No matter how aggravated you may be and no matter how sure you think you know what caused a misunderstanding between a couple,before you interfere please note that there are always 3 sides to the story.

1.Her version.
2.His version
3.The truth

Ironically there is usually something neither of the two will hardly voice out and that is always most likely the cause of the problem yet they may never voice it out.

This is why we must be extremely careful to judge or mediate in any marital or even any man and woman love affair because at the end,you will be put in the middle and your good intentions will be seen as sinister.

So when next anybody comes to you asking you to mediate in any romantic fiasco,please start your advice by saying..."IF WHAT YOU JUST SAID IS TRUE"...So that at the end you will be exulnurated.

Be wise.

Not even only married couples, it also applies in normal fights between every day people we interact wth, any time I see two people fight I don't interfere ever since I read in the bible this passage that says " he meddleth in a strife belonging to another,he's like one who pulleth a dog by it's ears ( pro 26 vs 17)

Hmmmm.

you are right op....same thing happened in my neighbourhood last month.

Yeah sure....unless yhur a Marriage counselor stay out of their "As.s holes"......

Are u talking from experience? U can as well share it with us

Couple often settle with the judge, this has been case.

kingofchess:
you are right op....same thing happened in my neighbourhood last month.

There is rarely a grandmaster in the game of chess.

fromnigeria:
There is rarely a grandmaster in the game of chess.

u r looking at 1. I am the king of chess. no1 can stand me

Op is right!

kingofchess:
u r looking at 1. I am the king of chess. no1 can stand me

We've seen your type fall in less than four moves.

Spot on

Hmmmm... Lecturer time never reach u don dey go, wait now

Me ke

Very right of the op.

I've stopped interfering in marital affairs since last 5 years.

Husband and wife that we knew that they've been separated by the bride mother because the husband is irresponsible. A drunkard.

The wife swore to high heaven that, nothing will bring them back together again.

We all believed they've been separated for good cos the girl attitude obviously indicated that.
Everyone in the street knew they're no more 2gether again.

We're surprised when we saw the wife tommy started shutting out. Thats pregnancy.

When asked, who's responsible. She said, its her husband. So, u guys are meeting behind and fucking eachother. While, we all believed, they've been seperated.

Moral lessons: All what everyone said abt the man, how they adviced her to leave the man. Who adviced her. This gal told the man. its the man who said all what everyone said the day he had misunderstanding with someone in the street.

So, mind ur biz!!!!!!!!!

I dnt waste my time listening to any party. i just jump into conclusion

I don't no why my mind can never allow me separate or meddle with couples in their misunderstandings. Even if they are fighting as my neighbors in the same building, I go just do eyes right and forward March. Its all these third parties that hits the straw that breaks the camels back in broken homes.

jonaifame22:
Not even only married couples, it also applies in normal fights between every day people we interact wth, any time I see two people fight I don't interfere ever since I read in the bible this passage that says " he meddleth in a strife belonging to another,he's like one who pulleth a dog by it's ears

How is your ever reliable Mouka foam?

.."IF WHAT YOU JUST SAID IS TRUE".
Wise Words op.

True

Taken.

[size=14pt]YOU CAN ONLY BE AS SUCCESSFUL AS USIAN BOLT IF YOU LEARN TO STAY ON YOUR OWN LANE[/size]

Life is more cool when you cut drama out of your life by separating yourself from controversial issues and crowd.
In summary stay on your own lane! live peaceful and fulfilled life!

Okinawa

Ok

Hehehehhehe.......depends