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Please Help by Nobody: 9:49pm On Feb 25, 2016
Please help I am Bukunmi a newlywed and I've only been married for 6 months. I married the man I considered the love of my life, my best friend and confidant. We dated for about a year before we got engaged, and he told me that he wanted to abstain from sex, to which I agreed. We've never really had any major issues since we got married. He's a good man and very responsible too. The only problem is in the area of "lovemaking". Honestly, it's been a very bad experience for me. He really doesn't care at all if I'm satisfied or not. I was faking it initially but after a while, I couldn't hide it anymore. Each time I express my concern to him, he dismisses me and says there are more important things than sex. It's so bad right now that I fantasize about sleeping with one of my exes. I don't want to continue like this, it's too early in my marriage but I feel sex-starved. Bukunmi needs your advice.
Re: Please Help by Donexy16(m): 10:06pm On Feb 25, 2016
well, that's Wah hapns wen u taste d fruit b4 marriage. Stedi comparison and alwys never satisfied. However, i think you really need to talk to him abt it. He may be the type dat sees sex as specifically for reproductive purpose. teach him styles n if possible you can get som adult materials dat can build his sexual skills. Buh pls dnt cheat on him. #peace
Re: Please Help by Adasun(m): 10:17pm On Feb 25, 2016
op cheating is not an option.hope u knw dat
Re: Please Help by Nobody: 10:19pm On Feb 25, 2016
U want to go back to ur exes because sex, continue
Re: Please Help by Nobody: 10:28pm On Feb 25, 2016
Op tell am. If he no hear then report to pastor. If pastor no fit solve am, gimme ya contact I go do u well na my special area be that. Anything under d skirt starting with letter V is my special area.
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