A program was held in my Church yesterday for only men. The Pastor that preached said " THE BEST HUSBAND IS A WOMAN WRAPPER" And that all the men should love their wives to the extend people call them woman wrapper.

Do you agree with this Pastor?

I concur

of cos that's the truth becuase when you love your wife and can do anything for her like carry her bag, open the door for her, been sweet and sensitive,defending her in public, correcting her in love Etc people tend to see you as weak thus the woman wrapper phrase

Oyind17:
A program was held in my Church yesterday for only men. The Pastor that preached said " THE BEST HUSBAND IS A WOMAN WRAPPER" And that all the men should love their wives to the extend people call them woman wrapper.

Do you agree with this Pastor?

I agree
But he should have also added that the best wife for the husband woman wrapper is a ruth aboko ku
That way they are complimenting each other
and its not just one person doing all the work while the other one doesn't lift a finger.

tearoses:


I agree
But he should have also added that the best wife for the husband woman wrapper is a ruth aboko ku
That way they are complimenting each other
and its not just one person doing all the work while the other one doesn't lift a finger.

He was talking to the men alone

Oyind17:

He was talking to the men alone

Was it just a mens meeting?

tearoses:

Was it just a mens meeting?

Yes Sir! If men turn woman wrapper women will be submissive

Oyind17:
A program was held in my Church yesterday for only men. The Pastor that preached said " THE BEST HUSBAND IS A WOMAN WRAPPER" And that all the men should love their wives to the extend people call them woman wrapper.

Do you agree with this Pastor?

Na wa o!

Are you still feeling bad over people asking you not to meddle in your brother's marriage?

https://www.nairaland.com/2824892/brother-like-houseboy-wife

Oyind17:

Yes Sir!
If men turn woman wrapper women will be submissive

I understand better
The pastor is right
I am also assuming that he will say the same to the women at a women's meeting

Oyind17:

Yes Sir!
If men turn woman wrapper women will be submissive

Hahaha
Its not that simple my brother.
For a woman to be submissive to her husband there has to be love yes, but there also has to he dignity and authority.
However I get your point.

EfemenaXY:


Na wa o!

Are you still feeling bad over people asking you not to meddle in your brother's marriage?

https://www.nairaland.com/2824892/brother-like-houseboy-wife

Nairalanders and their wahala

True words there

Story. I ain't gonna be any woman wrapper to no woman. I know just how to wow and treat a woman right but I'm not going to discard my mother wit in doing so neither am I going to be a flunky coz I want to be seen as romantic.

This remind me of this joke.

The pastor announces, “If you know your wife is controlling you, move to the left.”All the men in the church moved to left except one. The pastor was amused & asked,“How come your wife can't control you?
The man quietly replies, “Pastor, it’s my wife who told me not to move".

ronald4lif:
Story. I ain't gonna be any woman wrapper to no woman. I know just how to wow and treat a woman right but I'm not going to discard my mother wit in doing so neither am I going to be a flunky coz I want to be seen as romantic.

Ronald Ronald you never still change na new year be this oo lol good morning

The best husband isn't necessarily a woman wrapper. .it's just the way we perceive men that treat their wives well that makes us see them as woman wrapper. ..

Nevertheless, it's not such a bad thing to be a 'woman wrapper' to your wife.. I know I can be my husband's wrapper anytime any day. .. our satisfaction is what matters most!

Blade21:
Ronald Ronald you never still change na new year be this oo lol good morning

Ayaf change o, but don't know if it's for the better or worse.

Good day.

OP your thread is nice but it's unfortunate you have a little bone to crack with your e-frenemies

Oyind17:

Nairalanders and their wahala

If I remember clearly, na you get wahala with how you brother chooses to run his matrimonial home.

What you need to understand Oyind17 is that where couples are concerned, what outsiders think of them is of little relevance to them especially if they're happy i.e: in this instance, a man and his wife.

There is no one-size-fits-all.

EfemenaXY:


If I remember clearly, na you get wahala with how you brother chooses to run his matrimonial home.

What you need to understand Oyind17 is that where couples are concerned, what outsiders think of them is of little relevance to them especially if they're happy i.e: in this instance, a man and his wife.

There is no one-size-fits-all.

Now I know better, this is a Pastor speaking to men not my words sir/ma

Oyind17:

Now I know better, this is a Pastor speaking to men not my words sir/ma

Then that "pastor" of yours has got a hidden agenda.

Why use a derogatory phrase to describe a loving and caring husband?

EfemenaXY:


If I remember clearly, na you get wahala with how you brother chooses to run his matrimonial home.

What you need to understand Oyind17 is that where couples are concerned, what outsiders think of them is of little relevance to them especially if they're happy i.e: in this instance, a man and his wife.

There is no one-size-fits-all.

Many posters misinterpreted that particular thread. I had a conversation with Oyind and from all we discussed, the man (her bro) is not happy in the marriage as of that period.

That case is different from a happy married man washing, for instance, his wife's feet and pant at the market square. If I meet such a man, I won't interrupt cos he's happy.

If I visit my brother and I find him doing certain things (grudgingly), I don't think I will keep quiet. In fact, many ladies who commented on that thread cannot bear the sight of their brothers washing their sister in law's pant, happily or not.

Most people misinterpreted her point and judged her wrongly. A sad and unhappy man deserves to be happy. Marriage is not a licence to remain sad and die in silence.

Acidosis:


Many posters misinterpreted that particular thread. I had a conversation with Oyind and from all we discussed, the man (her bro) is not happy in the marriage as of that period.

That case is different from a happy married man washing, for instance, his wife's feet and pant at the market square. If I meet such a man, I won't interrupt cos he's happy.

If I visit my brother and I find him doing certain things (grudgingly), I don't think I will keep quiet. In fact, many ladies who commented on that thread cannot bear the sight of their brothers washing their sister in law's pant, happily or not.

Most people misinterpreted her point and judged her wrongly. A sad and unhappy man deserves to be happy. Marriage is not a licence to remain sad and die in silence.

You even get time, are you a woman wrapper ?

please continue with your quest in destroyin your brothers home.

Oyind17:

Take your ugly self off my mention!! you are trying too hard to be heard

have a nice day.