your wife through the oral route? Most women experience orgasm through @ral sex.. then, hand stimulation too..

You can also consider seeing a good urologist.
All the best...

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Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by Tallest744(m): 2:09pm On Feb 22, 2016
[quote author=bobojoshua post=43085272][/quote]


You can as well get Samsu Oil, it works just like China brush. it contain a mild anesthetic that temporarily numbs the skin of the male sexual organ. It's mainly made of root extracts called ZINGIBERIS RHIZOMA. It turns you from a one minute man to a 30 minutes guy. You can visit http://loversnest..com.ng/2016/02/introducing-samsu-oil.html for more information and where to get Samsu Oil.
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by IamUmason(m): 3:44pm On Feb 24, 2016
get 3 big onions grind or blend them and mix with a glass of pure honey. take a spoonful after meals while it lasts. don't thank me thank GOD
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by bobojoshua(m): 5:35pm On Feb 24, 2016
VitaminB12:
If you want to fix this the natural way, the first thing you need to do is to stop all sugar intake including junk foods (meatpies, eggrolls, burgers, sharwarmas, ice creams e.t.c), replace your sugar with honey. Then take variety of fruits and vegetables like banana, carrots, cucumber and watermelon. Then get a clove of garlic, blend half of it and mix with a half glass of warm water and drink at night once a week. Equally be drinking herbal bitters like Goko cleanser or Ashetu. Am a living testimony as I last much more longer now than before. Its sweet to see your woman satisfied by you

Also psychologically, battle your anxiety by first controlling your urge to expunge. This you can practice by ceasing your urine midway while urinating. Goodluck
Re: Help Me To Save My Marriage by bobojoshua(m): 5:37pm On Feb 24, 2016
IamUmason:
get 3 big onions grind or blend them and mix with a glass of pure honey. take a spoonful after meals while it lasts. don't thank me thank GOD

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